Friends in love always tell me about the details of her relationship when I am single, how to adjust

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's really sadistic for a single dog, but I don't want to lose a friend, so I don't know what to do. If I were you, I would probably do it.

    1. First of all, I will tell my friends honestly: dear, I am very happy for you, but I have a confusion, I don't know what to do, that is, I have heard you say that you and your boyfriend have heard a lot, especially your expression skills are very good, and the description is very clear, which will make me have an immersive hallucination, thinking that I only need to make up for love in my brain, and I don't need to really find a boyfriend. I don't think it's good, but I don't know what to do.

    Maybe your friend doesn't realize that doing so will bother you, so tell her directly and she will know; And then this will actually make your friends panic, it turns out that you have been yy my boyfriend, and this is all caused by me repeatedly revealing details to you, so I can't say it anymore; Ask for help directly, be honest and honest, so that you can continue to socialize with friends. )

    2. Next, you can find some activities that have nothing to do with your boyfriend to participate in, so that friends know that even in a relationship, you can't only have a boyfriend, you also need to have your own space, and you also need to have yourself. If you have a good time, you will naturally forget about your boyfriend. That way we can still have our own girlfriend time together.

    3. Ask a friend and her boyfriend to help me find a boyfriend for me, refer to their gameplay, and then tell my friends the details.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's a very common thing around me anyway, almost all of my good friends have boyfriends, well, it feels like I'm the only one left, and I don't say anything lonely or anything, but to be honest, sometimes it feels really weird, especially when they share the details of their relationship with their boyfriend with me.

    Anyway, under normal circumstances, your good friends are very happy and happy, and you should be just as happy as them, yes, that's right. A lot of the time I'm just as happy as they are. I remember a long time ago, my good friend always showed me that if she flirted with her male god, she would become her male ticket.

    She gave me all their chat history, which is a detail! But my memory at that time was really immersed in the same joy as her, and I was really happy with her happiness. At the time, I thought that true friends must be like this, but the more I got to it, the more I felt about it.

    I'm a weird, annoying person!Later, I felt a little impatient, because I was not herself, and I couldn't always feel the same way as her, and I couldn't experience the joy and fun between them, so I sometimes became a little impatient. But I'm not going to show it obviously, anyway, I should be reconciled at that time!

    Maybe the original intention she shared with you is good, and she treats you as a bosom friend, and the practices and ideas like mine feel a little ignorant. But I just can't control it.

    So I still think that no matter what it is, there must be a limit to sharing, so that there will be freshness and the conversation will continue. If there is too much content and others are not interested, then there is no doubt that this sharing is a failure.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When I meet this kind of friend, I just want to give him a roll of the eyes, it's okay to be in love, it's okay to show affection, but there's no need to tell others the details, and it also depends on whether people are willing to listen, isn't it?

    Many people are like this, whether they want to listen to it or not, and they can't understand other people's eyes at all, and people's faces and expressions are already obvious, and I don't want to hear it. But he still talks about it, and it's all about himself and his boyfriend, and it's really fatal.

    It's okay to know your own things, there's no need to make everyone know, and not everyone wants to hear about their own affairs, but many people just don't understand this truth, and their own affairs with their boyfriends are also considered private matters, why do you have to say it, I was also speechless.

    However, some people talk about the details of their boyfriend because they want to show off or show affection, and the most important thing is that you are single, so you can abuse you. It's also a way to show his superiority, many people just think that it's hard to fall in love, and they always tell others about it.

    I feel like it's great to fall in love, as if everyone else is someone who can't play with a boyfriend. This kind of person is the most annoying, you have the ability to find someone who is in love like you, and it's the kind of person who has a good boyfriend, see if you still have a sense of superiority.

    If a friend like this kind of friend talks about the details of the relationship with your boyfriend, you can choose not to listen to it and find an excuse to leave. He can't pull you to insist on talking, stay away from people who are in love, and cherish life.

    It's not a bad thing to be single, it's just that fate hasn't arrived yet, don't be afraid of people who are in love, you can also talk about how good you are single, and he won't say it if he thinks it's boring.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you're in a relationship, I think you should care about each other. Adjust your mentality and get along with him well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be too high for the other party to marry, you should calm your mentality, and if you want to marry yourself as soon as possible, don't ask too high.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Be confident in your future and believe that you will always meet the person you like. Be grateful for your daily life and let yourself be happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Relax your mindset and calm your attitude towards marriage. Let your expectations for marriage not be so high, and the requirements for choosing a marriage partner can be appropriately lowered.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Adjust your balance and mindset. Older unmarried women don't have to have a feeling of psychological leftovers, but they should not cling to the psychology of "rather lacking than excessing" to seek perfection.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Lower your vision, reduce your conditions for your other half, calm down and get along with the opposite sex, happiness is still easy to find.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think older unmarried women are generally because they are too demanding of their other half, so they can relax their requirements. If you really can't accept it, you try to ignore what is being said about you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ignore the eyes of others, turn the envy of others into the joy of being single, and then devote yourself to your own career, and when you are strong enough, he will come.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If people really like you, they won't say that he himself is not a good lover, and it is wiser to give up!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After twenty-five, it belongs to the leftover woman, if this kind of woman is still single, there are several possibilities, she has a higher vision, and there is no one she likes, the second is that she may be more shy, this possibility is big, and there is another one, that is, she has not met someone who can really be good to her. Han Bing suggests that you attack as soon as possible and be sincere to her, after all, normal people are eager to have love and family at this age. Wishing you happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The reason why I am single is because I haven't met someone who really suits me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't wait to confess, take the initiative.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Others have abused me and kissed me thousands of times.

