My parents don t agree with me being with my boyfriend, what should I do?

Persistence is the best way, I was also opposed by the whole family at that time, but I still chose to be with him without hesitation, it was really painful at that time, but later at our insistence, my parents finally agreed.

In 2017, I resigned from the field and returned home to my hometown, a small county town. Participated in the auxiliary police work of the Public Security Bureau, the salary is pitiful, 1000 yuan a month, and then I have a trailer to run transportation, the conditions can not be said to be too good, but it is not bad, there is a small house, there is a scooter. At this time, I met a girl, I was 91 years old and she was 89 years old, we were very close to each other, we liked each other very much, we cared for each other, tolerated each other, she was an employee of the rural credit union, and I was an auxiliary police officer, not a formal job, at this time her family knew, against us being together.

At that time, she told me that I didn't have any feelings now, or we should separate, but I didn't agree, I liked him very much, and at my insistence, we got along together for 6 months, during which she hid from her family, and I told her that no matter what difficulties we encountered, we would work together and we would definitely be able to overcome them. In this way, we understand each other together, we rarely see each other, we all use mobile phones to contact each other, and then we get better and better, and we miss each other.

I am a college classmate with the male ticket, and he is about to graduate, he wants to go back to his hometown to take the civil service exam, I want to stay in the city of the university to continue my graduate studies, his family situation is slightly better than mine, we are in two provinces, although the two provinces are next to each other, half a day apart, after graduation, I may have to go to the city of the male ticket, the male ticket has planned a lot for our future, including my work, however, my parents firmly disagreed, saying that I gave up my future, abandoned my family, and did not want me to go to the city of the male ticket, I look down on the academic qualifications of the male ticket.,Say I'm very unfilial.。。 even dislikes the height and appearance of male tickets. I want to say that I haven't given up on myself, I will work, and I will not marry to be a housewife and have children for the male ticket, my job should be good, and the male ticket and I will live a good life through our own efforts.

I've been doing it for five years, we're together in college, and my boyfriend is now in graduate school. My family's conditions are better, we are both only children, and I am still a Hui (there are taboos). My boyfriend is not tall, 170 and I 160.

At home, I feel that these are all problems, and he is still in school, and he still has little experience and is not stereotyped. My boyfriend is very motivated, I am 26 this year, my family is very urgent, and the whole family is persuading me, but I am really inseparable, although we are in a different place, but our hearts can be steady. I don't know what will happen in the future, I may not be able to resist the pressure and break up.

If you want to make more efforts, do you have any solutions? I want to tell everyone to communicate with their parents as soon as possible, and don't hide it from the family, they are not at ease if they oppose it. It could be financial, or it could be the future life environment.

My parents resolutely opposed it without even seeing my partner, my parents reacted very much, I was afraid of hurting them, so I broke up with my boyfriend four times, but he never gave up, and I was very sad myself. My family's conditions are better than the man's family, my boyfriend and I are both graduates of prestigious universities, but unfortunately I am a doctor, and my boyfriend is a bachelor's degree. But my boyfriend is learning software.,Software** There is a Ph.D.!

Although he is also an only child, his parents just feel that they are not right, that their education is not enough, and that they can find a better one. But to be honest, the boys who chased me before were all in good condition, but if they didn't like it, they didn't like it, and I was really distressed. Afraid of hurting my parents and their health, my boyfriend has been working hard, and recently switched to IBM, so I plan to introduce him to my parents slowly.

After changing the identity of a person, I said that someone else introduced me to a person who worked at IBM, and slowly guided them, so that they could accept it slowly, not so suddenly, and at the same time, I also worked hard with my partner to prove myself!

I have been with my boyfriend for six years, and my parents don't agree, my parents don't agree, it's just that I'm afraid that you won't have a good time in the future, I suggest that you let your boyfriend talk to your parents well, show your determination, to be honest, you really don't get rich, I think you can work together to prove it to your parents. Even if your parents say to find you a good partner, a good one is not necessarily suitable, and it is not necessarily good for you. I have a college classmate with my boyfriend, his family is very difficult, and I am still taller than him, he is still from the Northeast, I am Hebei, but I love him very much, he is very good to me, he washes my feet, washes my socks, cleans the house every day, I don't have to do anything except cook, although I live a poorer life, but it is really not easy to find someone who is really good to you, I don't want to regret it, so I have been communicating with my parents for so many years, in October last year, I was engaged, I think finding someone to love can last forever!

My boyfriend and I don't agree with my parents, my dad is even more ruthless if we are still in him he won't let me work, let me go home and stay, and I don't have the courage, my parents let me go on a blind date and I went, am I more cowardly, my boyfriend said that he was giving me two days to think about it, and if he still wants to divide him, he won't keep me.