Is it okay for people to be mediocre or should they be different

Even being different can still be mediocre, so choosing to be different is not the way out of mediocrity. Ordinary is not mediocre, workers work every day, farmers farm every day, there is nothing new and strange about this kind of day, but it is by no means mediocre, just an ordinary life, and the vast majority of people are living in an ordinary life. Idleness, idleness all day long, good things can't be done, bad things don't dare to do, that's mediocrity.

Peace of mind is peace, life is short, therefore, inner joy is very important, if the ordinary life can make you full and moved, then like the vast majority of people in the world, choose the ordinary, no need to be unconventional, but if you are not satisfied with this ordinary, and have a higher pursuit of life, and your IQ and EQ match your pursuit, it makes sense to take the initiative to pursue different, otherwise, you will only seek trouble. Good luck.

Mediocrity or greatness is just the world's perception of people. Anyone can be a great man or an ordinary person. Whether you are a great person or an ordinary person, as long as you do your best.

Maybe this kind of self is not a hero in everyone's mind, but at least this will be a great man in your own heart. If you can be a great man and show your difference, how tired people should be to live! In the same way, if you have talent but be a mediocre person, what a waste of resources, and you will have the mentality of not meeting talents.

Or if you think that you give no talent, and your self-positioning is a mediocre person, that is, you deny your own self, and if you deny your talent, then you really have no talent... So whether you're mediocre or different, as long as you can feel happy and happy...

Realizing that other people's impressions of you are a kind of distraction and delusion. People who often deliberately behave often care about other people's opinions and live a restrained life.

Do your best to do your own thing. As for whether it is "different" or "mediocre" in the eyes of others, it is the psychological reaction of others, and you still have to maintain a mental state of being clear in your heart (although it is difficult).

Why do you ask this?

I guess you know that there is no such thing as an "exact answer", right?

So do you want me to decide, let someone else decide?

Actually, since you've taken this choice down to such an extent that you can let someone else decide it for you—why don't you decide for yourself, honey?

According to your own inner preferences, let your heart grow freely.

It depends on your personality. Naturally, we grew up like this.

Hello dear, think differently. Excellent people are better at thinking and learning. Mediocre people are too lazy to think, learn and change.

I used to work as an individual. The work is very laid-back. Basically, I work 3 hours a day, and the rest is left.

It's basically like this in the neighborhood. Go to work, eat, chat and fart. Go home from work.

It's stable, and it's mundane. There are no challenges. After doing it for a few years, I feel that there is no future.

There is no way out. Forced yourself to resign. After that, I went to several companies that had a growth void and auspicious bureau.

I found it to be really different. Great people think, learn, and try every day. This can be tiring.

But the imitation of the ruler banquet is also very worthwhile. I recently did an internship at a unit. An industry I've never been exposed to.

To be honest, I don't have a high degree of education. High school. I don't know if I'll be able to stay here and work in the end.

But I really learned a lot during my internship. I think differently than I used to. And then there's more to read more books!

Read more books! A good person may not read, but a person who doesn't read will not be good. Because books are the ladder of human progress!

Ordinary and mediocre are two states of life and two states of mind.

Ordinary people are a screw on the machine, inconspicuous, but they are playing their own usefulness and realizing their own value.

A mediocre person is a discarded screw, outside the operation of the machine, without the intention and ability to participate in the operation of the machine.

There are two starting points for evaluating whether a person is ordinary or mediocre, one is social cognition and the other is personal cognition.

From a social point of view, the difference between ordinary and mediocre is whether or not they contribute to society. In the big machine of society, you can make a small screw, a small steel plate or a dashboard, as long as you are useful and have made a modest contribution to the development of society, then you are valuable in the eyes of society. Although you are not the key part of it, you are not a hero, but you can't do without you.

Thousands of you form the basis of social development, so you are one in ten thousand; Mediocre people, coexisting with machines, are like little tails, following wherever they go. His existence has nothing to do with the operation of the machine, he is self-contained, his own. He is in society and acts outside society.

What he did did did not contribute to society in a real way. Ordinary people are distinguished from mediocre people.

From a personal point of view, ordinariness is to give full play to one's abilities in life and realize one's self-worth. People do their best, for individuals, this is called ordinary; Mediocre, is the ability not to play, the talent is hidden. It's like the sand in the mussel that refuses to be a pearl and is willing to bury itself, which is called mediocrity.

The real ordinary is the combination of the two, and it is the exertion of personal value that has made a positive contribution to society. In the workplace, it means that the display of your personal ability creates value for the enterprise, and the position you are in is the realization point of your value and the place where you can contribute to the enterprise;

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I have been joining the Sanjiu Value Perception Training Camp for a while, and every time I see a chat like this, it is like an enlightenment to the depths of my soul, we are usually used to arguing with others, but when the object of others becomes our own, the emotions in our hearts will inevitably lose our minds, and we will blindly refute or blame others at the same time, what a stupid self-depreciation!

Only mediocre people are undisputed.

