How to get rid of the past? How to get rid of a painful past

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let it go. When a person is ruthless to hit someone who loves him. The heart that can't be warmed is already cold.

    The bitter wait was exchanged for a merciless scolding. Why? Maybe you are asking these three words again and again, and if you keep asking, tears will come out of the question.

    Let it go, this man doesn't belong to you. Get rid of the past? If you don't need it, leave him, leave the sad past.

    Because your future is at the step you take.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Feelings always need a certain amount of practice to forget, and the length of time depends on your own state of mind.

    It depends on your attitude towards your first love.

    After the breakup, I felt as if I couldn't find anything better than him'

    It feels like you still have some attachment and reluctance to him, which also makes it difficult for you to completely let go of the relationship and start anew.

    And when you start a new relationship, you will subconsciously compare with the first one in many ways, which will affect your relationship.

    Therefore, try to allow yourself to forget and start a new beginning.

    Every day is new!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You should give yourself a chance. Maybe you haven't found someone better than your first love now, so you can feel that your first love is good. People are like this, I used to think about my first love, I was also very confused and talked about several, at that time I always compared them with my first love, until I found someone who was really good to me, I really don't want to!

    I'm sure you're like that too!

    Give yourself a chance, don't always live in the past, the past is gone. Don't think about it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Life is like this, face life well, grasp yourself, be strong!! A person's world is melancholy, so you have to work harder, cheer yourself up, cheer you on, everything will pass

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Many things, always after experiencing Feng Mori He know that the gains and losses are not up to him. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice and weakness; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit the silver pie until you don't wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello this friend;

    If you can't face the past, how do you want to live in the future? If you want to make your future life happy and happy. Then, you need to clear the mental junk brought to you by previous painful memories.

    The past, today, and future are a continuous process. We can't face what we did in the past, and the things of the past affect the current mood, so what is our bright future? Are we going to let the past history dictate our lives forever?

    Think about it again, how will you spend your life in such a state? The past is in the past, face it once, let yourself feel better, spend the future life well, and be responsible for your future. That's a scientific attitude.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dude tells you a word: it doesn't matter...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't want to use the future to commemorate the present, then please don't use the present to commemorate the past. You have to come out of your own shadow. The reason why we have shadows is not because our lives have no sunshine, but because Tongmo Yang pants shine behind you, make a beautiful turn, and let the sunshine shine all over your heart.

    Learn to give up, let go of what should be let go, and let go of the heart to be relieved. You will be able to discover the joy in your life that you have never found before. When your heart is tired, give your soul a vacation.

    The eyes should see more beautiful scenery, the ears should listen more to beautiful sounds, and most importantly, they should pay more attention to appreciate beautiful things. Our hearts will not get tired. May you be in a good mood every day.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hands hold tightly, you have nothing, let go, maybe what you have is everything, learn to let go, let go, you will be happy.

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