Falling in love with someone who she can t possibly have results!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hey, forget it, just break up, the ending may be more miserable.

    But don't think about these questions now, love well.

    With such a heavy burden, you will have neither a happy present nor a happy future.

    But put that aside, or take your time to prepare, and you will have a happy present and possibly a happy future!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    But because of my timidity, I gave up the first love in my life. Regret. So I don't want anyone to be wrong like that again. Actually, as long as you are brave.

    told her. You like her. Didn't expect anything in return from her. Just tell her. There is a person who loves her! Maybe a miracle happens. Hehe.

    The voice of an 18-year-old boy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you truly love each other, it is possible to come together at any time.

    It's your stuff that's yours in the end, and it's not your stuff that you can't get if you force it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How do you know that there can't be results? What kind of pear flavor is you need to taste yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Loving him doesn't have to be him, just having him happy! ok

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Does falling in love have to work out? All you need is a good memory! At least the memories are sweet!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can also be good friends. You can't lose a friendship just because you can't get her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then give up! This kind of love is not interesting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't hurt each other if you know that there is no result.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I haven't tried it, how do you know it won't work!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You've got the answer.

    It's hard to do, though.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is blind, don't care so much, carry out love to the end!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Look at your own thoughts, I feel that there is no need to waste time and youth, good boys are everywhere Since he can't give you happiness, why hang yourself on this tree and go out for more walks! The big tree has.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Last year I met a boy, at first I didn't think about what to do with him, but then we went through some things together, and at his request, I agreed to be his girlfriend, and slowly fell in love with him... But then I found out that he had two other girls in his heart, and when I asked him, he only told me not to think about it messily, and he didn't explain. I felt like I had been deceived, and there were indelible traces of him before, and I knew that I couldn't be with him before.

    During the Spring Festival, the family introduced an object, the first time we met, it felt okay, and I also wanted to forget the past, so I was in a relationship with the one introduced by the family, and now everything is going well, although I can't talk about falling in love with him, but at least I won't think about it every day.

    If you find that you are in love with someone who is unlikely to have results, then give up early, otherwise it will hurt the most in the end, insist on not contacting him, delete his mobile phone number, QQ number, so that you can't get any information about him,,, it may be a little uncomfortable at first, some pain, and slowly get used to it.

    This is my experience and I hope it helps you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Unless it's gay, it's your inferiority complex, and I also exist in the heart of the latter, but love doesn't dare to love, and you have no reason to live.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    To be honest, I advise you to give up! But love is not something that you just give up, it's a very painful process! However, you can also persevere, only the result you already know!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Give up, I'm also going through it ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's complicated, it's hard!

    All in all, it's important to be sure of how you really feel in order to make the right decisions!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Aiyo, you should consult a psychiatrist. I don't understand it either. I don't think it's trendy? Didn't understand, didn't understand at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    ………Actually, you can ask me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Time will make us grow Nothing.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After striving for it, if you work hard or not, give up, and when you work hard, you should understand her situation, such as whether she thinks about it

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let's see if the man is sincere.

    If not, the kind of thing you want to play with you will have to snatch her back.

    If it's sincere. Bless her. Although this one is painful.

    You don't want her to have too much trouble, do you?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Every time I come across this kind of topic, it's very sad, and it's painful to ask for it. I wish you happiness. Very happy!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell her, if you don't give me a chance, I won't give you a chance to let me give up on you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's better to die before it's too late, it's useless.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Before the ending, why do you know that there is no ending, and what is the ending you are looking forward to? Leaving is an ending, and holding hands is also an ending. This title reminds me of a group of people, in China, their relationship is considered unfilial by the post-60s, absurd by the post-70s, and tragedy by the post-80s (mostly), but they are still fearless, and there are very few people who are happy with each other, and even fewer who can have a so-called happy ending in their love.

    Even if it is a person, they still work hard, of course they are not stupid, they also know that this love is as fragile as the wings of a cicada, and they understand that this love only withers after it blossoms, so they only want to bloom like fireworks in the night sky. Because when they were still seeds, they had learned to wither before they bloomed.

    This analogy just wants to tell you not to start lightly, but to have the courage to let go once you start.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Just tell yourself that you loved him, and don't think about anything else.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains and bias towards the tigers, you know what the final result is.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Gently come and go gently.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Falling in love with someone can make you feel bad, especially when you feel that there is no ending, but you haven't tried and faced it, how do you know that there is no ending?