Please cherish your unique self before hunger).

Thinking about it, the things that will make me remember in my personal growth are often those arguments in the past, whether good or bad, and it is these arguments that motivate and urge me to change and grow, so that I can laugh at many things and be calm.

Thank you to those who have taught me and criticized me, it is indeed a great treasure in my life, and it is very precious!

What I see here is not only the blockchain, but also some self-cultivation for others!

A change in concept cannot be measured by **, as for the value it brings, you have the final say.

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The main difference is the attitude of the two people towards money and their attitude towards their careers, excellent people will look down on money, and pay special attention to their careers, mediocre people are just the opposite.

Good people may be more outstanding, and they will be especially brave, and mediocre people are just content with the status quo.

The biggest difference between excellent and mediocre people is that excellent people dare to admit their mediocrity and then change, while mediocre people choose to be content with the status quo.

Good people are very organized, and they don't settle for the status quo, while mediocre people tend to be content.

Excellent people are very assertive and do things well, and they do things in an orderly manner, while mediocre people do things silently, do whatever others say, and have no opinions.

Excellent people will always be at the forefront of the times and will lead the times, while mediocre people will only be led by the times and live a mediocre life.

The main difference is in the treatment of money and love, excellent people look down on money and see love, mediocre people are just the opposite.

Excellent people always try to break through, while mediocre people don't want to break the routine and get by.

The difference is in action and perseverance, excellent people are very clear about their life goals, and they will work very hard to complete and achieve them.

Excellent people are distinguished from mediocre people, excellent people, they are very self-care skills, and they are hard working and have goals.

Some time ago, the college entrance examination came to an end.

I remember many years ago, just after taking the college entrance examination, adults would always ask a classic question: What kind of person do you want to become in the future?

But when you grow up and really come into contact with society, you find that you may only do a bad job, talk about a bad relationship, and live a bad life.

Graham Moore's award-winning impromptu line for Best Adapted Screenplay at the 87th Academy Awards, there is a passage that says:

When I was 16 years old, I tried to kill myself because I felt weird, different and out of place with other people.

And now I'm standing here, and I'm telling kids who feel like they can't find a sense of identity, you're going to find it, really. Please keep being "weird" and "different".

It is undeniable that people with too much personality can easily suffer in life and be treated as different.

When they were students, children who were too sharp would always be suppressed;

In society, people who maintain a unique personality always seem out of place.

Therefore, in many cases, in order to seek a sense of security and identity, people will unconsciously hide their individuality and gradually move towards convergence.

This convergence is also the beginning of a mediocre life.

So keep your uniqueness and personality, that's what sets you apart from others.

It's never too late to live for yourself.

How many people can boldly say that they are tall and different, different from ordinary ordinary people? In fact, I think many people still don't have this self-confidence, after all, the ability that others see is there. A lot of people who want to be extraordinary are getting closer and closer to mediocrity, and I think there are many reasons.

The first is indeed because I don't have any talent at all, and I don't want to work hard. Some people are born so pitiful, their learning ability is not good, and their ability to use their hands and brains is worse than others. When singing, the five notes are incomplete, and when dancing, the limbs are not coordinated.

Sometimes I really can't blame them, only God's arrangement. But I agree that stupid birds can fly first, as long as we are willing to work hard and are not afraid of losing face, even if we can't reach a very brilliant realm, we can be like ordinary people.

The second is because I retreated in the face of difficulties. Many people may have had flickering dreams, they want to be envied by others, and they want their success to be recognized by the whole world. But there were many hardships ahead, so he couldn't persevere, he felt that it was too hard.

After all, no amount of hard work was in vain, and it was good for him to choose mediocrity, and to choose to live a daily routine like many people. As everyone knows, in fact, there were many people who were optimistic about him at that time, but he buried his talent.

The last type of person may be the kind of person who wants to be mediocre from the bones, they never want to shine, and they think it's good to be ordinary. Among them, there are some people who want peace in their hearts, so they choose a paradise, isolated from the world, do not want to quarrel with others, and show mediocrity; But the vast majority of them should have been affected by the filth of this society, and they felt that they were depraved and decadent with such an easy life, why should they force themselves to work hard, it was unnecessary, so they grew from mediocrity to adulthood.

Medioccrity is not terrible, what is terrible is that some people who are as mediocre as us think they are geniuses.

Mediocreity refers to ordinary people doing ordinary things, doing nothing in their lives, ordinary and not prominent, always attached to the wind, unable to stand out from the crowd and achieve the attention of the public.

Ordinary 1ordinary abilities and values, considered dull, uninspired, or clumsy; There is a distinct lack of features or strengths.

2.There were no noteworthy incidents.

3.Not proud, not noble.

4.No exaggeration, no pretense.

5.Has usual or repetitive characteristics.

6.related to or characteristic of a working day; Ordinary.

7.Uncharacteristic or undifferentiated.

8.There is nothing out of the ordinary; Not creative, new or interesting.

9.It has the characteristics of the common people.

10.Lack of originality.