What is the reason for such an unpleasant thing? Is it retribution for doing something wrong?

I don't think it's a matter of retribution or feng shui; Like yours, many people have encountered it, mainly because the interpersonal relationship is not handled well, and I offended some villains and was framed by villains Maybe, the leader in charge believes in me and knows that I am wronged, and he does not embarrass me at all. I heard a colleague say that it was not a big deal, and the leaders at the top did not pursue it, but someone deliberately expanded the matter for some reason. No matter which unit you are in, this situation will happen The key is that you usually have to straighten out your interpersonal relationships, respect others more, be open-minded, tolerant, be optimistic, and look at problems a little more openly.

If conditions permit, recite the Buddha and worship the Buddha, recite sutras, do more good deeds within your ability, and release life or give alms; As long as you persevere, slowly your future will be smoother Chanting Buddha, it has been a few years of giving, and when I encounter such a thing, I have been very depressed, mainly because of the face, now I say it, my heart has been comfortable, thank you sincerely! View the original post

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As long as people do wrong things, as long as they don't hurt nature and reason, how can they get retribution?

It's up to you to do something wrong! Generally speaking, if you do something wrong, you will go beyond the scale, damage the interests of others, and you will be punished for hurting others.

Of course not. If there is retribution for doing bad things, then there will not be so many people who do bad things in reality.

However, there is also a saying in "Sophie's World": "He who distinguishes between right and wrong will not be evil", which means that if a person has a clear concept of right and wrong, he will know that if he does bad things, he will not be happy. On the contrary, it will only increase the psychological unpleasantness.

If the unhappiness in the heart is a kind of retribution, then it is also okay to say that there must be retribution for doing wrong.

From the perspective of Buddhism, good is rewarded with good and evil is rewarded, and it is not that the time has not yet come. Of course, first of all, yours is a believer. But if you can ask this kind of question, at least you are also a marginal person, neither materialistic nor idealistic, then you can analyze it from this point of view, if you are purely idealistic and believe in religion, you should not do bad things, and as for wrong things, you should also avoid them as much as possible.

If you don't have religious beliefs, you can do wrong things, even bad things, but, but - you have to remember that before you hurt others, you have to think about whether you have the ability to compensate, this compensation can be spiritual or material, the key is to see what he lacks, it is useless to hurt others, but to make up for your own mistakes!

No one is perfect, and everyone has a time when they do something wrong.

If you do something wrong unintentionally, the next time you learn a lesson, you will change it when you know it, and you will not be retribution, if you do it for your own benefit, or if you know that it is something that hurts others, you still do it, or you already know that it is wrong, and you add mistakes to mistakes.

That will definitely be retribution

Maybe you won't be punished in the same way, and the most terrible thing is the condemnation of your own heart.

It is a conscience that is right, and it is not wrong!

People will always do wrong things, it's up to you to believe it or not.

Then depending on what you do, people are not sages, and practice is not faulty.

Tell you the most fundamental way, you have to add points, hehe!!

In fact, your ** is prone to scarring, mainly because of your physique, to put it bluntly, ** do not love to fit, you should eat more things that contain VC, especially dates, containing the most, because I used to be the same as you, VC will improve**, if you don't believe it, you use jujube boiled water to drink every day, a week, you will find **very moisturized, and the face is good. The main thing is to help with healing**. Otherwise, you can buy some VC to eat, don't eat more, one pill a day is fine, eat more is not good for the body.

It is said that VE is good, but I have also used it, and it has no effect, maybe it has something to do with my personal physique.

If there are acne marks, one is that it will fade after a long time, but I think you are too anxious, they said that it is okay to use Dr. Bai's printing cream, but I have used it, I feel that it has been used for a long time before it fades, not so much that it is good to make, but that it has been a long time, and it is the bean print itself that has faded!! I feel that it is good to use essential oils, especially lavender, if you make a cut on your hand, you drop it, and the next day it will be almost good, really. I've tried, lavender is scar lightening.

