How do you persuade your boyfriend s grandmother to live in the city?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Tell the old man that it is still convenient in the city, and it is also convenient for you to take care of her, and the old man feels sorry for the child, so you say that if she doesn't go, it will drag you back, and the old man may consider it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At the level of a grandmother like this, you can only preach to him at the level of a grandson, because only a grandson can touch their hearts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to go to live in the city with your boyfriend's grandmother, you have to tell him to live in the city, and you can take care of him, unlike at home, where no one takes care of you and you are not at ease.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you must finish all the things that Grandma has done in the village. Let my grandmother have no worries before she can go to live in the city.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that such elderly people generally prefer to live in their hometowns, so don't force them if they don't want to.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can tell your boyfriend and grandmother that the city is fun, and life in the city is very free.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How to persuade your boyfriend's grandmother to live in the city, you can take some photos from the city that he is interested in, let him know how colorful life in the city is, and then tell him some practical things that he is interested in.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That can only mean that if her grandmother likes your boyfriend, you can say that your boyfriend can't do without her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no way to do this, because for a person, his living habits are all in the countryside, so it is difficult to change at this time, so I am afraid that there is no way to do it at this time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If your boyfriend's grandmother doesn't want to go to live in the city, don't force it, because the old people are used to living at home.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm afraid this is difficult, because the old people don't like to go to the county seat to live.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you want to go to your boyfriend's grandmother to live in the city, sometimes you can't persuade you because the elderly are more conservative.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to persuade your boyfriend's grandmother to live in the city, you can tell your boyfriend's grandmother that the city is very good, there are relatives, and the transportation in the city is very convenient, Xinqi.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The grandmother who cheated on her boyfriend went to live in the city, then you told your grandmother, you said that life in the city is good, and then you can eat whatever you want, and you don't have to go outside, it's very convenient.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My grandmother is reluctant to live in the city because they live in the countryside and are used to it, but if you want him to live in the city, he must like her and give up your boyfriend, so you can say boyfriend, so he may be able to give you a life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, there is no need to go at all, if an elderly person is used to living in the countryside and going to the countryside to go to the city, he will definitely not be used to it, unless someone accompanies him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If the elderly don't want to, I don't think there's any need to persuade them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's okay to discuss this kind of thing with him directly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can tell his grandmother, how is life in the city so good?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this case, you can have a good chat with the other party, talk about the reasons, what the old man thinks every day, if the other party still disagrees, then respect the old man's idea.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can directly tell your boyfriend's grandmother about the various benefits of living in the province, as well as various things, as long as you communicate with him slowly, he will definitely understand.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How do you persuade your boyfriend's grandmother to live in the city? If you don't want to go, don't force it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your parents want you to go to school for your own good, but what do you think about yourself, if you can't bear your grandparents, you can make your own decisions. Of course, you can't miss the study. It's just a little tired.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Multiple choice questions, 1, you live on campus, the rest is the same, and grandparents take care of each other.

    2. Living with your grandparents and taking care of them, can you do it?

    3. One of your parents is no longer working, and they come back to take care of you and your grandparents, which one do you choose if the quality of life declines? Maybe you have a better way?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't learn to be independent, you'll never grow up.

    Learn to adapt to life in order to live independently.

    Welcome to adopt.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is no way to do this, and your parents let you live in school so that you can study better. It can also allow you to develop the habit of living independently. I couldn't stand it at first, which is normal, and I just got used to it slowly.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't want to live in school, you come back to treat me, you don't care about me when I grow up, or I'm not your child, since you gave birth to me, you have to raise me well, pay me some responsibility, okay.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your filial piety can be seen in the sun and the moon.

    First of all, you know your grandmother's stubborn personality, so you should be kind and seducing, and then you really have to be patient, and it is better to treat yourself as a sponge and let it go freely.

    It's not easy for your grandmother, she has already set her minds, so you have to work harder

    Your grandmother may think that she has nothing to give, and she just spends money

    In fact, in the eyes of everyone, it is clear that each has its own role.

    It's just that your grandmother's profession is to rein, and she herself doesn't have a clear understanding. This is also an over-effort that leads to a long period of depression (this one definitely has.) Contradictory identity).

    In short, you may have to be patient, have a good beginning, and hope for a good ending

    It may take a long time, after all, your grandmother is deeply ingrained in her thinking, and she is too old to take her to the hospital, so she can only boil frogs in warm water (to use this colloquial saying for the time being).

    Add oil ( As for how to cook, it depends on how careful you usually are, there are no seamless eggs...) Of course, I'm just a passerby, and the actual situation shall prevail, and the state of mind cannot reach your heart. so

    Only blessings

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, sometimes white lies are necessary, and the elderly are just reluctant to spend their children's hard-earned money

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Try saying that the whole family wants you to get your teeth cured sooner, and you don't want everyone to worry about it, and then talk about the pros of going to the hospital and the disadvantages of the stalls.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First, don't keep persuading, keep talking, it can only make the old man disgusted; Second, some practical examples can be used to pretend that they are not intended to be mentioned and gradually change the views of the elderly; Third, if you have the conditions, you can find someone who is more convincing to the elderly to persuade you; Fourth, change the technique of persuasion and say it when the elderly are in a good mood; Fifth, find a way to let the elderly know that if they don't listen to the persuasion, their children and grandchildren will be unlucky.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let's talk more with the old people and talk about the past. I'll listen to you slowly

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    How do you get your 100 rewards?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's you, not your mother, who should be convinced.

