Family troubles, come in and help me if you re fine

Marriage is sometimes a responsibility, and your father will definitely want to be able to see your wife and son in his lifetime, and this desire will be stronger as he gets older, especially when his friend's children are married and have grandchildren, and his heart will be uncomfortable. And your marriage is actually a wish of his parents It is the end of your child's career, and you are truly independent and manly at that time!

Therefore, it is better not to quarrel with your father, and if you have friends of the opposite sex who are also troubled by this in the circle, you might as well communicate.

The pursuit of affection is a personal right, but it is best not to conflict with family affection! Marriage is also a manifestation of responsibility for the parents of the body. In fact, there are many people in this world who are not married to someone who loves each other, but it is enough to find someone who is suitable for living together.

You should have a good talk with him.

Let him understand your heart.

Nothing is untied.

What's more, you are relatives.

I hope you can be happy.

It's about finding your own happiness.

It's a joy from the heart.

Be true to yourself.

It's hard to say?

But can you tell me you're really gay?

Cough.. Excuse me. I'm curious about this.

It's just that I think ah. It depends on what you think.

If you're sure you're going down the gay path. Then it's better to think about whether to say it or not.

Or just tell the person you're marrying. Tell ta. Is it acceptable.

I mean, I can't get my parents. Just get married. If you are sure, your parents will definitely not be able to accept it. That's still lying to him for the rest of his life. ）

In addition, I think ah. You're still pretty young.

Actually, I think it's gay. Most of them are not psychologically normal.

I think it's quite possible to change back?

I suggest you change your sexual orientation.

The troubles are all found by themselves, and the more you think about it, the more troublesome your heart becomes.

It's not to comfort you, you should just think so.

Brothers are born to their parents, and parents will not favor one over the other.

If you study hard, you can go to university, and then you can have a good job and a good income, you should make more commitments. The parents are old and can't help their two sons too much. They just want to achieve the "bowl of water" in their hearts.

But it's really too difficult for elderly parents. How comforting were the eldest sons who were well-educated and able to support themselves? How proud and proud?

How confident he is when he talks about his eldest son in front of others. And the second son, who has no education, no job, no good opportunities, is married, and his parents are afraid that he will encounter difficulties in his life in the future, so he can only give him a house and land and help him more materially. The parents' approach is also well thought out.

I think they will do their best to make the two children receive the same care.

You are the eldest brother, as the pillar of the family. You have to relax, think more about your parents, and help your younger brother more, after all, you have more education than them. Material gains and losses can be ignored, as long as family harmony is important.

After a few years, you can say out loud that I took care of my home, and how proud you are.

Don't be upset and angry about these things. On the contrary, you should feel that this is a kind of affirmation of your personal ability by your parents. When his parents gave his younger brother a house, he worked hard to buy his own house and then buy a set for his parents. so that they can live better.

Be open-minded, your parents don't love you, they just think you have the ability, the Chinese tradition is like this, if the parents have the ability to help more, the family is like this, and there is a younger brother by your parents' side, you can rest assured that you are working hard outside, isn't it? If you have a hard time, it is your relatives who will help you the most. Always be grateful, and imagine how you would have gone to college if your parents hadn't raised you and nurtured you?

How can there be today, going to college has your efforts and the care of your parents since childhood, hehe, the eldest brother is the pillar of the family, if you can't do anything at home now, and you can't even afford your brother's marriage, will you also help him start a family for his parents? I believe that it will, filial piety is the first thing to achieve, bless you!!

It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

However, if you move your hukou out of your parents' hukou book, you can apply for another homestead.

Actually, I feel that your mind should be enlarged, and you should also consider your parents from a different perspective. Your annual income is more than 100,000 yuan, and you will definitely not worry about anything in the future, but what about your younger brother? So your parents want to favor your younger brother, in fact, you don't care about interests at all, you just want to get back the kind of love of your parents.

Seeing that parents are so good to their brother and themselves... I suggest that you talk to your parents more often to understand their thoughts. Naturally, you will understand their painstaking efforts.

As the saying goes, a good home and everything is prosperous, I feel that brothers and sisters don't care so much. What we want is happiness and liveliness, and it's not very happy for a family to be happy together.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Many times, life is simple as it is, but we complicate it and add a lot of unnecessary details. If you are simple to the world, the world will show you good. There is no need to have too many desires, and those who are content are happy; There is no need to be overly paranoid, the tolerant are pleasant.

Delete tedious memories, abandon the troubles outside the body, life is short, fame and fortune are additional, only simplicity can make you happier.

Take a step back, the sea is wide and the sky is high, so that the wind and waves are calm.

Since it's a trivial matter, don't take it to heart.

First of all, the state has abolished the borrowing fee, and the sponsorship fee is just another synonym for some schools that want to continue to charge borrowing fees, you can go to the local education bureau for advice.

Secondly, educating children is not that the better the environment, the better it must be. Of course, under the premise of conditional choice, it must be a good environment, and if there are no conditions, general schools are also possible.

As far as the key to educating children is personally, I think the key lies in how to make him a real director, so that he can understand the difficulties of his parents, and let him know that learning is for his own ideals and to repay his parents, which is the key.

There are some things you can do to educate him and make him understand that life is not easy, and if you want to change, you have to read books is a better way.

The children of the poor are in charge of the house at an early age, and that's it. Although the child is young, he takes on the responsibilities of a family at an early age. Only after experiencing hardship can we better understand this society and know how to be more considerate of others.

It doesn't matter if you are poor now, as long as you are willing to change, you will definitely be able to.

If you're right, why should you care what others think? Since you think it's worth it to be tired for the sake of your children, then go to the side of the Fourth Road of Public Opinion, after all, your starting point is good, everything is for the children.

Go ahead and do it, I'll support you!

Since the old man is reluctant to move over.

It's useless for you to persevere.

And you may be annoyed by moving around like this.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

For the sake of the children, I don't know how much suffering and grievances I have suffered.

As long as the family is happy, it will be fine.

You don't have to fight for the best conditions.

The healthy growth of the child and the happiness of the family are enough.

It is natural to be able to teach children to succeed correctly.

External conditions don't need to be so deliberate.

The old people are very attached to the place where they live, they are very nostalgic for the old, especially their own residence for many years, we must be considerate, for the harmony of the family, the family and everything is prosperous, I think it is better to accommodate the old people!