If someone who loves you keeps hurting you, how can the relationship continue?

If my suggestion is to separate Luo, a person who always makes you hurt, what is the point of continuing to love so hard, so that everyone is tired, and it is even worse to marry you!

Is it necessary to continue such feelings? If love becomes a hurt, what's the use of keeping it?

If he loves you, he won't hurt you, and he won't hurt ......you all the time

Don't continue to lie to yourself that he still loves you, let it go, he leaves you, hurts you, it's his loss!

If that's the case, then there's no need for this relationship to continue.

Encountering a person who has hurt oneself, and this person was once one's beloved, is indeed an extremely painful thing, in the face of this situation, we need to let ourselves out of the haze of emotions as soon as possible, and do not fall into the past, otherwise we will only let ourselves live in the abyss of pain. My personal advice is to help yourself get through the pain with the help of the following:

1. Go out for a walk.

If you stay at home alone, it is easy to get cranky, so you can consider going out for a few days to relax. A different environment can bring us a different visual experience and thus have a different mood. When we go out to enjoy the beautiful scenery of nature, our mood will also improve quickly.

2. Divert attention.

If you don't have a vacation to go out, you can also turn your attention to your busy work. We feel sad because we still have the time and energy to think about love. Once we're busy enough to fly and even need to squeeze out time to eat and sleep, we won't be bothered by emotions anymore.

When we are busy for a while, we will find that we have unconsciously passed the hurdle of being hurt by others, and we will no longer be tormented by a certain relationship or a certain person in the middle of the night.

3. Choose the right outlet channel.

If the above two methods do not work, then you can also choose a more suitable way to vent according to your own situation, you can refer to the practices of some successful people: for example, some people like to eat sweets after falling out of love, because sweets can bring happiness; For example, some people like to watch some light-hearted and funny short** or variety shows after falling out of love, so that they can get short-term happiness; Some people choose to chase idols, because some idols do have a full of positive energy, which not only brings us happiness, but also inspires us to move forward better and become better people.

Traveling to divert your attention, let yourself know the culture of other cities, will make you relaxed, will not be anxious, will not be nervous, back to the city should focus on work, you can meet other friends of the opposite sex can participate in the party.

You can talk to your good friends, or you can tell your parents, you will get a good link, you will get a good release, and finally the other party will give you some reasonable advice.

Many people will be hurt in their relationship, and if they encounter this situation, they can complain to their friends, or make an appointment to travel to dilute everything.

The power of a man to hurt you is given by you, be a woman with a bottom line.

Why some girls are always hurt in their relationships, you will understand after reading this.

Because you gave him the confidence to be unscrupulous.

Try to seriously check yourself to see if you are living in a positive emotional situation. Count it again, you are also equal, cherishing that you have no regrets, silently caring and guarding you; Or someone who has nurtured or nurtured you? Like family, like good friends.

Will you inadvertently ignore the people who have been silently and unconditionally caring for you? In the depths of their implicit hearts, will they also deeply care about you from time to time, thinking about whether you are peaceful, smooth, joyful, happy, and progressive in life? For those who truly care for themselves unconditionally.

Have you reciprocated your gratitude to them in a timely and relative manner with sincere actions?

Encourage you to slowly let go of your hands, and at the same time, also turn your attachment to this fate that cannot be forced for the time being into the driving force behind caring for yourself and the people who really care for you.

Because I have experienced the same emotional distress, I have also been confused for a while. Later, I found that this would add a psychological burden to the person who really cared for me, so I actively compensated, and it turned out that I came out in this way.

After a while, when you also discover and feel the positive value behind this trouble, congratulations, uncle is here to shake your hand.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. Mediocre life, without purpose.

Love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

There are some people who you have watched for a lifetime, but have ignored it for a lifetime; There are people you look at, but it affects your life; Some people are enthusiastic about you, but you are quietly neglected; Some people's unintentional expressions have become your eternal thoughts; Some people have been in love for many years, but you have rejected them for many years. Maybe that's life. Every one of us misses something every day, misses it without realizing it, and regrets it afterwards.

So, I think it's best not to miss two things: someone who truly loves you and the last car home...