    I should not see it at all.

    Hahaha: Just be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why do you want to be a single dog, change yourself, make yourself a single nobleman...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Live your life and let others say go!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The end of a relationship is not so easy to let go....Maybe I'm tired, maybe I don't want to touch emotions for the time being, I want to be quiet, normal.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because you are both hurt by your love for each other. Therefore, I am in a bad mood and avoid love. When it comes to love, I am afraid to think about past experiences. So they don't dare to face new love for the time being.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Tired. That's enough. I want to get hurt, I can't wear a skirt, and I can't wear a scar. A process is required. It's completely good.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is also a respect for the ex, and it is also responsible for your next relationship, first purify yourself, some are to break up today, and get along with another person tomorrow, so it's not good to ......

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's just that I'm tired. Don't want to look for it anymore.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because they broke up, they still loved each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Either you're still in love, or you're tired of talking about a person who is better.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At least you have truly loved and gone to your heart, I just ended a relationship, bad fate! I've met a scumbag! I probably don't want to talk about it in my life, so be brave and face a new life, and you can live better for each other! Hopefully you'll meet that in two years' time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It may be implying that some people are single, and then it may simply be talking about their recent status.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A girl posted on Moments to play and said that there were three single dogs, one of which was a couple (five people went out to play). The expression comes from the tide and ridicule. What kind of mindset is this? Do you have a friend who has experienced it? Or have you seen it?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You have to ask her, if you like her, and she happens to show that she is a single dog, right, because she has become a light bulb, she must hope that she can have a boyfriend, then it is just right, if you are a man, and you happen to like her, then hurry up, if you don't like it, just take a look.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    may be implying that others are single, begging to get rid of singleness, and begging for confession.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    One mentality is to send it out to play, and the other mentality is to also want to fall in love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Deliberately showing that he is single, eager to have the other half, having a feeling of getting out of singles, and having a high success rate for boys.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is a sign of immaturity. Or deliberately sent it out to let so-and-so see it, or really sent it out to play.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It shows that this girl is not reserved.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Well lit! Your ** shot is so natural and coordinated! These beautiful ** true feelings moved me, the pixels are clear, the expression is vivid, the angle is moderate, the body position and the eyes are in place, from the perspective of shooting, the mobile phone is very high-grade, the shooting technique is accurate, the angle is clearly visible, the background is plain and does not lose the style, the scenery is unique, it can be called a classic masterpiece of modern photographers!

    This **, showing an extraordinary focus in the plain, can be described as beautiful, reaching our admiration. Fanatical star chasing height, From an artistic point of view, the beautification of this ** still needs to be improved, but the significance it shows is far greater than the ** itself! He is truly a professional shooting master!

    Your height is out of our reach, and after reading this one of yours stupidly, my heart can't be calm for a long time! How could there be such a beautiful picture in this world? I couldn't believe my eyes.

    Ever since the Meitu App came out, I thought that there would never be any ** that could impress me again, but I didn't expect to see this beautiful ** today. You made me deeply understand the meaning of the phrase 'a smile is overwhelmed, and the country is discolored', after reading **, I dare not reply easily, I am afraid that my vulgar language will tarnish the rare beauty in this world. But I replied anyway, because I felt that if I couldn't leave my own foreshadowing behind such a wonderful **, it would be a regret for my life.

    Please forgive me for being selfish! No matter how gorgeous the words are, it is impossible to describe the beauty of this **, it is so beautiful, it is really beautiful!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Besides, I don't think there's anything wrong with being single, on the contrary, I feel that I'm actually free by myself。Although sometimes it is a little lonely, but thinking about the troubles after falling in love, I feel that it is easier to be alone, and there are not so many things to take care of.

    But falling in love depends on fateYou can't find someone to be with at random in order to find a partner, if you say that you are with someone you don't like, you might as well be single! That's why I haven't been in a relationship yet, mainly because I haven't met someone I really like. Just imagine trying to force and wronged yourself for a person you don't like, and then make some changes for this person, is it not worth it?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course, it will affect my mentality, because I have no face when I am single, I can't hold my head up in front of others, and I am still complained about like this, it's really going to be **.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Of course, it will affect my mentality, because when I see that others have entered in pairs, I am very envious of myself and very anxious.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Of course, it will affect my mentality, after all, being single is not a glorious thing, and I will always be complained about and even anxious.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It won't affect my mentality, because there is a reason why I don't want to fall in love, and I also know that my girlfriend is joking, not serious.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Being complained about being single by your girlfriend every day will definitely affect your mood, and if you are talked about by others all day long, you will definitely be in a bad mood, so hurry up and find a boyfriend, save yourself from listening to him.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Being single often complained by girlfriends will affect your mentality, and you need to recognize your heart and not be influenced by the outside world.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Yes. And it will make me have a desire to get off the list as soon as possible, because I don't want to be complained about continuously.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    No, because I'm temporarily single just because I haven't met the male god in my mind, and I don't want to settle in a relationship.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Being complained about being single by my girlfriend every day will not affect my mentality, but I will still be full of expectations for my love life.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I feel that the mentality of single youth is self-righteous, they think that this state is good, but it is not.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    They don't fall in love, they don't have, they are very free, they don't have to think about other people's feelings, just do their own thing.

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