Why do adults always take out anger on children when they are angry?

Alas, think about it, adults, who is he angry for, it's not adults who provoke it, plus children are sometimes disobedient, of course he will start beating people, I am from here, I have been beaten by my mother before, so that now there is no common language, even if you are obedient, if he is in a bad mood, he will pick bones in the egg, and the beating is unavoidable.

A kind of rude venting!

Maybe you'll have it when you grow up?

If you can tolerate it, you can tolerate it! When you can't tolerate it, you can communicate with adults and talk about your opinions, because children also have tempers, and only the parties can solve this problem!

I'm sure that adult will understand, because home and everything is prosperous!

When you get angry, you'll get angry with your child. Because children don't resist themselves, and you yourself think that this is my child, and you can get angry as much as I want. The child is very coaxing, and then it is OK to give a date.

I think: this is a problem for adults, and venting anger at a child will only cause some psychological shadows to the child, and adults should control their emotions well!

Everyone has times when they are stressed, when they can't control their emotions. People will only show their true emotions to the people closest to them. My parents will regret it later, but they didn't tell you.

Your parents are the ones who love you the most. "Raising children knows the kindness of parents", and when you grow up, your children will also understand.

He wants his children to make breakthroughs in areas that they can't reach!

The adult was dissatisfied with his situation, so he thought that he could not let the child suffer in this regard in the future! Therefore, when you are frustrated, you will raise your requirements for your children!

Because he doesn't have any other means of venting. You should give them a stick and let them go where they need to hammer.

It's the adults who are too ignorant, and they lose their temper at home and call it useless, and they have the ability to go outside.

Adult's adult education is inappropriate!

When adults are upset, it is inevitable that they will not take into account the emotions of children, but your way of venting is indeed a little inappropriate, but fortunately, you have realized it. It is a good idea to communicate with your child afterwards and tell him how you were feeling at the time, so that he realizes that it is not good to add unnecessary worries to you when you are upset. At the same time, take the initiative to admit that you are not right to hit him.

I think the child's mind is very simple, and he should understand your painstaking efforts. More importantly, you must learn to control yourself, deal with your own problems first, and then deal with your children's problems, and try to avoid direct contact and physical confrontation with your children. Because you are a parent, teach by word and deed, so as not to give your child some negative influences.

There are several ways to do this: First, take a deep breath and find a separate space to calm yourself. The second is to divert attention and do something else.

Or find someone to talk to and talk about your worries. Wait a minute. As for self-cultivation, it depends on your hobbies.

Heh, it's a bit of a short story, I hope it can help you.

Why don't you just change something else to vent your anger? The child is not your own.

First of all, we must find out the reason why the child suddenly gets angry - even if it is a child, it is very young, but it will not take a big turn for no reason.

Children are young, but when humans are children, they will unconsciously learn everything around them - such as the bad habits of adults and the swear words of others.

We won't mention the method of education. Let's just say that the human personality is formed at the age of 7, and then it is almost impossible to change it (there is a scientific basis for this). Therefore, your patience is extremely important now!