Why is it more and more difficult for a woman to marry after the age of 30?

Although our times are constantly developing and people are constantly updating, there are still many people who can't accept older leftover women, especially after women reach the age of 30, their worth is declining. Many parents will let their children find their own happiness in their 20s, and once they reach the age of 30, they may think that it will be more difficult to find a suitable family at this time.

Although we have been talking about women's freedom, in fact, many times we will find that there are still a lot of constraints on women in this society, especially in terms of age, if a man is 40 years old, he can also find a younger wife, but if a 40-year-old woman finds a younger boyfriend before, then they may have a lot of discussions. And now most people's requirements may be that although they don't pay much attention to age, if they don't achieve anything at the age of 30, and they are not particularly beautiful, everyone will still be very disgusted.

Although this is a bit cruel, it is not an exception in society, and many people will think like thisAnd we will find that many people around us who are not married at the age of 30 may have more difficulty in the process of finding a partner in the future. So I think that in the face of such an encounter, since we are all very familiar with it, then we should develop ourselves better and make ourselves more worthwhile.

Many times I think that 30-year-old women will be more prominent in dealing with things or personal achievements, and there are some people who are more independent in their thinking and do not only rely on the so-called traditional marriage to realize their own value. There is more than one way to live in life, so I think girls should try their best to improve a fundamental quality of themselves, and then meet a better person, so that not only will the quality of marriage be guaranteed in the future, but they will also be able to harvest more suitable happiness.

In emotional life, if a girl misses someone, other people will think that it is not as good as before, and they have been dragging it out and are unwilling to compromise, always thinking that they will meet a better one, so that they delay themselves.

After the age of 30, women may be men who pick you, and you are not willing to settle, so you may choose to be single all the time.

Because women are financially independent after the age of 30, it is not the time for new love, and it doesn't matter if they have a husband or not.

Because after a woman is 30 years old, she is considered old for a boy. And at this time, many boys are already married, and most of the single ones may be divorced.

Because women will become more realistic after the age of 30, they will no longer be naïve in love, and they will think a lot about getting married, so it is becoming more and more difficult to get married.

Women are precocious than men, and their body functions after the age of 30 are much less than before. In addition, as I get older, my vision becomes higher and higher.

Some people are 30 years old, and their children are running all over the ground, while some people are still single when they reach 30 years old. Happiness has never been about age, but loneliness is always so hard, why can't some women get married when they reach the age of 30? In fact, there are several reasons.

I found that when I was looking for a twenty-five or six-year-old man, the man wouldn't ask me how much money you make each month and how your home is. Many of them still date me with the original intention of falling in love, and they don't give me too much realistic consideration. But by the age of 30, the blind date man is getting more and more demanding.

They will ask me what your height and weight are. Q: How much do I earn? Q: How is my home?

Will give me a comprehensive evaluation as if I was a product for sale. At this time, they began to care about my age, thinking that I was 30 years old and at a disadvantage, so in addition to age, they demanded more and more from me.

Second, it's not that you can't get married, it's that you don't want to get married.

No one can refuse feelings unless they are not what they want. I waited so long for a better encounter, not because I couldn't get married, but because I didn't want to get married, I didn't want to compromise, I didn't want to settle. It's just that someone who can make me feel excited doesn't show up, and waiting and waiting is the hardest choice.

In this world, marrying improvisation is simple, and marrying life is just as simple, except for marrying love. Affection is an ethereal thing. Everyone knows there exists, but no one has ever seen what it looks like.

We all want to marry love, but what is love? Is it the sensation of a heartbeat? True love is not vigorous, but the warmest companionship in ordinary life.

Thirdly, the feelings were hurt and there was a shadow from then on.

Once bitten by a snake for ten years and afraid of the well rope, a woman who has been hurt by her feelings will lose the trust between people and the beautiful expectations of feelings. Even she feels that the whole world is dark, and men all over the world are unreliable. The shadow in her heart will always affect her kindness.

Most importantly, she lost the ability to love and be loved because she was hurt. They are innocent and they don't want to do this, but no matter how hard they try, it's hard to trust someone 100% anymore. Lu Xiaoman said:

Advancing with the day. In this world, there is no one who is not hurt. You have to believe that only you can truly ** yourself at all times.

Don't complain, try to forgive; Don't be afraid of loneliness and try to settle down.

In fact, it is not that it is difficult for a woman to marry after the age of 30, a woman who has not been married before 30 will have a trace of anxiety and panic in her heart, but once she has passed 30, she will be relieved, and the woman at this time will also be able to think about marriage, and everything will be natural.

Yes. This is because after the age of 30, the conditions and advantages of women in all aspects are not particularly obvious, so it is difficult to marry, unless the individual is very good.

No, because whether a woman can marry or not has nothing to do with age, as long as she has a good attitude and looks energetic, she can marry at any time.

The personal experience of my friend Sister Lei is told in the first person below.

I am 33 years old this year, I have not yet married, people around me say that according to my current conditions, it is very difficult to get married, my family background is very average, my parents are just ordinary workers, I work very average, I only earn 3500 wages per month, I am not good-looking, and a little fat, weighing 120 pounds, sometimes the matchmaker kindly introduced me to the object, as soon as I told those blind date men about my situation, they were not interested in continuing to associate with me.

When I was 27 years old, I thought that there were more women than men now, and unmarried women were always in demand, so I was not in a hurry and kept picking and choosing. At that time, there were still people pursuing me, but I didn't even look down on them, and I kept rejecting them.

