Is there a kind of love that is already predestined ?

If there is such love, if two people get along very well in real life, or if two people are particularly happy together, then their love is destined.

No kind of love is already doomed, because love needs to be managed, and only if we manage it well, can the relationship between two people come to the end.

Yes, what he needs is exactly what you have, and what you need is exactly what he has.

Each person will know about 27,000 people in their lifetime, some of them have become our friends, some have become our lovers, some have become our relatives, and many more are passers-by who have passed you quietly and you can't even see his face. The cause of the past life, the fruit of this life. There is fate, even if you are thousands of miles apart, you can meet; There is no fate, even if people are opposite, they can't meet.

The writer Bai Luomei once wrote a sentence with rich meaning: "I have criticized fate, so I have the destined fruit of this life." "In fact, everyone's fate is destined, and everyone you meet is the person you are destined to meet.

Who you marry is actually predestined, so we don't have to look for it anymore, we just need to wait seriously, and one day someone will love you more than ourselves. "Love, in fact, is an extension of self-will", this sentence touched me deeply. Countless poets and writers have praised the greatness of love, but what this sentence tells us is that love is not so great, it just stems from a need of you, your need to realize your own will.

Each of us comes to this world with our own ideas and pursuits, but due to strength, vision, opportunities and other reasons, not all of us can realize our own pursuits. Then, when we choose our other half, we tend to look for someone who can help us realize our own pursuits and wills. In this way, in fact, there is a force in the dark that pushes us to find the other half that suits us.

For many young people, when they have their other half, they tend to think that the relationship between themselves and the other half is destined, and it is inevitable for two people to be together, but I don't think so, although there is a certain element of chance in love, but real love still needs us to strive for and work hard.

First of all, the kind of love that is destined in the dark, is more manifested in some film and television works, or in some ** and other literary works, in real life, this situation is difficult to encounter, when we meet someone who really makes us fall in love, if we want to be with each other, we must need our own efforts, strive to dare to express to each other, and even change ourselves, to the extent that the other party is satisfied, in order to be able to really be with each other.

On the other hand, even if two people are together, they need to have a certain amount of wisdom to deal with, and some problems encountered between two people can make the relationship between two people more harmonious, so that two people can be together for a long time, for example, in the process of getting along, couples must understand each other, respect each other and tolerate each other, and couples also need frequent communication in the process of getting along, so as to enhance the feelings between each other. Eliminate the estrangement and contradictions between each other, and the destined feelings in the dark are more of our expectations and desires for a beautiful love.

Love is not predestined, fate is predestined.

Love depends on fate, meet the right person at the right time, and two people can fall in love only when they are fated.

Although when I was younger, I always had a kind of wildness and pride that I couldn't help but die, but after many years, our love went through the test of time, I finally believed in fate.

When I was studying on the university campus, I always had a good vision for the future, thinking that I was the pride of the sky with the conditions and qualifications of endowment, and that I could create my own career and achievements after graduating from college, but the ideal was beautiful, but the reality was very skinny, when I really graduated from college, I found that it was difficult to find a job that really satisfied me, and the fundamental reason was that I was too much and overestimated my ability. When I realized the problems in my mentality, I worked hard to adjust my state and lower my posture, so that I finally found a job that really suited me.

When their work gradually got on the right track, they soon ushered in their own love, formed their own family, at this time, I began to really believe in the fate of this thing, because whether it is the pursuit of the career or the emotional encounter, it is necessary to have a certain fate, although these are all things that need us to work hard to strive for, but many times, the result of some things has long been arranged in advance, my love of the line is my colleagues in the unit after work, Although I was not satisfied with this job at first, when I adjusted my mentality and found this job, I adapted to this job and gained love in this job, so it was destined that this thing would happen to each of us often.