What s the bad thing you ve ever encountered?

One thing is that I feel very bad every time I think about it, once I washed a lot of clothes in the dormitory, and then took them to the rooftop to dry, but I was really watching TV in the dormitory, and suddenly I heard a lot of rain, so I hurriedly ran to the rooftop to collect it, and when I collected the clothes, my hand was still scratched, and the blood stained my freshly washed clothes, I was desperate and wanted to throw the clothes on the ground. <>

The worst thing that happened was when I was learning to drive. When I was studying subject two, well, because it was difficult, and then I couldn't remember that point, and then the coach always scolded me, and then I didn't pass the exam, so it was very uncomfortable, so sad, and then it was still raining heavily that day. Not only did he fail the exam, but he also went home in the rain.

The worst thing I've ever encountered was on the bus, there were a lot of people because I got on the bus early, so I had a seat, and then I saw a woman holding a child very hard, and then I gave up the seat to her, because of the sudden brake I didn't stand firm and accidentally lay on the baby's body, I held the glass with my hand to make sure that it didn't overwhelm the baby, and the baby didn't cry, but the woman kept not relenting, and then we both quarreled and I was angry.

It seems that there is only a worse heart, not the worst heart, if you want to say it reluctantly, it is that the seven aunts and eight aunts around me are always in charge of their own family's affairs, and what is more serious is that they have to be taken care of when they eat, and they always feel that they are older, and they are the most capable.

The worst thing I have encountered since I was a child is that once when I just got off work, and then suddenly it rained and I didn't bring an umbrella, and the financial strength was not good when I first went to work, so I chose to take the bus, and the last bus I just arrived at the place and missed it was very unlucky.

There are a lot of bad things, because life is not easy, I think one of the worst things I've encountered recently is that I have a conflict with my object, two people don't want to quarrel, but they don't want to have a cold war, but they just have nothing to say to each other.

The worst thing that happened to me, there was a time when I broke up with my boyfriend, my family was sick, and that was when I was at my worst, and I felt like I was powerless, very helpless, very bad.

One time when I was out playing, I encountered a lot of things that I couldn't accept, I went out to play alone at that time, and it was raining, and I didn't have an umbrella with me at that time, so I felt very sad.

When I was taking the college entrance examination, I carried a suitcase on the way to the exam. I was going to put it in the janitor's room, but the janitor uncle wouldn't let me. So I dragged my suitcase while looking for my exam room, and it was a very hot day and I felt physically and mentally exhausted.

It should have been that time when I borrowed a friend's car to go out and drove it, I accidentally scratched it, but I don't know who scraped it? Where to scratch the feeling is very new, this time to lose a lot of money, very uncomfortable.

I, as a program and algorithm, don't have the ability to actually experience it, so I can't provide a personal experience or story. However, I can share some common bad experiences that can have a negative impact on people's lives.

Here are some common bad experiences:

1.Unemployment: Losing a job can have a negative impact on an individual's finances, career development, and self-esteem.

2.Failure: Whether in personal or professional life, failure can take a toll on an individual's self-confidence and self-esteem.

3.Bereavement: The loss of a loved one can lead to severe emotional distress and feelings of loneliness that can have long-term effects on an individual's life and emotional well-being.

4.Breakup: Breakups can have a negative impact on an individual's emotions and self-esteem, potentially leading to feelings of loneliness and loss.

5.Physical health problems: Physical illness or health problems can have a negative impact on an individual's quality of life and can lead to financial and emotional stress.

These bad experiences can have a negative impact on people's lives, but many people can overcome these difficulties by seeking support, communication, and positive thinking.

1.I was criticized by the teacher at the school of dry hands.

2.Didn't perform well in exams.

3.Denied leave. Trouble.

4.Losing projects at work.

5.Can't hand in homework. No bending.

6.Left out in the cold by a colleague.

7.Missed important meetings.

8.Missed opportunities to go abroad.

9.Loss of an important person.

10.Scolded.

We live in society, it is impossible for everything to be as expected, we will always encounter all kinds of bad things, all kinds of bad things will make people worry and depressed, how do we face these bad things?

1. When you encounter something bad, you must have a correct attitude and face it positively. A lot of bad things and troubles are self-inflicted. In the face of the same thing, some people laugh it and forget it after a while, while some people are haunted by it and hide it in their hearts, and quickly forget the unhappy thing, and the mood is always happy, while the person who is unhappy about one thing lives in troubles every day.

Therefore, tell yourself that things are man-made, there is nothing that cannot be done, just do it to the best of your ability. When difficulties come, it depends on what kind of mentality you have to face them. If you face it with a positive attitude, then you will be positive in your actions and things will work out for the better.

On the contrary, if your mindset is too negative, then things will always go in a bad direction.

Second, when you encounter something bad, it is difficult to solve it for a while, let it go first, and let yourself be quiet.

When we encounter something bad, what we need is to be quiet, let ourselves calm down first, there are always more ways than problems, you might as well let yourself be quiet, listen to **, watch a movie, or run, do whatever you want to do, do what you love, to a certain extent, you can adjust your mentality. When you're in a good mood, doing the same thing again may result in twice the result with half the effort.