You can go to a place where essential oils are sold and buy them. After washing your face before going to bed every night, use a cotton swab to point on the place with a mark, which is very effective, and the essential oil is pure plant extraction, unlike the general acne that contains hormones or chemical ingredients.

Finally, you said, "There are still a lot of holes, just the kind that sinks", which hurts the dermis. If you want to cure it like before, it is unlikely, if you have money, you can do "photorejuvenation", and it can also solve the problem of large pores that you mentioned. Otherwise, buy some brands of restorative cosmetics that should be effective.

As for going to the big beauty salons, I can't believe it anyway, because they will ask for a lot of money, and I don't know what kind of products they use. If you can't cure it, you will say that you have a personal problem, and if you treat it for a long time, you will also take the money yourself, and if you want to cure it, don't be afraid of trouble, and adjust it internally and externally. That's all I can say to you.

Because I've had it too. It also feels unbearable. I don't go out much.。。

I hope you can cure it...

Come on. My hands are sore when I hit it. Hehe, there is a chance to give me extra points!!

If you do something wrong in your previous life, you will be punished in the underworld, and if the sin is too serious, you will be rewarded in this life, and it is recommended to do more good deeds and public welfare.

Divorce for such a small matter, what is marriage to you? Is it child's play? Communicate with your husband and mother-in-law to find out the root cause of the problem!

You have to think clearly, if you feel that this kind of life will continue to be bad, and you really can't stand this kind of life, then take advantage of the fact that it's not too late to get a divorce.

If you still have nostalgia for your husband or something, you can only try to change this situation.

However, after reading your questions and follow-ups, you have a lot of dissatisfaction with him, is it temporary or long-term backlog?

If divorce can be better, then I support you

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and you have 2 relationships that have not been handled well, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between husband and wife. Your husband has a bad temper, this is not good for him, your husband is an only child, so of course your mother-in-law protects him.

I'm not married, I don't know about these things, hehe, I can't give you advice.

You should have a big fight with him about this and make him understand the seriousness of the problem.

You're a good woman, but you don't have to hold back for so long. However, divorce is not necessarily the only way to solve the problem, if the knot between the two parties is not opened, the sudden mention of divorce will only make the situation worse. It is recommended that you communicate with him when he is in a better mood before making a decision.

After all, modern society is stressful and not easy, and he may lose his temper at you because he thinks you can't understand him. You can think more from his point of view. Have you done a job similar to his current job?

If not, you might as well gather information on this and try to understand his stress.

The problems in marriage are very complex, but it doesn't sound like it should be to the level of divorce, and some of the issues are recommended to be communicated well:

1. Find a suitable time, talk to your husband seriously, tell him your feelings, and listen to his difficulties;

2. The work of the elderly is more difficult to do, so if you can't do it, you can let your mother, other relatives or ask a nanny to take care of the children.

I think your husband is too immature, what kind of complaint should you tell his mother about the matter between the two husbands and wives? It is estimated that most of the reason why your husband is like this now is because your mother-in-law spoils him. If you don't have children, I would advise you to choose divorce; But with children, children are the most innocent, and single-parent families have an impact on children.

You communicate with your mother-in-law and husband first, and then think of other ways.

It's best to find a suitable time to talk to him, tell him calmly, tell him sincerely how you feel, and consider how to solve this problem from his point of view in a timely manner.

Maybe you don't know your husband well enough Try to communicate with him.

Calm down, solve it! Keep a good optimistic attitude, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome! I'll give you my mantra! There will be bread, and there will be rice! Be happy all the time.

If you have the conditions, go to the beach, or take a boat to the sea, and if you don't have the conditions, just look at the sky overhead. Sometimes the unrestricted eyes will make the heart empty.

What needs to be dealt with and can be dealt with should be dealt with in a timely manner, and if you don't deal with it for one more hour, you will have one more hour of unhappiness, and if you can't deal with it, you will smooth everything out.

Write it in your journal, then forget about him and think about the happy things. Or try to communicate with your parents and talk to your good friends to relieve your boredom.

Either talk to your parents, or find something to vent: such as boxing, using sandbags as enemies, it should be almost the same to vent