    Love needs to be managed, because people's feelings are from nothing to something, from confusion to clarity, no matter what? Only if you try it will you know if there is a result.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let go as soon as possible! I have the same experience, and I say this because I think that maybe you were in that fruitless unrequited love time, maybe the true destiny has appeared, but you lingered in that relationship and didn't realize it, what a pity!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    One is to give up, but not to end.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Then we have to enjoy the process, but it's better to leave early, otherwise it will be painful. My friend is like that, and he turns out ...

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Do everything in your power to turn it into a good ending 、、、

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You can take a look at Eileen Chang's book. The answer can be found there, because she herself is in love with someone she shouldn't love, and she can't extricate herself.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't ask for results, just ask for what you once had, there are many such examples in real life, I am like this, family reasons make us have to break up, it's really painful, but there is no way, some people can only remember, some things can only be recalled, no one can do anything about the years that have passed in life, whether it has been loved, hated, happy, sad, has been turned over that page by time, every inch of time and an inch of gray, half an inch is left for yesterday, half an inch to keep today. Time will wash away everything, so let's face it happily.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You don't need to complain about loving someone, even if there is no ending, then you think about it yourself, you really have to give, you really love, you haven't been sorry for anyone, you just haven't had it, this is destiny, you have pursued! I have been happy, happiness is enough, nothing can be exchanged!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A few years later, when you look back at this experience, you will think that you were stupid and naïve.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you really fall in love with someone who has no ending, don't give up, bury it in your heart, there will always be a chance to make you happy and satisfied, and there will always be something touching if you insist...

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Sometimes I feel that it is not appropriate, and I still can't bear to let go, for fear of hurting people, but for the sake of happiness in the future, sometimes people should be ruthless, especially this kind of thing, at this time, you can put down other things and be a villain·· I wish you happiness.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    1. Let go. 2. Persistent pursuit.

    Maybe a miracle will happen, as long as it's two people who love each other.

    Lovers eventually become married.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There will be at the end, take your time, persistence is victory

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Then you give up this love.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I have the same problem as you.

    There is no way. I'm consuming.

    Didn't have the courage to let go.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's the process that matters. Sometimes the ending doesn't matter that much. Don't let yourself regret it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    At least you didn't miss out on your love, but don't get caught up in it.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Let it go, or it will be more painful in the future.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    If you really love, then you have loved it, and you will regret it later.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Do an analysis. Do you think your dad is important or is he important? It's hard for you to be together without the blessing of your parents.

    After all, it's not just the two of you who will live together in the future, even if the two of you move out to live, you still have to see your parents and spend the New Year with your parents. So in any case, at least the parents of both sides need to not object.

    As for the love you are talking about. This thing is too ethereal. Materialization points are required.

    How much do you feel in love? For example, how many ** a day, what do you talk about, the degree of tacit understanding, the degree to which he understands you, and the degree to which you understand him. The more specific this thing is, the better.

    After sorting it out in this way, it will also help you convince parents on both sides.

    Mom and Dad want you to find someone who is good for you. Whether you are worthy or not, in fact, is whether it is good for you or not. There are material and spiritual. The geographical location is far away because they are not sure whether the man can always be good to you and hesitate.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    You can't hide from it, and you can't chase it.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Just miss it!! Missing is also a kind of beauty.,It's only been a year.,Since there are so many can't.,Only give up.。。 For the sake of my father, let's be realistic... Make yourself happy, make yourself less embarrassed, be kind to yourself, silly girl.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    How to say it, since he loves each other so much, then he should be willing to make some sacrifices, go to your hometown and give you the opportunity to fulfill your filial piety first, and let him stay in your house with you now.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    A person, in a lifetime, will always have such a profound emotional experience, unforgettable, unrelenting, unspeakable, unloving, bitter lovesickness, but there is nothing to be done, can only let a deeply loved heart, silently bear, miss, suffer.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You can't hide from it, and you can't chase it.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    I can't see the future, and I don't know what I'm holding onto.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Give up decisively, what you like but can't get is always beautiful, leave a dream, it's good.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    If you love Shang, you will love Shang, and Aishang may not be able to be together, does it matter?

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Can you tell us who he is?

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Save that love and don't move it.

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