Learn to comfort your classmates, and how to reply to the comfort of your classmates

Classmates are the people who have the most contact with themselves in school, and they know how to take care of their classmates' feelings in order to get along well with their classmates.

When students are sad and frustrated, we must learn to dedicate our love and attention, learn to encourage and help them, so that they can get rid of bad emotions as soon as possible, so as to promote the feelings of our classmates, and at the same time, we can also make the atmosphere between each other more harmonious and beautiful.

So how do we comfort our classmates? I think when they are unhappy, we just need to stand by their side, hold their hand, let the temperature of the palm convey my concern for him at this time, or pat him on the back to make him feel that there is still someone standing behind him to support him and encourage him, so that he will not always be immersed in his own pain. The important thing is that when something sad happens to a classmate, we should not rub salt on other people's wounds, but should gently comfort them, and show that we will always stand with them and face them with them.

I hope everyone can learn to comfort their classmates, so that everyone can have less pain and more happiness!

Not a single point, and there is still a request to say a few words out of compassion! If you fall out of love, you can accompany Xuexue to relax, and in a refreshing environment, accompany Xuexue to chat! I had to bring out her grief as much as possible!

You are the best, and we believe you can beat the disease!

Please be kind to yourself, and a good attitude can lead to a healthy life, accompanied by a lifetime.

Great love in the world, care for and help the patient, I wish it soon**.

May health and peace accompany you, and may good luck and good fortune be by your side.

May you leave your illness early and return to happiness and happiness.

Health, Peace, Happiness and Happiness!

Light an auspicious fire for you, and may your good luck last.

May good luck be with you, health and you forever, peace and all the best.

If a classmate is sick, you can try again, give some small gifts, say some reassuring words, so that he can treat the disease with peace of mind, try to mention the topic of illness as little as possible, and say something pleasant, which will be better for the classmate.

A1When you are tired, you must be sleepy; When you are tired, remember to rest; When you are busy, adjust your schedule; Forget, remember to remember; When you are idle, don't forget to contact; Tell me to keep it in mind; Pay attention to the physical fitness; I wish you good health and happiness in all your lives.

2.The clouds of longing carry away my greetings, and the cool breeze carries away my wishes. May all your troubles be put aside, all your happiness will stay by your side, your body will be healthy as soon as possible, and your life will be safe forever!

3.The warm food and water heating are not as warm as the heart, the lights are not as bright as the heart, the house is good and the car is not as good as the body, sooner or later my blessing hope is just right, friends wish you good health and early discharge.

4.Enthusiasm should endure, faith should always be undefeated, may your illness become a passing cloud, never come again, envelop you will always be healthy care, let the distress, boredom, pain, helplessness hell to hell! Wishing good health and a long smile!

5.It doesn't matter if you're sick, who are you afraid of, the road of life is not smooth, friendship is not bitter, I wish you to get through this difficulty, don't turn on the road to health, I wish you an early **!

6.To be healthy and beautiful, friends can't love the sick bed, a text message is sent forward, I am concerned about your health, don't live up to the good times, come to gather early, I wish friends a soon**!

1. A bouquet of flowers expresses warmth, and a basket of fruits represents concern, and life is always accompanied by health.

2. Good health, all the best, a long life, as blessed as the East China Sea, and longevity than Nanshan!

3. You are the best, we believe you can beat the disease!

4. Please be kind to yourself, a good attitude can be healthy for a lifetime, accompanied by a lifetime.

5. Great love in the world, care for and help patients, and wish for a speedy future.

6. May health and peace accompany you, and may that good luck and good fortune be by your side.

If a classmate is sick, if you want to comfort her, you want him, don't be in a hurry, rest well, eat and drink well, and wait a few days to get sick.

You just say, "Dear, take good care of your illness!" Don't worry about studying, if you can trust me, can I take the time to help you with your homework? Hope you can do it soon**!

We must actively cooperate with the doctors, be optimistic about life, and look forward to your early arrival and a bright tomorrow.

When a classmate is sick, he can only be told to treat the disease with peace of mind, and it is good to treat the disease by opening his mind.

