I want to break up with my boyfriend, but his buddy calls to question my reason, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello girl:

    I don't think you need to worry about this situation, the reason why you are entangled is because of the bits and pieces with him before. I felt that I didn't love it anymore and left, and I became a negative person in their eyes. Not really!

    I think what you lack in this situation is to face it rationally and lack some courage.

    Does the fact that you are not in love show that you are in love with someone else? Since you don't love, you have to make it clear that this kind of entanglement is actually a harm to others, and only those who don't love have the courage to leave.

    Be responsible for others and be responsible for yourself, and you're right.

    Where to go and how to choose, only you know in your heart!

    It's easier said than done, and I know it very well, unless it's really not in love. If you don't love it, please don't be nostalgic. Feelings are not child's play, nor are they emotional bargaining chips. It's good if you're happy! (I also want to say this to her whom I once loved so much) Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Emotional things can't be forced, since there is no emotion, why should they be forced together? Believe in time, it will take everything. At the same time, you can also tell his buddy what you think, tell your boyfriend, see where the problem is, don't give up if you can fix it, let it go if you can't force it, time will take away everything.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Directly analyze the reasons for your breakup! It doesn't matter if you tell his buddy, he'll judge the way and what to tell your boyfriend for himself! It's best to convince his buddy first, so that he can also help persuade your boyfriend!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's just say you're tired and want to rest! This one works best! Don't say anything else, and if he's still pestering you, tell him you've had enough!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no reason to fall in love, so what is the reason to break up? Love is a matter of two people, barely come, if you are sure that you don't love him, no matter what others say, you can't love him, you soften, and the last regret will be you, alas, everything is fate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just say to his buddy, if you really want to be good for him, go and persuade him to cheer him up instead of coming and talking to me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you want to break up, you don't have to say anything, QQ doesn't reply, text messages don't reply, ** don't answer, my girlfriend is like this, QQ deletes, mobile phone number is blacked, text messages don't reply, friends network, QQ space can't get in, everything is broken, it's been more than three months now, and it's almost all divided!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Oh, you just throw a sentence, "Please don't meddle in our business, you know?" "Make sure he won't talk to him again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Talk about your true thoughts, after all, if you really don't love it, there's no point in reluctantly being together again, isn't it?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why do you want to find a reason to break up? I don't feel it anymore, and if you don't divide it, you will feel uncomfortable with each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't feel anything with him, split up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The only way to deal with this kind of situation is to deal with it with a shrewd attitude.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Say whatever you think about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Hello dear, your boyfriend broke up with you, and if you contact him, he will contact you, but he just says that you are not good. This shows that your boyfriend wants you to change. If you can make changes according to his requirements, then he will still be willing to reconcile with you.

    My boyfriend broke up with me, contacted him and he contacted me, saying that I was not good.

    Hello dear, your boyfriend broke up with you, and if you contact him, he will contact you, but he just says that you are not good. This shows that your boyfriend wants you to change. If you can make changes according to his requirements, then he will still be willing to reconcile with you.

    He said I didn't know him, nothing or anything, and he also contacted my ex-husband, and he believed that my ex-husband didn't believe me.

    Hello dear, this means that your ex-husband said something bad to you in front of him.

    Then how do I solve it, I told him that you have to see how I treat you, you believe him, he will not say good about me.

    Yes, your ex-husband doesn't want you to be with this man and will definitely not say good things about you.

    How long have you been with your boyfriend?

    It's been more than a year, what kind of person he is.

    Explain that your boyfriend is a relatively timid person. He is more prone to gains and losses.

    It's the feeling of being afraid of wolves and tigers.

    How to solve it, he was afraid of marrying and divorcing me, and I said that I would divorce several times.

    This will take time to work out, because he doesn't believe in you right now. Then you have to be good to him consistently. And ask your ex-husband not to say anything bad to you again.

    I was very angry yesterday and he said that what I said to my ex-husband was different, I said do you believe me or believe him, you have to see how I treat you, I was very angry yesterday, I said you are always like this, either you let me delete it, or I let you delete it, don't hurt the other party anymore, it's really not good.

    Yes, life is like this, if you stop moving forward because you are afraid of this.

    There is no way to go on with a lot of things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dear landlord, I am very scared to see other people's replies, this kind of thing must be calm and objective.

    First, you text him and say that you love him, but as soon as you come up, you say that he is the most timid and irresponsible, and whether it is or not, men always want their women to worship themselves, and you talk like this without considering his self-esteem, isn't it, this is not a good habit. I think to love someone is to give a little more kindness to him, right?

    Second, he can see between the lines that he is very wronged, no matter who is wrong, grievances mean that there are feelings, doesn't it? Men often have no grace like a child, because their girlfriend is the second mother, and it is difficult to hold on to their mother.

    Third, this is very comedic, the landlord is very aggrieved, and women often need to be cared for like children, because the boyfriend is the second father, and you need broad shoulders.

    Dear, don't look at those irresponsible replies, you remember, you have to judge many things for yourself, he takes you very seriously, if both questions are answered in the affirmative, then you have to put down the shelf, let go of the cruel words, you give him gentleness, he gives you chest. Isn't that what love is all about? Pain and joy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of cheap man, I have seen a lot, and among the shameless men in society, this kind of man is this kind of man.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This kind of man is useless, just ignore him, it's so ugly, it's still like that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Make yourself worthwhile and make him unworthy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As deep as love goes, so does hate.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In anger, maybe I love you too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You women are angry back, we men coax you, have you thought about our feelings?

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