What should I do if my friend who has always been sincere pretends not to know my birthday?

I have always felt that friends are as warm as relatives in this world, and maybe some people will give friendship beyond family affection, so I cherish my friends and cherish the rare friendship between us.

But maybe it's because I value it too much, and sometimes I feel very sad, such as my friend who has always been honest with me pretends not to know my birthday, which is very sad. I didn't want any birthday presents, I thought a sincere greeting would make me happy, but why ignore it?

I have a habit of calling a group of friends to get together on my birthday, and everyone has a meal together, and then goes to chat, which can be regarded as enhancing everyone's feelings! And this year, I somehow didn't have this plan, and my birthday passed so uneventfully.

I didn't call anyone, and the people I loved the most still remembered my birthday, asked me what I liked, asked me what I needed, asked if I wanted to go out with them. It's really touching to listen to, even though you didn't say anything, they all remember. But there is one that is not like this.

I went shopping on the eve of my birthday and met him by chance, but he didn't mention anything, I thought I should have forgotten, it's normal to be okay! Although I think we've been celebrating our birthdays together for four years and it's unlikely that we'll forget, I'm relieved.

I'm also a person who is used to posting moments, and I took a few beautiful ** on my birthday, and then posted a circle of friends, probably saying that I wish myself a happy birthday or something! I have received many blessings, but none of them.

I obviously saw him read my talk, but why did our friendship for so many years be stingy with even a happy birthday? It was really sad at the time, and now I don't know what attitude to use to face him.

Maybe that friend is playing with you or trying to surprise you on your birthday, but if he really pretends not to know, he doesn't have to make such friends.

In fact, you don't need too many friends, three or two are fine, they can help you when you are in trouble, and it is best for this kind of friend to cut off relations with him as soon as possible.

Maybe it's because I have my own concerns, my dormitory is like this, and every time I have a birthday, I don't know it.

Don't worry, if he really likes you and you don't like him, tell him: you're good, but we're not suitable, believe that your one is waiting for you, and we can still be friends. Try not to say sad things, if he really likes you, he must want you to be happy.

Let him be free, if he is leaving, he will kill people.

Don't deceive your heart, face it with your own heart.

Don't be afraid, because if you worry about that, it's both of you who get hurt later.

It's better to say it explicitly if you don't like it.

Save yourself the hassle of meeting later.

I just want to say that if he really likes you, he won't say it explicitly, he will always remember everything you have, silently care about you, pay attention to you, even if you have someone you like, maybe, he will be lost, but he won't hate you, because he is reluctant.

You have to know that instead of finding someone you love, you should find someone who loves you, because living a life and falling in love are completely different concepts.

If you don't hate him, stay with him, people like him are rare now. If you really don't feel it, it is recommended that you talk to him directly, and at the same time try to be friends, otherwise you will regret it.

Tell you something, I don't know if it's good or bad, your status will be displayed on QQ when your birthday is approaching. And there will be a reminder 1 month in advance. After your name, there will be a small cake logo and then write what day and day your birthday is.

If you don't like it, don't force it, he will understand, you can give him a hint appropriately, say that you are just very good friends, you can also often praise the so-and-so around you for being very handsome, in fact, if he is very smart, he shouldn't say it, this will be more embarrassing, if you keep hinting that you don't like him, maybe one day he will understand, you won't be embarrassed, and in fact, I think you still like him a little bit, because you are a little afraid that he will hate you, your own heart, you must understand, I wish you happiness.

Let it be.

What to do.

Love is mutual, so is friendship, it may be that your friends can't feel your sincerity, and you do give sincerely, you may be expressing your feelings and the wrong way of dealing with the world, you can change your way of dealing with the world, your so-called good friends, whether everyone thinks so, the general public is recognized is the way to communicate.

The grace of dripping water is reciprocated by springs. Only people who know how to be grateful can be true friends, you are surrounded by stakeholders, how to entrust the heart of the jackal? What's the point of trusting it?

Find a hobby, public welfare activity, and jump out of your "hopeless" social circle. Your facial features have been blinded, and I can only point you so much, cherish.

It shows that you are not strong inside! How do you know what others are saying about you behind your back? As long as you make friends sincerely, you will always receive friendship!

You were a bit withdrawn when you were a kid.

Already a couple will make friends.

Forgive and tolerate others, forgive others, treat others well, don't care, be broad-minded, and have no broken Buddhas.

It's my birthday, but the person I love broke up with me before my birthday! That's why I'm not happy on my birthday today!

But life still has to pass, she forgot your birthday, don't you love her? You still love her!

Maybe she didn't mention your birthday, but she wanted to surprise you and give you a special gift? Girls will find a way to surprise their loved ones on their birthdays, and I must be like this!

Happy birthday!!

Maybe something caused her to forget about it for a while.

Another possibility is that she might want to surprise you on your birthday!

If she doesn't surprise you, you dump her.

I think you'll have a surprise tomorrow.

It's a surprise! Wait! I pretended not to know the day before my husband's birthday, and I didn't plan to spend it on his birthday (he was more depressed, haha), and gave him a gift in the evening, hehe, he was very happy

Happy Birthday!

She might surprise you! Don't be too disappointed.

