Is it advisable to marry a very material girlfriend? What would happen to your girlfriend if she was

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A very material girlfriend is not advisable, because a very material girl, he and she will have very high requirements for material things, and it may be mercenary, so such a girl is not advisable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Thou shalt not marry. This kind of girl may leave you at some point, find someone with good conditions and leave you far away.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A very material girlfriend is also desirable, because some material women do not mean that she can do anything for money. Well, then she is materialistic because she feels that life is inseparable from material. Well, you can um, make his life better, make him feel happier.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, because after marriage, he will get angry with you because of material things, have conflicts, and will not understand your hard work, but will only make you angry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is not advisable because a material girl generally only has money in his eyes, and if you are down, he may betray you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, a very material girl is desirable, and he is very good at his own home. Girls are generally very materialistic.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now it's basically a girl, it's all very materialistic, like this kind of girl, as long as it's not too excessive, of course it's desirable, because if you want to marry someone who is not material, it's basically impossible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is recommended not to marry a very material girlfriend.

    Otherwise, such a marriage will be very hard.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A very material girlfriend can actually be obtained, mainly depending on your feelings for him!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If a girlfriend is very materialistic, then you should know that after getting married, she will definitely not do anything, just ask you for money, then can you accept it?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Material girls can also be obtained, depending on whether he has love or not. Is it good for parents?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think if it's a particularly material girlfriend, then don't go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, everyone is a saint, you can't even give him a material foundation, why should he marry a girl like you, I'm not disgusted,

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Such a girlfriend, first of all, you have to have strong mental pressure, and you must accept his material, otherwise you will be very uncomfortable if you marry him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Very material girlfriend, is it desirable? I think if you want to marry her, you have to hit your girlfriend's condition first!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It depends on whether you can accept his material level, and if there is no material, whether you still love you, consider it comprehensively, right?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, a very material girlfriend can be married, but you yourself want to hlop her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If I meet such a woman, I should let go in time, I think Su Xiangmao is too persistent, and he is not sure what kind of person loves him.

    The most fearful thing for a man to marry a wife is to marry a woman like Zhai Xinxin, who has no sincerity for you at all, and will do everything possible to squeeze you dry. The biggest revelation of this case to men is how to tell that a woman truly loves you and really wants to live with you.

    Whether a person lives well in this life is directly related to what kind of woman he marries. Good women prosper three generations, bad women destroy three generations, this is the valuable experience summed up by the predecessors with practice, which is full of bitterness, Juzhengdan is full of tears, full of bitterness, but also full of helplessness and sorrow. Therefore, I hope that our male compatriots must keep their eyes open when choosing a mate, not only look at the facial features, but also pay attention to the three views, pay attention to everyone is disturbing the product, do not obstruct the eyes, do not see Mount Tai, thus causing lifelong hatred.

    Graceful and luxurious, gentle and elegant, knowledgeable and courteous, empathetic, temperamental beauty, slender, love each other for a lifetime, respect each other, understand each other, dignified and beautiful wife makes himself lucky, family and everything is prosperous.

    I think that a good woman not only knows how to respect her husband, but also knows how to respect her husband's family, relatives and friends, knows how to respect her in-laws, and teaches her husband and children, so that her husband can feel the warmth of the family and have no worries, so as to devote himself to work with a hundred times more energy.

    A good woman is like a flower that can never be defeated, exuding a charming fragrance from beginning to end, and a good woman is like a pool of sweet spring water that can never flow, sending her husband a steady stream of nourishment and strength.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    See if she is self-aware of herself.

    I had a friend on a blind date before, the girl's conditions are not good, they are not good, they are not good, they are a bunch of requirements, my friend is also average, the kind of million but more economical, that day I went to meet and drove a broken car, saying that I would send people back to the woman and not go up, and I took a motorcycle and left.

    Looking back, I don't know who I heard my friend say that my friend's conditions are okay, so he said a lot of funny things, such a woman will only make people look down on him.

    On the contrary, when she met this girlfriend, she said that she had been poor since she was a child, and she worked her own, so she planned to find a good one, so that her children would not suffer like herself in the future, saying that men have no money and no car now, but they want to be motivated, she can support them without money, how do two people struggle, and strive to buy a house in the city for two years, my friend chose her without saying a word.

    Whether a girl who is too realistic or not is good or not, this opinion varies from person to person. Some girls themselves are well-off and have high incomes. So she didn't care too much about that.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Most people will think that it is not good, but everything must have a degree, depending on the essence, it depends on the material to which step, if the material exceeds the person, of course, it is not good, but if the person puts the first material condition, of course, the better the person, the more people will see, which is understandable.

    Hope it helps.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on whether his girlfriend's boyfriend is capable or not, and if her material requirements are a drop in the bucket for his financial resources, then of course it doesn't matter. If you don't have that financial resources, you have to think carefully.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think I can accept it. I give you two suggestions for such girls!

    The first option is to break up with your girlfriend, a material girl will have more conflicts in your relationship in the future, then you might as well give up now, while you are still not deep, you can find a better girl when you leave. Such a girl will have more unsatisfactory things when you get along in the future, and what will you do when the time comes, at that time you will regret why you did not make a correct decision at that time. At that time, there will be no regret medicine.

    The second is that you have to work hard to give your girlfriend what she wants, because you really love your girlfriend very much, no matter how you try to convince yourself that you can't give up your girlfriend, then you will work harder and be a successful man, then you can give your girlfriend the material life she wants.