3. Relax your mind and let yourself become sunny first, and then it will be much easier to deal with these bad things. If you are able to do so, you might as well go out and have a fun time and feel the beauty of nature, which will naturally make you feel good.

For a while, I was bored. When chatting with friends, you will unconsciously complain about your unhappy life. What's even more terrifying is that once a small opening is opened, it is like the water of a river, gushing endlessly. It's not something that can be stopped.

After a while, I realized that something was wrong with my state. I urgently need to adjust myself.

Step 1: Adjust your mindset.

When you encounter bad things, don't be in a hurry to complain and complain, calm down and tell yourself, don't treat others as the trash can of your own emotions, don't become a person full of negative energy, that kind of self is not the real you. Bad things will pass.

Step 2: Control your emotions.

Many times, it's not the things that are bad, it's your emotions. Only by stabilizing one's emotions and calming one's mood can we look at things more objectively, get rid of the control of emotions, and avoid falling into the shackles of one's own emotions, leading to a dead end and drilling the horns.

Step 2: Calmly review and find out the key points for improvement.

No matter what happens, re-sort out the ins and outs of the matter, grasp the key points that caused your upset, see what you can do to improve it, and then avoid it next time. In this way, the bad things of the same nature will not be repeated and consume their own energy.

In the end, I try to stick to the point that many things will be easier to deal with than I imagined.

Above, encouragement!

A guy who wants to slowly winmore with you.

It's not a bad experience, in fact, it's mainly about the mentality, especially after reading some psychology-related books recently. How to look at the things around you and how to set your own goals is the most important. Otherwise, the trivialities in life can really drive you crazy.

Let's take two small examples.

The first thing to do is to drive to the health station to get vaccinated, drive there, after the car is parked, take the number, wait, it turns out that it takes a long time, and then drive outside, and wait until the time is almost up, and then drive over, so that you can save parking fees. The second time, it happened to be my turn, and then I went through the procedure, and when I started to get the injection, the person who gave the injection said, "Your list is wrong, and you will be sent to another health station, and you can change it again." There is no choice but to change.

As a result, I wasted time, and after the injection, I drove home, and as a result, I exceeded the prescribed free parking time, and I paid the fee to go home. The relationship between people is really complicated, don't think that you have nothing to do with strangers, someone pays for you silently, you don't know.

The second thing, to wash the car today, is also similar to the routine of going to the injection, see a car in front of the car is washing, go out and wait, the time is almost up, and then go to the car wash, so that within half an hour is also free parking (buy a car wash online, cheap, but the car wash to enter an industrial area, is charged). As a result, after getting there, the car wash became a person, which was certainly not as efficient as the usual two people, but fortunately, the second person came back for a while, but it was only busy for a while, and began to pick up**, and kept talking** until the end of the car wash, I just overtime 1 minute out of the industrial zone, and I still have to pay.

For the above two things, the parking fee is not much, but, sometimes, it is really taking the mistakes they make for others.

However, the mentality should be good, if you are entangled in this, you will really be hopeless. Both love and non-attack, too far away from yourself, it is precisely because it is too far away that you should work hard to catch up.

Life, tedious and complicated. Everyone will encounter bad and frustrating things in life, and there is no one around them who can fully believe and pour out their hearts.

Many times some unspeakable things can only be held in their hearts, and they can't find the person to talk to, and they can't tell them, which makes them feel depressed, short-tempered or cold.

I often try to be as independent, closed as possible and quiet my mind. I often sit in the car after work, light a cigarette, don't think about anything, do nothing, and sit quietly for a few minutes, but this short few minutes is the most rare and comfortable time for me every day.

A lot of times I want to vent myself by roaring, but in today's society, it is really difficult to find an empty and comfortable place to vent, full of human feelings and sophistication, there is smoke curling everywhere, in order not to disturb others, I can only hold it in my heart again.

This leads to the inability to vent the negative emotions in the heart for a long time, and over time, from a hospitable person, he gradually becomes quiet, becomes silent, and becomes unpleasant to interact with people. I think this may be the reason why so many people suffer from depression in society today.

I posted this article for three purposes: first, I want to see how many people are like me; Second, I want to see if anyone has better attention that can help everyone adapt to this indifferent society; Third, I can be regarded as venting the wolf nature in my heart through this platform.

Everyone will encounter some bad things, but how to deal with these bad things? Let me share with you the method that I stumbled upon and saw. Every time I read a few sides, my mood is much better.

When the heart is small, all the little things are big. When the heart is big, all the big things are small. Look down on the vicissitudes of the world, and your heart is safe and sound.

If you love, life is lovely. If you hate, life is hateful. It wasn't the world that chose you, it was you who chose the world.

Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly. Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to rejoice. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since it didn't get its wish, it's better to be relieved.

Do you really feel good after reading them? No, keep your house clean and spotless. Then think about the bad things, do they have their own reasons?

What is causing these bad things? Wouldn't it be better to prevent these bad things from happening in the future? If you really can't avoid it, then you should hone your mind!

We have the right to choose at all times. Heaven will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically.

May you have a good mood every day!