My boyfriend s interpersonal skills are very poor, how can I teach him to socialize?

In fact, everyone has their own strengths, you think that your boyfriend is relatively poor in interpersonal skills, maybe he just doesn't like such occasions very much, he tries to avoid participating in such social interactions, which may cause some misunderstandings for you. If there are some social situations that you have to go to, I think maybe he will do well.

In fact, for this matter, we have to consider it from two aspects, on the one handFrom your own point of viewand we're going to tryAdjust your mindsetNot reluctantlyThe boyfriend does things he doesn't like to do, and can spend more time on the things he likes to do, and have common communication and collisions with him. You can also ask him for his opinion on the social aspect, ask him for his thoughts, and judge from the conversation whether he doesn't like it or whether he is really not good at it.

The second aspect isImprove social skills。Because, if he himself admits that he is not good at socializing, then we can help him with some social skills and methods. For example, in the process of gathering and making friends with him, you can privately remind him of some places to pay attention to, so that he can better understand and master some social skills and methods.

In addition, you can also learn some social methods together, there are many of themCourses and booksThey can be used as some of our reference materials, and these methods and theories are constantly used in practice, and there are scenarios and exercises, which will have a deeper memory and can be better absorbed and mastered.

No matter what the skill is, the most important thing is to askPractice moreBecause only in a real process can we find some problems in the social process, find the problems and study, exercise, and improve in a targeted manner, and after a period of strengthening, we can improve the boyfriend's ability in social interaction.

My boyfriend is good in every way and treats me well, but he used to have a problem with poor social skills. When we went out on dates and had dinner with friends, he always spoke very little, and sometimes he said the wrong thing, causing embarrassment. So then I decided to help him improve his social skills.

1. Ask a girlfriend who has a boyfriend to play with her boyfriend: My girlfriend's boyfriend is more cheerful and can always make us laugh. Men have self-esteem, and in private I would say that let him learn more from his girlfriend's boyfriend who is lively and cheerful, and good at chatting with others.

My boyfriend was also led by me, first chatting with my best friend's boyfriend, and gradually he also became involved in the conversation between us. It can be said that under the persuasion, the boyfriend bravely took the first step.

Second, it is also very important to read social-related books: because I found that my boyfriend talks to his friends when he talks about everything, and at my request, he gradually chats with my friends speculatively, but his speaking and social skills still need to be improved, in order to help him learn, by the way, I also study myself, so I bought "The Art of Communication" to study with my boyfriend every day, in order to urge him, I will often communicate with him about the experience of reading. There are many books like this on social networking, and they are similar, but the theory is definitely necessary to master.

3. Participate in more hobby activities and meet more new people: With theoretical skills, I started to bring my boyfriend to participate in activities and meet more new people in conversation. My boyfriend and I like to travel, in order to meet more friends, we choose to travel in a group or in a group, and we will meet a lot of people we don't know along the way, and in some cases, I pretend to be embarrassed and ask him to ask other people's questions, and he does a good job.

And when everyone eats together, I will deliberately let him introduce himself first and get to know everyone. Slowly, not only is he not afraid of socializing, but his social skills have also improved, which makes me feel very gratified.

So girls, if your boyfriend loves you and you love him, then force him to improve, and I believe that he will improve very quickly under your persecution.

Then your boyfriend must be a very good otaku.

I can't socialize, but I can still get a girlfriend! You have to make the majority of enthusiastic bachelors who have been fighting on the front line of flirting with girls for many years jealous of your boyfriend.

It's still such a cute girl who wants to help her boyfriend learn to socialize!

To get back to the point, social networking is about having more contact with people, and exercising social skills by contacting all kinds of people.

If your boyfriend is not confident and has poor social skills, build his social confidence and encourage him to communicate with different people.

If you don't like to socialize and are not sociable, don't force it, just be nice to you. Let him enjoy his alone time quietly.

Being quiet in the midst of the noise is also excellent. If that's the case, don't force him to socialize, just get along with the people around you, and you can do the interpersonal communication.

If your boyfriend is kind, don't worry, wouldn't it be better if someone would associate with him because of his kindness or something else?

Your male ticket has friends around him who understand that he likes him, and your male ticket doesn't have to bother to operate, how good it is.

I think so, after all, it's hard to walk in this society if you don't know how to socialize.

In fact, there is no difference in this aspect, but in the method. When interacting with people, keep smiling, speak and behave generously, and be easy-going. You must also dare to socialize with others, let go of yourself, and believe that you will definitely become a master of interpersonal communication!

1. If the profession is insurance, you will have the ability to communicate. (I have a student who changed the trajectory of his life because of this).

2. Chat with people more, starting with good friends and relatives.

Communicate well and guide him to communicate slowly.

Does his poor interpersonal skills affect you?