    Although it is difficult to make money now, you must also know that anything that can be done with money in today's society is not a thing. There are only two options in front of you, one is to give up on your girlfriend, which you can't do. Then you can only become a better version of yourself, and you have to work hard to make money and give your girlfriend the material life she wants.

    In short, I think two people know whether their shoes fit or not, happiness belongs to you, other people's suggestions are just suggestions, you still have to look at your own situation to deal with it!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I wasn't willing to accept a particularly material girlfriend. Everyone is very realistic, but I think it's too materialistic, too obvious, and I feel tired when I'm around people like that.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is unacceptable that although the economic base determines the superstructure, the most important thing for two people together is feelings rather than material, and the feelings of two people cannot be based on material, so it is not necessary to have such feelings.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, I can understand that girls like beautiful things, and I support them, but if it's particularly materialistic, I can't accept it, because two people still have to return to life together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I can accept it, I won't go to this kind of girl if I don't have the ability, I definitely just want a guarantee for her, I think it's just that my ability is not enough, I can't afford her. That's what I think.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't accept a girlfriend who is particularly materialistic, if you are material-based and only focus on material, I think such a person lacks humanity and compassion, and when he takes material as the first place, he puts people last.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course not. If a woman has a strong desire for material things, it is something that no one can fulfill, because she will always have the next desire behind. Even if I had a lot of money, I couldn't accept it, because I didn't know if I would be rich forever.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If she doesn't have the financial means herself, and keeps asking me to buy it for her, and likes to compare and wear famous brands, then I won't like such a girl.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Since she doesn't ask you to buy anything, it means that she is not as materialistic as you think. There is non-material love in this world, but it depends on your fate. It is natural for girls to love beauty, and she pays attention to brands because she loves beauty, you can talk about those inferior ones such as clothes, *** ones are generally brands, and inferior ones are generally only twenty or thirty, can it be the same?

    As a girl, when you are in love, you don't want each other's things, that is, the family education is good, and the moral character is noble. Besides, does she have to get your approval to buy things for herself? You think like this, it's a little too selfish and unreasonable, right?!

    You can't think that other girls are superficial just because you were bitten by a snake. If you are not happy, you are so calculating, so should you calculate your feelings for her or her feelings for you? So as not to suffer yourself??!

    Feelings are a matter of two people, and love must be managed well to have a time to blossom and bear fruit. Careful thinking can only bring unnecessary troubles and confusion to love. Since you have chosen to love her well, you must tolerate all that she brings to you, as long as you treat each other sincerely in love, you will get along with each other, and those who care about gains and losses are regrets in addition to loss.

    One meaning, is you thinking too much, or are you not trying to love her with all your might? It's okay if you're sensitive, but if you're too sensitive and cranky, there aren't many girls like her anymore, and eventually she'll leave you. Think about it yourself, do you change your mentality?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Are you okay? I think it's normal for a girl to spend one or two thousand a month, you don't know that I met a girl from Jiujiang, Jiangxi Province in Shenzhen, who is very materialistic, and she spent 100,000 yuan a month. So it's up to you how you measure. It depends on the individual's financial conditions.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This girl loves you, she buys clothes and cosmetics, she loves the nature of all girls, she is beautiful and you have a light on your face. She loves you, don't miss her, good girl. She said that if there is no her name on the house, it will feel like it is not her home, she is just insecure about the future...

    So don't let her down.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, first of all, you can be sure that the girl has a crush on you.

    Secondly, the girl has some vanity and strong desires, as well as a strong possessiveness, which is her own character (the smaller the desire, the easier it is to satisfy in all aspects, and the greater the desire, the more difficult it is to satisfy).

    The material woman is not counted, the material woman is the kind of person who attaches too much importance to the material, but does not pay attention to the spiritual realm, from your description I feel that she is just ambitious (I don't know if this word is accurate) is relatively large, if you can satisfy her, you are just as happy, she is worried that her character is too demanding, and you can't afford it (I don't know if you have this ability in the future).

    The above is for your reference!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    She just has her own ideas and pursuits in some way, if she is really a material woman, how can she not spend your money, she just doesn't have much sense of security for you, if you make up your mind to give her a commitment, she will also pay more to you. In addition, some concepts are not the same as yours, girls think it would be better to be more delicate, and they are not material women.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's just say you're too sensitive. Let me start by saying, first of all, your girlfriend has a job of her own, doesn't spend your money, and sometimes spends it on you. She doesn't want your money.

    You have to be clear. Material women generally have ten yuan for themselves, and they have to buy a hundred things, which is considered material. And your income is relatively not low, your living standards have gone up, and your consumption is naturally higher than that of ordinary people, which is a normal phenomenon.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Simply return the deposit to zero at one time, experience the days of poverty, and everything will be clear.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I really don't want to say more, although teaching people to break up is not my forte, nor is it my preference, but I think your love for her is slowly turning from love to hate. After all, you've already started to ask of her, such as not spending too much money on dressing up. And she only accepts her opinions, and her attitude is the same, and you are the same, she also has requirements for you, and you are also accepting your opinions and attitudes are the same.

    Disagreements were born from that moment. I can tell you for sure that being together is to be accommodated by one party to the other party to be eternal, ask yourself, can you accommodate a woman like her for a lifetime, if not, stop as soon as possible, don't give the so-called reluctant feelings to lead you to the valley and then kick you down to die.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    My girlfriend has a high income, high consumption, and a brand, but she doesn't ask you for things, she shouldn't be an absolute material woman, but it's not completely distracted from materialism, however, it seems to be fair to say that she is a bit like a material woman.

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