Advise him to see a doctor as soon as possible and not delay his condition. Don't be overly nervous and sad.

You can comfort your classmates like this:

1. Healthy notes, with the wind and rain, drift into your heart, the melody of peace, like flowers, shining in your eyes, I wish you an early **, return to a happy life, back to our side.

2. I turn countless thoughts into infinite blessings in my heart, silently pray for you, and we look forward to seeing your vigorous figure and strong body again soon! Your friends' deep love for you will always protect you, and a thousand words will turn into a blessing, and we will all love you more than before! Where the sun shines, there is my silent blessing, when the moonlight shines on the earth, there is my silent prayer, and I make a wish the moment the meteor crosses:

Hope you get soon**!

3. Send you a lily: one petal is a wish; One petal is wishful; One petal is auspicious; One petal is peace; One petal is healthy; One petal is warmth, and the other petal is happiness! Honey, you have to ** soon!

4. Your health is our happiness; Your well-being is our peace. Your smile is our wish! Friends, I sincerely wish you a speedy **!

5. Injections and medicines, can't go out tasteless, I can understand the mood, calm down, when you are sick, your friends have been thinking about you, silently praying for you: I hope you will be ** as soon as possible.

Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Summary. The comfort of the classmates can be replied in this way. 1.

Thank you very much for comforting me, making me feel really cheerful now, and thank you for being by my side as always, making me feel that having your company is a happy life! 2.Although there are many unsatisfactory things in life, you can comfort me, be by my side, and be by my side during my difficult times, this is the depth of all your feelings for me, and I feel that it doesn't matter anymore!

The comfort of the classmates can be replied in this way. 1.Thank you very much for your comfort to me, let me feel really cheerful now, and thank you for being by my side as always, making me feel that having your company Pizen is a happy life!

2.Although there are many unsatisfactory things in life, you can comfort me, be by my side, and be by my side in my difficult times, this is the depth of all your feelings for me, and I feel that it doesn't matter now!

When others comfort you, of course, the first thing is to say thank you. The key is to listen to the regression and understand the content of the discourse. Someone comfort itself makes people feel warm and warm, people living in the world will inevitably have a lot of unsatisfactory things, there will be setbacks and failures, and setbacks and failures are valuable assets to promote everyone's growth, to have an indomitable spirit.

When a classmate is sick, you can comfort him in this way, mainly to enlighten and persuade him!

When I learned that you were sick, did you really worry a little and feel better? Does it still hurt Jian Zhen Jujube? Don't forget to take your medicine. The pain is not pleasant, I hope you rest more and don't forget to take medicine. I wish you a speedy and healthy life!

You have been in the hospital for several days, turning countless thoughts into infinite blessings in your heart, silently praying for you, wishing you a speedy recovery! We look forward to seeing you again soon in full swing and in good health.

As the saying goes, the body is the capital of the revolution, and health is the guarantee of success. Congratulations on earning back your capital, getting security again, your health will definitely get better and better, and we will work hard together when you return to primary school.

It is inevitable that the world will face many things that are unwilling to face Xiangxiang, such as illness or injury. So don't give up on yourself because of a small setback, that will only increase the frustration, but be strong because you are the best.

You have to believe that after the wind and rain are dismantled, the rainbow will appear, and the body will be healthy after the illness, and you will not owe health from now on, your spirit will be refreshing and sweet, you will be healthy and happy to make money, and your life will be beautiful and happy!

1. People, in the rolling judgment hall and the red dust, sometimes feel very tired! The feeling of being tired is an indescribable taste, and sometimes I feel helpless, sour and bitter.

2. If you work hard, you can't get the fruits in front of you. Dear friends, please don't be angry, treat it as a seed and stay for the next flowering season!

3. When you're tired, just take a break, right? Turn yourself into that insignificant speck of dust, drift past, and dig a stool to enjoy the short peace after landing on the ground!

4. Everyone has the shoals of life, don't we often say that failure is success, success after failure is sweeter and unforgettable, don't you want to taste it?

5. Maybe, get to know you. It's just a dream, a broken dream, and in the end the heart is still a scar. Acquaintances can't love each other, and in the end they still break up.

