Why do I feel like I wouldn t choose to be with that person and yet be able to entangle with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-19
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love is not the same as marriage. Although everyone wants to be in love and marriage at the same time, and to be able to end up with the person you like now, it is often difficult to do so due to many factors. There are many reasons why you may be in a habit, or to relieve loneliness, to enjoy the feeling that he likes you to be pursued, etc.

    You actually know in your heart that you just like him, but you don't love him enough, you still love yourself the most, that's it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It means that you have found in your heart that there are some things in that person that are not suitable for you, and it is not the type you want, and you are not satisfied with him, but you still have some feelings for him, and he also has some things that attract you a little, and you may still have a little hope for him, and the problems between the two of you have not reached the point where you have to break up, because you have not made up your mind to break up, but he is the same chicken ribs to you, tasteless food, and it is strange to abandon him, let it go, don't waste time and youth, and find your him as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because you're also bored, and the person you like can't be with you, use him for fun first.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If someone else likes you, will you still be entangled? It's loneliness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I feel that I am more suitable for each other.,Although I don't like it.,But if you live together, you don't hate it.。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My ex was that kind of person, so I knew too well what he was thinking. In fact, what he thinks is that the one I like has rejected me now, so I have to find a spare tire to accompany me first, and when she agrees to be with me, I will get rid of the spare tire.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I am very unwilling in my heart, because the two of them have been together for a long time and have paid a lot for this relationship, so I don't like it, but I want to be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The other party chooses to be with you, perhaps using you as a spare tire, many times when he meets a more suitable time, he will choose to abandon you, and I personally feel that since I don't love you anymore, there is no need to continue to be with the other party.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because it's okay. There are not so many perfections in the world, and he thinks that it is not uncomfortable and comfortable to be with you, so he chooses to make do.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because I think it's appropriate. Some people can't stay single for too long, and feel that it is better to have the right person to be with than to be alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because I want to make do with it. Now many people are in a state of making do with each other, not because of true love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In life, we will encounter such and such problems, the only person who can change these things is himself, only if he has confidence in himself, you can calmly complete your life road, the road ahead is very long, on the way we have walked in our life, there will be an oasis, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.

    When you try to face difficulties and pressures, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.

    What is the thing that bothers you the most now, try to solve it, and when everything is solved, you will not be as annoyed as you are now, you will think "Oh! It turns out that life can be so easy and so beautiful! ”

    If you can't make a decisive decision now, it will hurt you and him in the end, isn't it often said that long-term pain is better than short-term pain.

    I don't know what kind of person the person who loves you is, and I don't know what kind of person you are, but if you don't, how can you go through so long.

    If you are brave enough and direct enough, ask him to see if you can give you time to fall in love with him, but if you are not enough, you must look at your heart clearly, you can't bear to hurt him, which means that you still care a little, but your love is not deep enough, but you are likely to fall in love with him, and if you continue to think like this, maybe, it will hurt both parties.

    In the world of love, there must be someone who is hurt, but if you force yourself and make yourself unhappy, it is better to let go of this love.

    However, you have to think carefully about what is the reason for your unhappiness, why you are unhappy, what is the reason, is it him or you, do you really not love him, and is he tolerant enough to love you.

    Life is short for decades, love is not easy, happiness is not easy, since you are not happy, find a way to make yourself happy, since you don't know whether to let go, just think about the feelings that this love brought you at the beginning, your heart must be able to tell you the answer, go with your heart, be happy, force your face to laugh, you are not happy, maybe he is not happy, when you make a decision, if you want to break up, be decisive, if you persist, put aside distractions, and be good to you and him.

    Maybe my answer can't help you make a decision, but if you think about it carefully, it's not bad for you, such a question, others can't help you, only on your own, opinions can only be used as a reference, the most important thing is your heart, why not go with your heart, so as not to regret it in the future.

    Cloud puff ctt

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You don't feel for him, so why are you still together? If you don't pick him up for a long time, you won't feel your love and will be hurt by you, and you won't be happy, will you? What's the use of being good to you?

    In the future, there will be more people who are good to you, will you still love them one by one? If you don't like to be with him like this, you will only hurt him even more, which is the most cruel. You just restrain him like this, the sooner you divide it, the less harm it will do, let him find his own true happiness, and you can also be happy as soon as possible.

    I hope you figure this out!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You say the feeling of torture is that he is not good enough or something, anyway, if you don't love it, let it go.

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