I am destined to have no love, is our love predestined?

The talent show walked out of a Li Wei, without arms, playing the piano with both feet, he said: "Who stipulates that you must use your hands to play the piano." "There are no certain things in the world, we can't choose how to come to this world, but we can make ourselves brave to live," There are two paths in my life, either a wonderful life, or waiting for death.

This is Li Wei's touching words, he finally went abroad and became a very good pianist, who can stop him from wonderful.

In fact, after reading your story, I was very moved, you are very strong, I am also a disabled person, maybe I can walk a little better than you, but I admit that in front of you, I am ashamed of myself, my self-esteem is very strong, I am not willing to walk in front of strangers, I can't stand those strange sympathetic and ridiculous eyes, a few days ago I was also depressed for my life, I was in a very bad mood, and I had the urge to commit suicide from time to time, but many netizens encouraged me to live, I must keep winning capital, who knows what the future will look like, Maybe your strength will touch a girl, you will get love, but, life does not just need love, I used to have a boyfriend, I love him very much, but he still can't accept me and leave me, that's my real love, but just like that, I was ruthlessly trampled into a puddle of mud, during that time I really thought about death, and even I wanted to use death to tell him my love for him after my family died, but it was such a coincidence, I met my current husband, it was a blind date arranged by the family, originally I didn't want to go, But I didn't want to hurt my family, but he liked me very much, I asked him why, he said fate, in fact, I didn't love him at all at first, but when I became a family, I found that I fell in love with him, and I couldn't tell if that feeling was love or family affection, but I had a friend who said that sometimes love is willing. I am one of the first of my friends to get married, I am only 20 years old, in fact, what I want to say, that is, you are not very old now, you have time to meet your beloved girl, don't worry, the years are still there, but fate has not yet arrived, fate to your life she also appeared, you will find that whether it is love or willingness will eventually become a life, the trickle of water is true, I think I should learn from you, self-reliance, become strong, brave to face those who look down on me, I also wish you to find the girl in your life.

The desire for love without love, the heart with love is dead. Everyone in the world has something hard to say.

Don't be so sad, be optimistic, love will come at a certain time. Life is full of hope!

Are you still waiting for someone now, waiting for a fate, waiting for someone who is destined to belong to you.

You always feel that there will be such a person, God has prepared for you, you always think that the reason why you are single is because that person has not yet appeared, you always think that that person will come, but it may be a little later than others.

But are you really sure that there will be such a person, no one can take it away, and it will definitely come to you, just someone who belongs to you, must love you, and rely on you.

In fact, have you ever thought that maybe there is no destined love in this world at all.

It's like a story I once heard about a priest who believed in God very much, and when he saw that he was about to be submerged in the flood, he ignored the three rescues of others and waited for God to save him.

In the end, the priest drowned, and when he saw God, he was very angry and asked God why he didn't save him, but God had already given him three chances, and he himself chose to give up.

So sometimes, whether it's life or love, there's really nothing 100% going on.

Life is only responsible for bringing fate to you, but if you don't grasp it well when that person appears, let it go, and easily choose to give up, then you still can't have love.

When you miss that person, of course you can tell yourself that it's okay, it just means that that person is not the right person. Of course you can tell yourself that, but if you do it again and again, you'll always be alone.

Don't be stupid, there is no destined love in this world, just like life, even if it is really destined for three points, the other seven points have to rely on themselves to work hard.

So if you really want to have love, don't just blindly wait, don't always blindly retreat when you meet someone you like, don't always choose to give up easily, you have to fight, you have to grasp, you have to cherish.

The so-called fate is not that there is such a person, it must belong to you, but that you choose a person and believe that that person is your destiny.

Text: Tan Meng.

Hello, although when I was young, I always had a kind of wildness and pride that I couldn't help but have, but after our years of nonsense, our love went through the test of time, I finally believed in fate.

When I was studying on the university campus, I always had a beautiful vision for the future, thinking that I was the pride of the sky with the gift of boring pieces and qualifications, and that I could create my own career and achievements after graduating from college, but the ideal was beautiful, but the reality was very skinny, when I really graduated from college, I found it difficult to find a job that really satisfied me, the fundamental reason was that I was too much, overestimating my ability, When I realized the problems in my own mentality, I worked hard to adjust my state, lower my posture and be cautious, and finally let myself find a job that really suited me.

