I broke up with my boyfriend, and I wanted to keep how to keep it so that I could be with him

Since you have seen that he is not a responsible person, and you have been disappointed, and you have discovered many of his faults through your interactions, if you feel that you can go further, then be tolerant, understand and cover everything, communicate with each other when appropriate, and give each other their opinions. If you also have the heart to let go, there is nothing to be reluctant to, willing to be willing, willing to be willing to gain, and then entangled for a long time, you may suffer the grievances will increase, and your feelings are constantly degenerating, he is kind, good people have their own place, rather than so tired to maintain this relationship is better to be a little simpler, just like in the end there will be no beautiful results, why bother to keep chasing it......You are also very kind, otherwise you wouldn't care about the emotional foundation that went through ups and downs in half a year, people always have spirituality, and it is inevitable to have emotional interactions, if you have another him, everything will fade away.

Girl, you should reflect on yourself, as the saying goes, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, people are afraid of sadness, trees are afraid of peeling, these old sayings are reasonable, you break up again and again to hurt him, before his reluctance is not to lose you, but you have no reflection at all, to the extreme he can only give up, his abandonment does not mean that he is irresponsible, but your feelings make him too tired, he has given you a chance, you did not grasp it, no one should do what you should do, His tolerance of you is that he loves you, but you use his love for you as a bargaining chip to hurt him, this result is sooner or later, just like couples can't just say a truth about divorce, more tolerance and more understanding, think about it and maybe you can understand a lot, men have tears and don't flick, but they haven't reached the sad place, men also have fragile times, you can do it yourself, instead of blaming others, it is better to change yourself, you respect others, and others will respect you.

Loving someone can also be a guardian, she has now proposed to break up like you, if this is if you keep her will feel annoyed, it is better to give her some time to think about it, and also give you time to calm down. After a while, start with her best friend, learn more about what she thinks, maybe she will want to open it one day, and want to be with you again, I wish you happiness.

You want to keep the note that you still love him. You can choose to continue, and there is a possibility that he will not accept it. My suggestion is: >>>More

Couples always break out because of a little problem on the outside, this is very important, no one has the obligation to accommodate others, will accommodate because they care, but that is also limited, must not continue to use quarrels to consume the bottom line, how to change I think in fact, you know in your heart, but how to do is important, I think you have to develop a habit, the habit of being silent for three seconds before you break out, the two of you have to sit down and talk about it, remember, it's good, if you can't do it, Hearing him say your true shortcomings, you can't accept that it will erupt, don't talk about it, it's meaningless, if you can control yourself in advance, then you have to let him vent his dissatisfaction with you for so long, and you also tell what you are afraid of and worried about because you love him, so that both parties have vented, and a transparent confession can bridge your rift, otherwise, even if you chase it back this time, the next time you break out again, it will only consume his remaining bottom line until it is irretrievable. >>>More