6. Thinking too much will only make you sad, and how can sad people find an outlet. Comments: A song that can be used to comfort others, and it includes the truth of life.

A paragraph of comfort to the classmates is as follows:

A forgetful grass for my mercy you, may it make you forget your sorrows and troubles; A four-leaf clover for my dear you, may it bring you luck and happiness. No matter how sad the time is, I will spend it with you, and no matter how difficult things are, I will help you overcome them, so don't be sad and don't be irritable, you still have me.

Comfort

Comfort is a Chinese word, pronounced ānwèi. It means to settle and soothe, to lighten, soothe, or encourage with joy, hope, assurance, and compassion. Synonyms are soothing, relieving, appeased, etc.

Comfort is also a behavioral noun and verb. Comfort can be psychologically satisfied, not Ah Q-style self-deception, but an understanding of the status quo, understanding that it is impossible for oneself to be so complacent all the time, or that this is God testing oneself, and people who are happy will comfort themselves or seek comfort, so that they can be happy.

Comforting techniques

Everyone has their own way of living, their own pain is clear, their own grievances are clear, and their own happiness is felt. Maybe the hell in your own eyes is heaven in the eyes of others; Maybe the heaven in your own eyes is the hell in the eyes of others.

If you don't be a slave of desire, people always sigh that "moths to the fire", people always ridicule "the fish takes the bait", and people always laugh at "falling into the quagmire". But if you think about it for yourself. Is there less tragedy of this desire in or around us? No man is content.

When students encounter setbacks or problems, many teachers either advise them to "stop crying, be strong". Either help analyze the problem and tell him "what you should do", and some people will criticize the other person: "I told you a long time ago, who told you not to listen to my advice......In fact, these practices not only do not comfort the person, but also make the other person more sad.

Therefore, to comfort students, we should also talk about psychological skills, and give the most intimate comfort according to the other party's psychological activities.

Listen to the other person's distress.

Due to differences in life experience, family background, education, etc., each person has a different understanding of distress. Therefore, when trying to comfort a person, it is important to first understand his distress.

To comfort people, listening is more important than speaking. A depressed heart needs a gentle listening ear, not a logical, well-organized head. Listening is to listen to the other person's voice with our ears and hearts, not to ask about the cause and effect of things, and not to rush to judgment, but to give the other person space so that he can freely express his feelings.

When listening, empathize with the fact that even though students are young, they are aware of our inner turmoil. If we can "grieve his sorrow and rejoice in his happiness" for what happened to him, this is the best help for the comforted person.

Be accepting of each other's world.

The biggest obstacle to reassuring students is often the teacher's inability to understand, experience, and agree with the distress that the person perceives. It is easy for people to limit the definition of distress to the scope of their own understanding, and once they exceed this range, it is "suffering" that makes no sense. Because the students do not take the "suffering" of the students seriously, it is easy for the teacher to resist in the process of listening and can't wait to put forward his own opinions.

Therefore, the teacher needs to let go of his own deep-seated beliefs, admit his biases, and truly put himself in the other person's shoes to see the problems he faces.

This is what psychologists say, "let go of your own world and accept other people's worlds". The best way for teachers to comfort them is to temporarily let go of themselves, go into the inner world of students, and look at what students are experiencing with their own eyes without judgment.

Explore the path the other person has taken.

We teachers often feel obligated to come up with solutions for our students. As everyone knows, almost every student who is tormented by distress has had a series of continuous attempts and failures before seeking comfort. So, what we have to do is to explore the path the student has taken, to understand his struggle, to make him heard, to be understood, to be recognized, and to tell him that he has done enough, that is a comfort.

Psychologists remind us of an important idea: "Comfort is not the same as **." ** It is to make people change, to stop suffering through change; Comfort, on the other hand, is to affirm one's suffering, not to try to stop one's suffering.

In fact, in the process of comforting students, any solution offered is likely to fail or not work, and the other person will be disappointed again, so listening, understanding and acknowledging his distress without intervening or giving insight is the highest principle of comfort.