What if you have been hurt by a friend and don t know how to get along with your current classmates?

On the road of life, everyone has to go through some ups and downs, and we will meet many people every day, so it is inevitable to be hurt by friends around us. A lot of people have this kind of energyHowever, we should not let the past hurt affect our present and future lives, and we can use the past injuries as an opportunity to learn from them, and we should learn from them and learn from them, instead of blindly indulging in them and not extricating ourselves, and being wary of our current friends and classmates, and not being able to get along well.

Those injuries in the past, it may be that we met the wrong person, it may be a joke played by fate on us, no matter what, it is already a thing of the past, and no matter how sad and regretful we are now, it will not help. So let it pass, and a new day is a new beginning. If you have been hurt by your former friends, you don't dare to reopen your heart and get along with your current classmates, it is because your own heart knot has not been untied, and you are afraid of being hurt againBut we can't get hurt every time.

Therefore, it is important to learn a lesson, and to know that it is necessary to keep the necessary distance from friends, not to treat everyone defenselessly, to learn to be measured in your dealings with others, and not to give others the opportunity to hurt yourself.

No one can avoid being hurt in life, even if we will be hurt by friends or relatives around us in the future, we must learn to face it calmly. As long as we are worthy of our own hearts and our hearts are strong enough, others cannot really hurt us. Therefore, we must cultivate our own strong heart, not to be afraid, not to be afraid.

You should get along with your classmates and friends as you want, you can't deny everyone because of some, and you can't give up the whole forest because of one tree.

If you have been hurt by your friends in the past and you dare not get along with your current classmates, it is because your heart is not strong enough, and you have not yet come out of the shadow of the past, so you are afraid of the sun. In fact, many times we are too concerned about those injuries, we might as well learn to be free and easy, since the harm is unavoidable, then be brave, learn to protect ourselves, grasp the proportion when getting along with others, you will find a lot of beauty.

Go with the flow and don't put pressure on yourself.

I think you should let go of the past and talk more often with your current classmates, which may open your heart.

I think I've been hurt by other friends before, but it's just because my friends don't know how to cherish themselves, and I think you should still take it seriously in the future.

You have to believe that there are still many good people in this world, not everyone is as bad as you think, and you must learn to recognize what kind of person the other person will not be harmed.

When you apologize to a friend who has hurt and hurt you, I don't think you should be easily forgiven. Because people respect and love themselves, they can get the respect of others for us. For those who have hurt and harmed us, even if we want to forgive him, we must make your tolerance and generosity weighty and valuable.

In this way, others will learn a lesson, change themselves, and take you seriously. If I choose to forgive him, it means that I am relieved of this incident, and it can no longer affect my mood or aspect. When he apologized to me, it may not be clear that he is really awake, and my choice to forgive him can just show that I don't care about this matter anymore.

In life, there are always a lot of unsatisfactory, if you want to hold a grudge against each of you, then in fact, life is quite bad and unhappy, so treat some things if yes, people want to be happy, be happy and strive to look forward. In fact, everyone will encounter those things that they feel are particularly unforgivable in the process of growing up, but people may feel that these things are particularly indifferent. Everyone has their own things to worry about, and some people like to joke about you about things that you care about, and then if you get angry, they will think that you are so stingy.

I'm really annoying this kind of person, you don't know what other people's suffering is, so don't talk nonsense there. In fact, we all know that forgiving someone is actually a way to yourself, because you let yourself go, and at the same time, you let others live in their hearts, and they no longer feel guilty. Of course, in real life, there will always be a lot of injuries, harms, there are deep and shallow, if these injuries, the harm is not particularly deep, and can not bring you a huge loss, or cause a huge impact on you, then for such injuries, harm, we can choose to forgive the other party, there is no need to hold on.

There is a good saying, what others do to you is what you do to others. For those who know gratitude, he can also perceive your tolerance and generosity, and for those who have no heart and lungs, he will only think that you are easy to talk and bully, and even laugh at you in his heart and cowardly. For your kindness and your generosity, such people will not care, and will hurt you with greater hurts, hurts, and harms you.

Then if you can't forgive him in your heart, there is no need to pretend anymore, and you don't have to pay attention to him.

You can choose to forgive a friend who has hurt you in the past. Because forgave him. It can make you let go of resentment in your heart. It can make your life a little happier. Although you forgive him, you can stay away from him and stop treating him as your friend.

You're afraid to face....He's more afraid than you....

Whoever is responsible for his losses is always afraid of meeting people who make him pay for his losses.

Of course, he's a man with a bit of a conscience....

You have to be calm....As if nothing happened....

If the damage is too great, let him appear in front of you less....

Summary. If the person who has hurt himself has been a lot of friends, then try to let go, after all, it is rare to have fate to be friends, and friends must have given you a lot of help, regardless of whether it has reached the level of merit, with a generous heart to be able to tolerate the small fights in life, so as to have a better interpersonal relationship.

What should I do with my old classmates who hurt me?

If the person who has hurt himself has been a lot of friends, then try to let go, after all, it is rare to have fate to be friends, and friends must have given you a lot of help, regardless of whether it has reached the level of merit, with a generous heart to be able to tolerate the small fights in life, so as to have a better interpersonal relationship.