Is he willing to accept your 'makeover'?

Maybe after he changes, he won't be the person you like now.

I advise you not to do stupid things and cultivate good communication skills, he went to find a junior.

Breaking up is the right choice, you can't be taught, and you're tired to death.

I think first of all, you can share your life and social experience with him, so that he can learn and learn.

You have to tell him that others will be upset if you say this, and let him pay more attention, and it is better to give his opinion gently, so that he will not hurt his self-esteem and will be more willing to accept your opinion.

And once you meet him saying something offensive, you have to kindly remind him, let him stop saying it next time, tell him that others will be unhappy, if he can't accept it, you can try to make him empathize.

How to say it, it is to inadvertently say that he has hurt someone, and then apply it to him, so that he knows how hurtful it is, and what kind of feelings people will feel.

Teach him this, if he can improve his social skills, he will improve, and if he can't do it, let him shut up.

To be honest, social skills are really not easy to improve, especially when he himself is not aware of this. He may know that his social skills are not good or average, but he is not as bad as you think. Saying the wrong thing at the social event at the dinner table, this kind of thing, as a party, may have been resolved by others at the time, and he himself forgot about it, while you, as a woman in charge of the house (we women can also hold up a piece of the sky), will not easily forget the details and causes and consequences.

You can analyze the causes and consequences of the things before and after, the process of occurrence, and the consequences caused by his words, so that he can understand the causes and consequences, at least similar situations that arise later, so that he knows how to deal with it and how to avoid this kind of thing from happening again. You can give him more chestnuts for the same thing.

If your boyfriend is really unteachable, or even rotten wood can't be carved, you just let him shut up, and the man you choose will help him with tears.

When I first got along with my boyfriend, almost all the male classmates in the class were against it, and they all told me that my boyfriend had a problem thinking and couldn't speak. At first, I didn't believe it, thinking that how can today's college students have poor social skills, they may be because my boyfriend is shorter than me, so let's just say bad things about him.

But after getting along for a long time, I found that he is really a bit brainless, and when he chats and talks with others, he always can't get to the point, and sometimes even makes people laugh when he says something. I felt blind at the time, and I found a second fool.

So I started to exercise his social skills, and when I needed to pay money, ask ** or borrow something, etc., I would let him go, I listened to it, and then after it was over, I would tell him that ** was wrong. Even when I wasn't around him, I would ask him to record it for me, and during that time I would talk about something he didn't say right almost every night.

In order to help him quickly change his way of speaking and improve his social skills, we simulated the scene when we ate together. For example, I am his ordinary friend, chatting with him, setting up scenes to exercise his speaking skills. In this way, we can communicate with each other frequently and promote mutual progress.

These methods have helped him change a lot, but after all, it is not something that can be changed in a day or two, and I often get angry because of this in the process. So I also bought some books about emotional intelligence and communication for him to read, sometimes we have been in contact for a long time, and always talk about this problem, he will also think that I dislike him, and I am not a professional speaking teacher, so buying books for him to read for himself is too helpful.

Teach him what to do, you have to think thoroughly to understand. As long as he can make you happy, why care if you can live in the world. It's hard, it's hard, and if you don't have money, you live a little bit.

You can't force it in your life, you can't force it, you can't force it to hurt your body and hurt your heart. Relying on the mountains, relying on everyone to run, relying on your own hands to achieve your dreams is the most real, comrade! How many relationships there are, always in the wind and rain.

You can do more and talk less at first. But when doing things, you think about the answer in your heart, and then listen carefully to how others respond, analyze whether what the other party said is correct, learn from what you can learn from, and reflect on whether what you said is right. After listening more, I felt that my thoughts were slightly better than those of others, and I tried to speak more. Come on!

I think you can instruct him to speak as soon as possible, and to be sure to think about it before saying it, otherwise he will easily offend people.

If the boy's photography ability is relatively weak, then at this time, I think you should go to let him get in touch more, and take him with him more.

First of all, you have to tell your partner about your heart! Then slowly set out your object's words! Only by constant communication will there be understanding!

If not! You know your object from his words and deeds! Or his friends know there!

Good luck!

I'm talking about Sa. A man's heart is not the same as a woman's. Men are mainly career-oriented.

He is in love and will pay special attention to girls. Also, after getting married, I am talking a lot. The rest of the time he wasn't in the mood to say those things.

If you really want to be nice to him. Just be nice. Don't get angry.

Do what needs to be done. Don't do what you shouldn't do. I believe that soon you will get better after you get married.

It's really hard, and that's the same way I want to talk to him now, but he doesn't bother to talk to me, but when I'm too lazy to talk, he's very diligent in talking to me.

Hehe. Look at the people above. I'm ready to come. Just get so many of the same. It's not going to be copied online.