When my work gradually got on the right track, I soon ushered in my own love and formed my own family, at this time, I began to really believe in the fate of this thing, because whether it is the pursuit of the career or the emotional encounter, it is necessary to have a certain fate, although these are all things that we need to work hard for, but many times, the results of some things have been arranged in advance, my lover is my colleagues in the unit after work, Although I was not satisfied with this job at first, when I adjusted my mentality and found this job, I adapted to this job and gained love in this job, so it was destined that this thing would happen to each of us often.

Good luck in your work.

Marriage is easy to do, just find a girl to live with is considered a de facto marriage. As for youth and love, hehe, it's like a prize in the lottery, it does exist, but do we have that good luck?

Besides, is love really that glamorous? A dignified man, for what kind of love, love, grovel to a girl, and finally have to look at the face of the girl, one day the girl is not happy to kick it. Is this love?

Therefore, the road has to be walked by oneself, and the life has to be lived by oneself, how can a man be a man if he is not self-reliant? When one day is developed, don't women want as many as they want? And why hang yourself from a tree with a crooked neck?

Female friends who read this answer, if you feel disgusted by the above views, you are welcome to step on it, but please don't curse. It is true that there are good people among women, and there are good wives and mothers, but before you scold me, please think about it, what do you like about a man? Why the hell do you like him and want to be with him?

Have a great day!

You're not alone, so don't be too pessimistic.

Not everyone is like that!

Don't be so pessimistic, there are two sides to everything.

Love is an eternal topic in the world, and it is also a very simple and private topic, but it is also a very complex and confusing issue. Therefore, everyone's concept of love is different, and everyone's love situation is also different. Love is not predestined.

Destiny is part of the reason. The right time to meet the right person, this is the destiny of love. But meeting doesn't necessarily mean falling in love!

In other words, love depends on both parties to fight for it! We must understand the nobility and greatness of love. We must understand the connotation and essence of love.

To find the right love for yourself, to find the right person for your own goal, you must actively strive to create an environment suitable for the growth and development of love. The love between Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai is very poignant and complete. Although it is a legend, the story of their two butterflies is still a generation of gratitude, and there is a generation of infatuated men and women.

Their love is a drunken love. In feudal society, the love between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu is also a very classic love story! Although they did not come together, this love is also poignant and beautiful.

Therefore, love still needs to be fought for hard to be obtained. If you don't fight for it, even if the two people are close at hand, you can't go to the end if you love each other.

Love is not destined, even if the two have a good impression of each other after they meet, if there is no clear expression, then the two people can't bear love, so love can only be obtained by opportunity and hard work.

Fate, the past that cannot be changed and the future full of variables is called fate! Destiny is like an ever-extending line, the starting point is a line destined to go, this line connects countless branch lines, when you choose one of the lines with a certain attitude, this fate is predestined, when you face several lines again, fate changes, this is the so-called fate in your own hands.

In this world, everyone is destined to meet anyone, so love is also destined.

It depends on what kind of love you are talking about, at least you should have seen unrequited love, right?

You say that there is no love, you should say that it is love, have you thought about how difficult it is?

This person should make you feel more pleasing to the eye, your knowledge should make you feel higher than you, and your work should make you feel that you have a lot of prospects. What's worse is that this person also thinks that you are more pleasing to the eye, that your temperament is suitable for him, and that you will be loyal to him for a long time.

This kind of chance of winning the lottery is even smaller than the chance of winning 5 million lottery tickets, and most people will get married before they win the lottery. So,Don't think that marriage is all about love, and don't conclude that no one in the world has ever won a lottery because you have never won the lottery

Come and see, there is an honest man here, he actually believes in love!! Come and laugh at him.

Because everybody likes to look good.

Love is when two people like each other.

So good-looking people have love.

There is no love in this world, and animals only have physiological instinctive reactions, and they mate from generation to generation for the sake of the continuity of the species. Man evolved, possessed the spiritual world, and love was born. The original love was just a simple liking, after tens of millions of years of evolution, with the development of the spiritual world, love has become more and more complex, and gradually surpassed the category of "like".

Modern love is based on rich communication and perception and social beliefs, but it is still inseparable from primitive physiological characteristics.

What is love, but it is just a spiritual sublimation of like, but he or she has become an indispensable part of your life, the consciousness of two people is blended together, and then spiritual love and physical love are perfectly combined, and then later, you say goodbye to your parents and rely on each other to spend your life together. Raising offspring is a primitive act, and in the evolved spiritual world, it is called "the crystallization of love", which is the product of love.