Did he lie to me when he said he had a girlfriend?

Whether it's true or false doesn't matter as much as you think If your boyfriend is a man who dares to make decisions, it means that he really doesn't want to be with you anymore It's possible to have a girlfriend After all, long-distance relationships are difficult for you to control It's also possible for you to say family pressure and so on Let him make a decision But since he made a decision, do you think the one who loves you and the one you love deeply Will he come back again No, he has already chosen not to love you and said to you Such cruel words means that he has made a decision You will not have that kind of thing when you return to him The feeling of love Since you are separated from each other, the man is unwilling to give you a guarantee He chose to give up the relationship with you Is this man still worth your pay and love I know that these may be extremely cruel to you But many times it cannot be changed Many times people can only be submissive When you are freed from the relationship, you will know that when the man hurts you, he really doesn't love you !

If you don't feel wrong, you can see that your boyfriend is doing this for your own good, this is a white lie. But I'm really worried that you will go to him without hesitation and try your best to save this relationship, to be honest, no matter how much you "struggle", it may not end well, you may be more hurt, let it go! Although it will be painful, love also has to face the reality.

ps Although he is for your good, a man who can be so decisive is not suitable for a sensitive woman, and if he can face and bear it with you before a tricky problem, such a man is worthy of your love!

He's doing it for your own good. He said that because he was afraid that he would not be able to give you happiness.

Whatever the reason, let him go, the feelings are for two people, two people!

I've had a similar experience, of course, I'm a man. I also talked about a girlfriend in college, from my freshman year to my senior year, and after graduation, I lived separately for more than a year, and I got together three or four times a year, and the relationship was there, there really was, but then I fell in love with a local girl, and she also loved me and we were in love, but I also liked my girlfriend in college, maybe it was my heart, but I still often think of my former girlfriend until now. Later, I broke up with my girlfriend from college, and her crying is still tightness in my chest when I think about it!

But that's the reality, I like both of them, and even like college girlfriends a little more, but what's the solution? That's the reality!

Oh, after graduation, there are basically problems with housing and work, and caring about whether the boyfriend and girlfriend are local.

In fact, the burden on his family is heavy enough, plus if you are really together, it will be very troublesome.

Let's not talk about the house, what about your job?? What to do? Is it possible to work in one place?

What if you don't work in one place and live in two separate places? Do you think this relationship is reliable??? Everyone is an adult, and his family also wants him to find a local girl to be his wife, which is another big problem, unless your family is very rich, this is not difficult to solve.

Also, purely from the perspective of the man's feelings for you, in fact, I don't want you to get hurt too much, drag you down, if you love him, then you just let it go, it's good for both parties, you're still young, and you'll meet different people in the future...

It may be true, maybe it's not that he doesn't love you, it's just that reality forces it!

Men are really inexplicable, no one knows what will happen in the next second, happiness comes and goes quickly, you can only hold on to him tightly!

He doesn't think he can give you happiness.

Summary. Dear, the teacher tells you what to do:

1. Ask your girlfriend why she is cheating on you, and first find out her motives for cheating on you;

2. Analyze whether she loves you and how much she loves you according to her motives for deceiving you;

3. According to the results of the analysis, take measures such as criticism, education or breakup against her;

3. If you love her very much, the above actions can be omitted, and you can choose not to care about it.

I just got a girlfriend, and I found out that she had talked about a boyfriend before, and she lied to me that she hadn't. What should I do?

Dear, in this case, the teacher suggests that you first find out that she doesn't have much money for you.

In order not to let the other party have concerns about themselves, some girls use white lies to cover up the experience they think is unbearable, also because they care about each other.

But if this girl is habitually cheating, then it is time to re-examine your relationship.

Hello, I am a worry teacher, good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication and other aspects of problem analysis. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation

Dear, the teacher tells you what to do: 1. Question why your girlfriend is cheating on you, first find out her motives for cheating on you; 2. Analyze whether she loves you and how much she loves you according to her motives for deceiving you; 3. According to the results of the analysis, take measures such as criticism, education or breakup against her; 3. If you love her very much, the above actions can be omitted, and you can choose not to care about it.

First of all, I must remind you to pay attention to security issues on the web. When chatting online, we need to be alert and handle our actions carefully. While most people are honest and kind, there are still some people who use social ** to deceive others.

Of course, before your question, I must emphasize that I cannot make an accurate judgment or diagnosis on anyone. However, I can give you some advice and guidance to help you judge if you have encountered one.