Later, I dragged it to the age of 30, and I began to go on a blind date at the age of 30, but I found that after a woman reached the age of 30, it was actually a little difficult to get married, although it was still a situation where there were more men and fewer women, but many men actually did not like their wives to be over 30 years old when choosing their wives.

At this time, I realized the seriousness of the problem, and it is really more and more difficult for women to marry after they reach the age of 30. There are several reasons why it is difficult to marry.

I found that when I was looking for a partner at twenty-five or sixteen, men would not ask me how much you earned each month, or how my family situation was, but many of them still dated me with the original intention of falling in love, and they would not change me too much in realistic considerations.

But when I reached the age of 30, the men on the blind date asked me more and more, and they would ask me what is your height and weight? Q: How much do I earn? Q: How is my family? I will be given a full assessment as if I am a commodity for sale.

At this time, they began to mind my age, thinking that I was 30 years old and was on the disadvantaged side, so they demanded more and more from me in other aspects besides my age.

It was only then that I realized how stupid it was to spend myself until I was 30 years old to think about marriage, because in the eyes of many men, 30 years old is a watershed for a woman, and before the age of 30 and after the age of 30, you are treated completely differently, they look at you differently, and your value in their hearts is completely different.

2) Blind date men are generally worried about the poor fertility of women aged 30+ and the risk of childbirth.

After a few years of blind dates, I found out why many blind date men don't refuse to associate with women over 30 years old, because they generally feel that women younger than 30 years old have stronger fertility and less fertility risks. Marrying a woman over the age of 30 can make them panic. The vast majority of men think the same, they marry wives mainly to pass on the lineage, whether a 30-year-old woman can have children, this will leave a huge question mark in their hearts.

If they weren't really desperate, they would never consider marrying a woman over the age of 30 because it would be a risky act for them. Every man wants to marry a woman who makes them feel at peace in their hearts, and they are not willing to take risks.

A 30-year-old woman has experienced a lot of things, so she does not yearn for love and marriage, and she has a higher vision for picking men. If you can't meet the right person, you are not willing to settle, so it is more difficult to marry.

30-year-old women, as they grow older and have more experience, they know very well that in today's society, love cannot be eaten, and they don't want to find someone who doesn't love them to marry, which is very difficult. 30-year-old women tend to be much more demanding than 20-year-old women, because they have passed the age of desperate love because of love, less impulsive, and more rational. In today's society, money is paramount, and without money there is nothing.

Changes brought about by age

20-year-old women, they are still full of illusions about marriage, they are eager for love, they all hope to meet their true destiny, they are not so demanding about material things, so there are many men who can meet their mate selection criteria. Rich men will look for young and beautiful women, and once a woman reaches the age of 30, no matter how much you take care of it, you can't compare with a woman in her early 20s.

After the age of 30, women themselves feel that their skin is no longer so elastic, and wrinkles have grown a lot. Although he wore heavy makeup, he still couldn't change the fact that he was aging. However, most men are visual aesthetics, and if they like a woman, they naturally have to meet their eyes from their appearance and figure before they have the intention of further relationship.

In traditional Chinese beliefs, the older a woman gets, the harder it is to get married. Especially in the traditional way of marriage and love on a blind date, the conditions for girls born in the 30s seem to become more demanding and difficult to achieve. Many people think that girls after 30 can no longer have any conditions, so they can only find someone to marry.

So, is it true that girls born in the 30s can't open conditions on blind dates?

First of all, we must make a clear concept: girls born in the 30s also have the right to pursue the marriage and life they want. In contemporary society, the status and role of women have changed a lot, and women are no longer just the main heads of the family, but can also have their own careers and pursuits.

Therefore, when girls go on a blind date after 30, they should also have their own conditions and requirements.

Of course, this is not to say that girls born in the 30s can be arbitrarily picky and demanding. In the process of blind date, girls should also rationally consider whether their conditions and requirements are reasonable and achievable. If the conditions are too harsh, you may lose yourself more opportunities and choices, and even put yourself in a more passive situation.

Therefore, girls born in the 30s can consider the following points when they go on a blind date:

1.Rationally evaluate their own conditions and requirements: When girls in their 30s go on a blind date, they can first make a rational assessment of their conditions and requirements.

You can consider many aspects such as age, education, income, personality, family background, etc., to see if your conditions and requirements are reasonable and achievable.

2.Keep an open mind: During the blind date process, girls in their 30s should also keep an open mind and not have high expectations for potential partners.

You can communicate with each other more to understand each other's interests, family backgrounds, life values, etc., to see if there are commonalities and fits.

3.Avoid being too harsh and picky: Girls born in the 30s should try to avoid being too harsh and picky during the blind date. If the other party meets some of their basic requirements, you can ask Bi to give the other party some repentant instructions and learn more about the other party's advantages and strengths.

4.Maintain self-confidence and self-esteem: Girls born in the 30s should also maintain self-confidence and self-esteem during the blind date process, and do not lower their standards and requirements. If the other person does not meet your requirements, don't be too frustrated and frustrated, and continue to look for a partner who is more suitable for you.

To sum up, girls born in the 30s should not completely give up their conditions and requirements when they go on a blind date, but they should not be too harsh and picky. You should rationally evaluate your conditions and requirements, keep an open mind, avoid excessive pursuit of perfection, and maintain self-confidence and self-esteem in order to find the most suitable partner for you on a blind date.