Maybe she forgot it, she was so busy, she couldn't remember her birthday, let alone the two of you were five days away, and she would definitely help you celebrate your birthday if she knew.

Definitely special.

Happy birthday to you.

There will be surprises, don't worry.

She wants to spend time with you! That's how my girlfriend is.

Want a surprise? Wait!!

Don't worry, maybe the surprise will be tomorrow.

Friends of the opposite sex? Boyfriend and girlfriend, you don't have to remember your birthday, especially boys, often don't remember girls' birthdays, don't break up for a trivial matter, so many years of relationship, you must be reluctant.

From your words, you can sense that you are in a very bad state, and you also feel regret and guilt for your actions. But it can also be seen that there may be a lot of contradictions in your heart, and you just said how you are emotionally, but you seem to avoid some of the helplessness in reality. What can you do but forget?

You also don't have to feel guilty about anyone, after all, you have suffered so much for your actions. Come back to reality, stop indulging in meaningless blame, the truth is that you still have to face life as a family, your parents, wife and children all need you, you didn't do anything to make them sad, and you may feel lucky at that time after many years.

Men should be responsible for their own choices, don't think about everything from their own point of view, this is too selfish, and they will regret it. You only think about how much you love that person, but you can think that your family also loves you, and they are also bearing for your actions. You can give so much love to a woman who has already taken over the marriage, why can't you give it to your family?

Have you ever wondered why? Ever wondered what you really want? A 30-year-old man is not too young, what can be cherished by you is not only love, there are many things, you have to see the road ahead, but what is left when the fog clears is what you should cherish.

People are like this, a sound to take a lot of steps, the key is just a few steps, once something goes wrong, it can't be made up, live in your own obsession, always feel that she owes you what is useless, blindly pain is useless, a few words of comfort are only temporary comfort, emotional things in addition to the principle and no one is right or wrong, only who does not cherish whom, after all, you have children, should. Cherish what you have, don't do things that you regret friends, compared to those victims of the Sichuan **, you are really much luckier.

Downstairs, please do not copy.

I should call you Auntie

I'm a post-90s generation

I really know your heart.

Because I've too, broken love,

Maybe everyone thinks differently

I don't know why I want to tell you this.

After all, I'm having a hard time myself.

I really don't want a second person in the world like me, hurt, distressed because it's really uncomfortable, I know!

This pain, this pain, I really don't dare to think about it anymore.

There are some things that we really have to let go of a little bit.

We don't regret what we lost.

Use your own bright tomorrow to meet everything that is coming.

I sincerely wish you well, and I sincerely pray for the happiness of all.

I don't ask you to give me points.

I just hope you can find a little comfort in what I've written.

I bless you from the bottom of my heart.

Forget it, it won't be so painful, the heel ahead is still very long, because you still have a family and a child, they all need you very much, even if the relationship is not compatible, but I also hope that you and your wife will slowly run in. I wish you all happiness in the future.

As I said, indecision hurt 2 women!! Now that the person you love has found happiness, it's time to let it go! Best wishes to her from the bottom of my heart!

To miss is to miss, and a lifetime of regret has been cast! Just leave this sad city and choose to leave! It may be hard to forget one person slowly, but don't hurt more people!!

Or go home and slowly find that your wife is actually very good, your son is very cute, and the family of three lives happily! Who can guarantee that their favorite will be with them for a lifetime? Once owned long enough!

In fact, the original unwanted to hurt has inevitably hurt so many people! So let's start a new life!! There is a kind of love called letting go!!

Loving someone does not necessarily have her, experience this sentence well, since you can't give her a happy home, then bless her, maybe you can live with your wife, maybe you will have feelings after a long time, take you and that her as the memory of your life.

Lost love, hehehehe, everyone is the same, lost is lost, never come back, their bitterness is only known to themselves, their own sadness, their own tears, only they can experience and see, but she will not know your heart, she will slowly forget you in the arms of others. Letting go is also a kind of love, it is the last love for her, missing is equal to losing forever、、、 cherish the 、、、 people you care about now

Personally, I believe that feelings can be cultivated. Even if you don't like your wife at first, but now that you have chosen to marry her, and you have children of your own. Why can't you be responsible for her?

Haven't you ever thought that your wife is alone in your house and would rather bear children for you? Give up everything you should have. Would rather be alone at home to take care of your parents.

Do you think about your wife easily? Maybe you were looking for the girl you were looking for at that time, just to fill in your emptiness at that time. Why don't you try to bring your wife and children to your city?

There is no long-lasting love, only after love evolves into family affection.

You just can't put it down

Don't be yourself.

Have you ever thought about it, but it's you forcing yourself?

Life is unsatisfactory.

Now that you have done it, you regret it now . Not a waste of time???

As for you saying, you can't look at it!

I tell you, you just keep drinking the blood of the earth...

If you are not happy, find a way to go to jail.

Sit for half a year and come out, and you'll understand everything!

Don't be alone.

Try to be with a friend, he pulls you there, you go there, in fact, nothing is waiting for you! Remember!

You also know that he likes that man very much now, if you do go back to him, will he definitely agree? If you fail, you're in more pain than you are. Work hard, try to be a good dad and husband.

Divorce has an impact on the children's hearts. Or are you looking at everything too pessimistic, live well. Time will make you better.