First of all, how did you meet her? This is usually more credible if you met through a friend or a shared interest. But if she actively joins you and starts chatting on a social ** platform that you don't have anything to do with, you need to be more careful.

Secondly, has she ever asked you for any personal information or money? If she tries to obtain these contents at the time of initial contact, she should be alarmed.

It also depends on the chat. Did she take the initiative to share information about her work, family life, hobbies, etc.? If she always seems to shy away from these topics, then this could be a bad sign.

Also, have you had any ** calls with her? By chatting, you can determine if the person is real and learn something about the real situation. If she always avoids talking to you, it could also be a sign of something.

Finally, can you confirm her identity in any other way? For example, search for her name or find information on social media. However, it is important to note that even if you can't find any relevant information, it doesn't mean that the other person is not real.

All in all, I strongly advise you to be vigilant and cautious about encounters on the web. If you feel that something is wrong, take immediate action and stop chatting or seek professional help. Wishing you a smooth transition into a healthy and productive relationship.

Online dating can talk about real feelings.

More than ten years ago, when QQ gradually became popular, it did achieve a lot of good marriages, many marriages were promoted through online chat, and now although the Internet is developing rapidly, there are many dating software, but we still have to believe that we can talk about true feelings.

So how can you tell if the other party is not sincere?

Transfer. First of all, the process of understanding you and the other party should not involve any money, for example, if the other party says "you want to love me and transfer money to me", you should be vigilant at this time, because a normal relationship will not directly involve money, and the other party will not be embarrassed to accept your transfer, and it is very likely to meet the opposite sex who asks you to transfer money**.

When you meet a netizen who asks you to send private**, you must be brave to refuse, a person who wants to have a future with you will not force you to do things you don't like and inappropriate, beware of the other party threatening you with **.

What you want to say is that when the other party talks to you for a month or less than a month, the other party asks you to meet, you should also be vigilant at this time, because it is difficult to get to know each other in such a short time, if you really want to make an appointment, you must be in the daytime when there are many people, women can let friends accompany you.

If you feel that you are in online dating, the two of you will feel that it is not enough to stick together every day, if you are very speculative with the person you chat with, and you can contact every day, then you can basically be sure that you are in online dating, and finally I have to remind you that online dating is risky, and you must judge carefully.

Do you have any friends in common, you can secretly ask if she has a stable boyfriend?

Is her attitude towards you hot and cold, or has she never been very enthusiastic about you, but sometimes she is better, and sometimes she is more indifferent?

If she doesn't have a stable boyfriend, and she is sometimes very enthusiastic about you, but sometimes she is indifferent to you, it may be angry with you, saying that having a boyfriend is also stimulating you, and wants you to be more active with her. I want to test how much you like her.

If she has a stable boyfriend, then forget it, she just wants you to be a backshit, and only comes to you when she has a fight with her boyfriend or is sad.

I think there are two possibilities.

bai, one, there really is no du. Of course, it's the best, maybe the side of the elimination is not accurate! Then she probably thinks Hui is too familiar with you...Don't feel like an answer? But I'll ask you to help and I feel like the landlord is still very single-minded, and I didn't refuse to see that she likes you from your confession! Hey....

Two, I really have a boyfriend. That situation is not good, maybe because you really live together and feel unworthy of you, afraid that you will dislike her and refuse to admit it?

I would like to suggest that you ask her about it and talk to her, be sincere, and good luck!

If a girl asked if you had a girlfriend, how would you answer, and she would say no! Why is that girl interesting to you? If it's completely boring to you, I'll definitely say, I already have a boyfriend.

Sometimes girls will be friends with this person because they think this person is very good and hope that he can care for herself! Maybe you're thinking too much! Maybe this girl just wants you to be"Brother"!!

I can't help it... Some people can only be good friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend... That's it!

I'm going to be nice to some guys, but that's not love. So you can't be lovers!! So don't be upset!

Friends are actually quite good...

It's very clear that she rejected you and was afraid of hurting you, should you be content, or friends! Maybe in the future it may be promoted to boyfriend, but at least for now it is an alternate.

If you really don't like it, you have to say it simply, it's good not to be entangled, and it doesn't waste everyone's time and youth.

Her meaning is very clear, is she going to say I don't like you, she is saving face.

Or maybe he doesn't have you in his heart at all, you're just a spare tire.

She doesn't want to talk to you, and you're too embarrassed to ask.

He definitely doesn't like you pursuing her.