    Maybe you don't like your grandmother's house, but your mother told you to go, and you'd better go, especially during the Chinese New Year.

    Be obedient and be a good boy.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The relatives are gone, in fact, the first reaction of many people is negative, denying the reality of her leaving.

    Then he will start looking for traces of her existence, their children, the clothes she helped him pack, help him cook, help him bring the children to live with him, the first meeting, the first date, the first touch.

    Then he will say somewhere, I can marry you in this life, I have not come in vain in this life, and then, cry. Then, farewell.

    Maybe you think he will be sad and sad, but he is also saying goodbye to her, in a language and mood that others can't understand, this is them, the last time, a date, and then, your grandfather will say goodbye to your grandmother gently, don't disturb the tenderness of our juniors,

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He has never imagined the world, and he has probably seen more dead people than you have ever seen alive. You don't have to comfort him, you just need to be with him, and one by his side is equivalent to telling him that you still have us.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't say much at first, stay with him quietly, and start enlightening him a little after a few days. Of course, look at him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Grandma is to leave the years of hard work on earth and enjoy the happy times of heaven. Don't be too upset. Grandma is driving a crane to the west, and she is dying at the end of her life, and those who are alive should cherish their bodies and prolong their lives.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's impossible not to be sad....But you can make him a little better,...They are all old people who have seen a lot of knowledge, and they may have been prepared for a long time....

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Everyone is going to die, and you shouldn't be too upset.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you can't persuade well, you can only let time run in.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Grandma, you are so old that you should come to the house. With friends at home for decades, home is inseparable from you, and you can't leave home. You can't go to someone's house to sleep, they have a grandmother at home.

    I'm afraid that people don't like you, and the elderly need you at home. Do we need you too? Sleep soundly in your own home.

    Well done.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    What are the benefits of going to someone's house to sleep? If there is no benefit, how could she be willing to go?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Hello landlord, I may persuade Xiao Ming like this, Xiao Ming, don't be too sad, everyone has life, old age, sickness and death in this process, so many people in the world, not only you have lost your loved ones, I believe that everyone, will have such an experience, so we have to look at some, maybe, after people die, there will be an afterlife, your grandmother may be reincarnated in heaven, to enjoy a happy life, we love someone, we have to hope that she can be happy, so since your grandmother to enjoy the blessings, What do we have to grieve? Although this is also speculation, but it is not impossible, so you have to learn to comfort yourself, live a good life, I believe that if grandma really goes to heaven, in heaven to see her grandson so sad, she will not feel good, so for the sake of your dead grandmother, for the people around you who love you now, care about you, don't be overly sad, in addition, you are sad here, it is not good for your grandmother, it is better to recite Amitabha, or the "Jizo Sutra" to surpass grandma, help grandma reincarnate in a good place, (That's all), I wish you happiness, peace, and happiness, and I wish you the Bodhisattva of the Great Wish.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Hello, parents don't let their children go to grandma's house to live, how to convince parents? Are you the child's grandmother, or the child himself? There must be reasons for parents' opposition, and it will be better to explain the reasons clearly, explain the needs of both parties, and try to reach a consensus.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Parents don't let their children go to live at their grandmother's house, how to convince parents?

    It is only natural for children to live in grandma's house!

    What child didn't grow up in his grandma's house?

    The New Year has to be spent at grandma's house.

    Life is a person from grandma's family, and death is a ghost of grandma's family.

    Grandma is the dearest. Grandma, aunt and uncle are all closer than father.

    Grandma, aunt, uncle.

    Great-granddaughter, niece, nephew.

    It's all very close.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    What does it mean? Why do it?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Hello! You can just communicate more with grandma. It is recommended that you do your own thing well and interfere less in other people's affairs, and you will be fine, because one person does not make up for two people.

    Adjust your mentality, face things in real life, and be your best self will get better and better.

    Seize every moment. Have a great day!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I don't need to persuade you.

    First, at such an age, it's not something you can manage, the old man has been here for most of his life, if he can change it, he doesn't have to wait for you to persuade him.

    Second, your mother or aunt can't take care of it, or no matter what, it's not your grandchild's turn to take care of it, you can know that it is persuasion, not management, but for the elderly, what you say is not necessarily persuasion.

    Third, there are personal standards for right and wrong, to what extent is it right, and the old man's remaining time is used to change her own problems or habits, then she will feel happy.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Persuasion is not persuaded, many people have their own way of thinking and doing things, there is nothing right or wrong, you can't take your opinion, or you think it's right to ask others to change their thinking Think about your grandmother has lived so old, for so many years, has been this way of happening, then you want to change him, it is very difficult.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    You feel that your grandmother is not right in many ways, that is your feeling, if you feel wrong, you can persuade him.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It is estimated that it is not very useful to explain the reason clearly, if you can, use the example of her peers to persuade her, or take her to do things with herself, force her a little, and after a while, it will be good to see the results.

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