I m an introvert and don t have friends, thank you!

Updated on educate 2024-05-10
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Friends don't have to be the same age. My dad's friends, who are in their seventies and twenties, thought it was good.

    Don't want to make any friends at work, you can only look at fate. There is competition of interests among colleagues.

    Friends are already made from strangers, and if you make more friends, you can find someone who can really be called a friend. Don't think that talking is called a friend, that is called acquaintance. It's impossible to laugh and laugh too much. If you are only friendly to what you find interesting, it will make people think that you are arrogant.

    In fact, after really getting along, you may find that what you think is good may not be suitable for being friends, and what you don't know well is very trustworthy. It's not easy to find a knower. Thou shalt not judge people by appearance.

    It's good to take part in some social activities. At work, it's hard to find a soulmate. Friends are still in high school, college is better...

    Usually practice speaking, be able to speak, and don't talk nonsense, expose other people's shortcomings...It depends on other people's hobbies, and what other people like is good to talk about...Work and life, learn a lot...Step up your game.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Be yourself, stick to your own principles, and slowly you will find that those who want to find yourself coming to your door.

    You try it. 6566727763

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Change yourself, believe that you are attractive and can find friends, and you must be good to friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friends are made with sincerity, not by character. You may have friends around you, but just because you don't notice it doesn't mean you don't have friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A person's personality is determined by both congenital and acquired factors, and at the stage of a person like you, the personality has been basically stereotyped, so it is not that you can change it by changing. The more you try to change it, the more you fight against it, the more miserable your life becomes, because it has already become a part of you. Just imagine, even if you really work hard and deliberately make yourself an "extrovert" in front of others, will you really be happier than you are now?

    That "you" would be the real you, that kind of "you"."Will the friends you make be real friends?

    I guess what you should really do is try to accept yourself, not just to accept it, but to accept it. How can a person who cannot even please himself accept others? You are you, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and you are the same, there is no need to go against others and yourself.

    As Bi Shumin said: "A person's value does not lie in anyone's evaluation of him." ”

    Of course, accepting yourself does not mean that you will indulge yourself from now on, and what is difficult to change does not mean that it cannot be changed at all. It's about making an effort based on being comfortable with yourself. In a word, it is to accept what you cannot change and change what you can change.

    The friends you make with your true side are the real friends. There is also the fact that friends are not in quantity, but in quality. It's not just you who have low self-esteem, in fact, everyone has an inferiority complex, because no one in this world will think that they are perfect.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's just too inferior. People are not afraid of poverty, they are afraid of having no dreams. Chat with others more, don't think about your family background when chatting, he makes you a friend, he is with you, not his family background. Walk around a little more, go around.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I used to be the same as you. But it's not okay not to communicate with others. You have to try to communicate with others, don't talk about others, speak tactfully, and you can still learn from the cheerful people around you about personality problems.

    See how they do it. Take your time! I think you are mainly caused by your inferiority complex, and slowly come out of that shadow.

    I believe that you will be approved and liked by others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Much like my previous personality, I'm much better now, and I'm going to tell you a very practical way to change a few more jobs, which is the most practical.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is a very serious problem, so let's go to a psychiatrist.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A lot of people hate me, I'm hard, what should I do? Don't advise me to see a psychiatrist, why can't I have friends in my family, since everyone else can make friends? When talking to others, tell yourself that I am the best.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe, it's not a big deal not to like to talk.

    Just be active and make friends with others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Open your heart, take the initiative to communicate with others, and cultivate your own sense of making friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The landlord is exactly the same as me, basically 95% of what you say is exactly the same as mine, and I have asked such a question, and the form of the question is exactly the same as yours, a lot of words on it, and the following is the question 1234 I am also working outside now, if I go back to my hometown, there is basically no familiar person to talk to, and I am alone, watching TV and surfing the Internet at home, and the days are consumed day by day, and almost none of my former classmates are in contact with me Think about what to do when I get married, and I don't have any friends to cheer at that time, and it is very shameless The reason why people like us are so pitiful is not because of family conditions, but because we blame ourselves for being born with such an introverted and withdrawn character.

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