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Cultivate objective, truthful, and scientific judgmental thinking. Only by having the right attitude towards everything and everything can we have the right attitude.
Science has provided mankind with a correct way to understand oneself and oneself, and from the perspective of human history of two or three million years, everyone should understand that they are just ordinary creatures that have multiplied from living beings. Accept your ordinary. It is also goodbye to a person's arrogance and self-reliance in the ignorance period, learn to interact with others, learn to live, in fact, there is no need to deliberately learn, people will naturally have answers to these things as they grow older.
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After God finished making man, He destroyed the mold, so that we can always perfect ourselves and discover new selves.
To truly understand yourself, you don't have to be too rigid about other people's opinions for a while.
Think about how you usually behave and how others react.
When I feel that others are bad, I think about whether they are really bad or not, whether there is a problem with my own opinion.
Or do some better psychological tests, the kind that is formal and have a whole set, and know your temperament (psychological temperament).
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You all said well, I also have a small suggestion, in fact, depending on what kind of person you are, when you interact with others, you can read it on other people's faces, as long as you observe carefully.
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Let your friends who you are in contact with regularly point out your strengths and weaknesses and analyze them.
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Ask a friend to talk about it, summarize it, and you'll know.
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Correctly understand the meaning, way, and method of self.
What is the correct understanding of the self? How should we understand ourselves correctly? What are the ways to get to know yourself correctly?
1) Correct self-understanding means that a person's self-understanding should be consistent with the actual situation of the self. It has two meanings: a correct and comprehensive understanding of one's own characteristics and strengths.
Correctly understand the relationship between self and society, individual and collective. Realize that the growth of the individual is inseparable from the collective, and the value of one's life is mainly in the contribution to society.
2) People are always evolving and changing. Therefore, we need to constantly update and improve our understanding of ourselves, so that we can make ourselves better and more perfect, and to understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective: To understand ourselves comprehensively, we must not only know our own external image, such as appearance, clothing, manners, demeanor, and conversation, but also know our own internal qualities, such as knowledge, psychology, morality, ability, etc.
A person's beauty should be the harmony and unity of external beauty and inner beauty, and inner beauty plays a role in promoting external beauty. To understand ourselves comprehensively, we must not only see our own strengths and strengths, but also see our own shortcomings and shortcomings. Because, each of us has its own advantages and internal qualities, and has its own shortcomings, as the so-called "gold is not enough, no one is perfect", we have their own shortcomings, but at the same time, everyone also has their own shining point.
We should pay more attention to our strengths and strengths, and look at ourselves with appreciation, even if you may have many shortcomings. Because only by looking up to yourself can we know ourselves correctly. In the face of the complicated world of life, if you focus on pain and trouble, life will be eclipsed; If you turn your gaze to happiness, you will be happy.
In the same way, in the face of yourself, if you only see your own shortcomings and shortcomings, you will be pessimistic and disappointed, and stop moving; If you can see your strengths, your strengths, you will be confident and ready to meet life's challenges. But if we only see our own strengths and can't see our own shortcomings, "look at ourselves as a flower, look at other people's tofu dregs", and use our own strengths to compare others' shortcomings, we will be complacent
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Hello, I think that you can know yourself through the following waysFirst, know yourself through self-observation. To know ourselves, we must be a caring person, often reflect on our performance in daily life, summarize what kind of person we are, and find out our strengths and weaknesses. Self-observation is an important way for us to educate ourselves and improve ourselves.
Second, know yourself through the evaluation of others. We all know that "bystanders are clear", "people can be seen in the mirror", in the process of knowing ourselves, we must take the initiative to understand ourselves from others. We need to listen to the evaluations of others with an open mind, and at the same time, analyze the evaluations of others objectively and calmly, so that we can understand ourselves from multiple perspectives.
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Know yourself through self-observation. Awareness of one's various physical and mental states and interpersonal relationships, i.e., the physiological, psychological, and social selves. Know yourself through the evaluation of others.
It is better to know yourself through society than to know yourself through volcanic fire. Self-observation and the evaluation of others will inevitably have their own subjective projections, so we can better understand ourselves through reasonable social comparisons. Know yourself through social practice.
We can get to know ourselves by participating in various activities and according to the process and results of various activities. Keep more diaries and record yourself, summarize and be good at summarizing your strengths and weaknesses in a timely manner, and better grasp your physiological, psychological and social self.
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