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Anonymous users2024-02-09When you enter the school for the first time, it is excellent to prepare some local specialties. After all, everyone comes from all over the motherland, no longer just like in high school, everyone comes from the same place, and tasting the food from all over the world will definitely be a special medicine to bring each other closer.
However, it should be noted that there should not be too many hometown specialties with you, because as soon as school starts, there may be a lot of specialties from all over the country, and there are not so many places to put and eat.
It's a bit of a waste to bring too much, but it's a good idea to bring a little bit.
Second, the bed problem, don't use the robbery, try to discuss.
Because most of the specific beds in the dormitory are decided by the individual, the school will not have specific regulations. Everyone must also have their own favorite bed, some think it is good to be by the window, and some think it is convenient to have a bunk, which is understandable. But in fact, the dormitory is so small, and the difference in location is not very big.
So don't think about the first day of school, I have to be in a state of tearing in order to occupy a bed that I am satisfied with.
Let's think about it, if everyone formed a bond on the first day of meeting, how much effort would it take to "turn enemies into friends" in the future?
So, if you really have an obsession with a certain bed, on the one hand, you still have to adjust your attitude, and on the other hand, you can go to the dormitory a day early, or wait to discuss and communicate with your roommates.
Third, the health of the dormitory, who will clean the dormitory?
In a dormitory, there must be someone who loves cleanliness like a person with cleanliness, and there must be someone who can survive in any environment without informality.
If it is not handled well, it is easy for the two to look at each other. In order to keep the dormitory clean and make the dormitory still an environment suitable for human survival, it is necessary to clean the dormitory regularly.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08You may both have introverted personalities, live together every day, and you are not a child, don't be too restrained, take the initiative yourself, see what hobbies you have in common, and you can participate together. Living together every day doesn't take much care of each other, how uncomfortable it is.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07It's normal to drift away from friends or fight out of school because our living environment, social circles, and daily experiences are changing, and our relationships are changing as a result. Here are the possible reasons:
1.Lifestyle changes: After leaving school, everyone around them will face changes, and may pursue a more stable and mature lifestyle, and may even live independently. This can also affect our social circle and group of friends.
2.Different needs: As people grow older and their personalities mature, people's needs and values change. It may be that the former friendship can no longer meet each other's needs, and with it, drifting apart and discord.
3.Geographical reasons: Sometimes, the relationship between friends is limited by geographical location, and they may be disconnected due to reasons such as distance or moving.
4.Ideological conflict: It is also possible to quarrel or even break up between friends due to some irreconcilable differences or conflicts in values.
In short, the relationship between friends will fluctuate and change, and sometimes they will encounter a cold war, and they can pursue reunion through communication; Sometimes you may have to choose to quit silently, because changes in the trajectory of life in daily life are always inevitable. However, this change is not necessarily a bad thing, and friends can also find new people to socialize with and share common interests, which can also be beneficial for the development and growth of life.
1. Don't meddle in things. Each of us remembers private things, has our own life circle, with roommates, more to get along with them, what private matters they have, don't ask too much, if they want to tell you, you listen carefully, don't make your own remarks, you can give them appropriate advice, but don't say too much, if people don't want to tell you, don't ask about these things, let alone say bad things about them behind their backs, just manage your own affairs, don't take care of other people's affairs too much. >>>More
From the relationship between my college roommates, I learned not to be too attentive to others, just click on it, don't always be stupid to give everything you have to each other, and leave room for it. There is also the difference in the three views, don't go together, you have to have your own ideas.
When doing something, try not to affect others, consider the feelings of others, and don't just look out for yourself. For example, when you come back late at night and others have already rested, don't make a loud noise, but be gentle, or when you get up early in the morning.
I try to be alone in everything, go to bed early at night, wake up early in the morning, and don't have so many worries. Try to laugh and talk about everything with your roommates, after all, don't hit smiling people. You have to understand that roommates are always roommates, and classmates are always classmates.
Since you know that you and your roommate are not in tune, then don't force both parties to have a deeper relationship, so you should treat this relationship correctly.