If the relationship between the two parties is just average, then it doesn't matter how to deal with it, just let it be, there is no need to force yourself to do anything, after all, you don't owe anything to the other party, just have peace of mind.

I wish you a happy life [Bixin].

First, we should boldly face our past pain and bravely accept this fact

Second, when you accept this fact, you should make certain adjustments, so that you can forget this pain as soon as possible

3. Be bold and try to build trust with others and find new emotions anewIt's not terrible to be hurt, but the most terrible thing is that you don't dare to face it and accept it. When you accept this fact, you will quickly forget the pain, so accepting the fact is the most critical step, as long as you take this step boldly, the rest will become natural. It's easy to forget about the pain and rebuild trust with others, and it's easy to regain friendships, and the tension with others is gone.

I have been hurt by a friend, and now I am nervous when I get along with others, and I feel that you have some psychological obstacles and must change yourself. To have a positive psychological hint to yourself, friends are still much better, so that slowly it may change.

If you are particularly nervous, then in this case, it is best to communicate well with the people around you, so that your mood can be relaxed, and you will slowly become very good.

First of all, you should calm your mind, if you are particularly nervous, then you should think more about the good aspects, so that you will become very relaxed and will not be nervous anymore.

Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted. va

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life and be calm

Calmly dealing with all kinds of complicated things, even if you do something wrong, do not blame yourself, this is conducive to people's mental balance, and it is also helpful.

It relieves people's mental stress. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You have to make a lot of friends and always find friends.

Chatting with friends, heart-to-heart communication or confiding can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

v I wish you a good mood sa

The so-called good friend, as the name suggests, is to know this and know the other, talk about everything, and talk about ...... without saying anything

Closer than siblings, better than brothers and sisters......

Man is an intelligent, thoughtful and emotional animal. For this reason, no one is perfect. People tend to see the shortcomings of others, but rarely face up to their own shortcomings.

It is also based on this that your friend has inadvertently hurt you. But on the other hand, do you dare to say that you haven't hurt anyone else or your friend? It is they (they) who have embraced you with a forgiving heart.

For your words and deeds, and your shortcomings, I think the only people who can give advice and advice are your friends or your relatives.

The reason why you ask the above question shows that you still care about your friend, knowing that your friend hurts you and hurts herself. He or she may care about you too, and he or she may not find a way to fix it. Take a step back, try to make concessions, try to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and the problem will be easily solved.

With a tolerant heart, try to contact him or her with a normal heart, even if the existing problems are not well solved, they will not linger.

Maybe it's because of your tolerance that your friendship has been established.

In life, we always inevitably have friction of one kind or another with our friends. Maybe it's a little thing, or maybe it's something important to you. Whether it's big or small, friction in life is always inevitable.

Because life is inherently contradictory. But if there is a conflict in interpersonal communication, deal with it as a matter of course to save the relationship between you and the other person.

In life, whether it is in the family, at school, or in society, you have a conflict with your friends, and the source of the conflict is because you, the reason is not on your side, you hurt the other party. If you still want to continue the previous relationship with the other person, then only you can break the deadlock after the conflict, because you hurt the other person, so you owe the other person a very formal apology.

If you really want to save your relationship with the other person. The first step you have to do is to formally apologize to her, but after all the wounds are erased, there will be scars, so even if you apologize, the knots in your heart will still be there, so you need more time and patience to heal the scars in her heart. No one will be stabbed by someone else, and then smile and smile with you as always.

So you are prepared to apologize for being rejected.

But true friendship can withstand ups and downs. Don't give up your determination to reconcile with him just because of her rejection. Because some injuries can't be solved by saying sorry.

You have to be patient, you have to be cheeky, and it's best to be able to get stuck with your face until she forgives you. The human heart is long, as long as you insist on repenting to her, she will definitely forgive you one day. After all, you poked the basket, so it should be up to you to make up for it.

I would choose never to mention it, and then I would be doubly nice to her.

I think many people may have hurt their friends invisibly, probably most of them unintentionally, I have also hurt my good friends, but I did it intentionally at that time. When I was a freshman in high school, I had a good time with a girl in our dormitory, we ate together every day, and went to and from school together, but then when I was a sophomore in high school, she studied literature and science, and then we weren't together, but I think he was still a good friend of mine. But then one time I went out to play and was discovered by the teacher.,Because it was a classmate in our class and the teacher.,You made me think that this person's heart was too sinister.,Let me think that my classmate is too unreliable.,And then I began to delete my classmate's QQ number.,The girl's QQ number was also deleted.,In fact, I regretted it after deleting it.,But I'm embarrassed to go to him again.,Just keep it like that.。

Then one day the girl found me, very aggrieved and asked me why I deleted his number, I really couldn't think of it at the time, because I was hot-headed when I deleted it, I was too angry, if you ask me why I deleted her, I can't say what the reason is, but I did hurt her. After he came to me, I added him again, and after that, I kept silent about it, he didn't talk about it, and he didn't ask me why, anyway, I felt that the relationship was not as good as before.

Because I hurt him, I felt very sad in my heart, and I blamed myself, and I won't talk about my deletion of her in the future, and I will be doubly good to her, and then our relationship will change back little by little.