What have you encountered that you are weak and you are justified?

The eldest brother in the office is in his fifties, and all the work of computer tabulation and writing materials has been pushed to the new Xiao Wang, for the simple reason that he is older and does not know how to work on the computer. Brother Liu, a good old man, usually speaks little, his ability is mediocre, and the leader will take care of it every time he assigns work, and he will also be appropriately inclined when he pays bonuses at the end of the year, the reason is very simple, Brother Liu's ability is average, and many jobs are incompetent anyway, so the task is arduous or let capable people do it, Brother Liu's family is difficult, and it is not good not to take care of it when distributing bonuses. Xiao Zhang and Xiao Zhao are small, Xiao Zhang has studied hard since he was a child, has excellent grades, and is also practical and diligent after work, he has achieved good results in just a few years, and his career has been successful, Xiao Zhao is naughty, after graduating from high school, he entered the society early, was idle, and relied on the help of his family to find a unit to make a living.

Watching the good brothers who grew up together since childhood, their careers flourished, and gradually, Xiao Zhao had a grudge, such a good relationship, Xiao Zhang never said that he would help himself, it was too uninteresting. The weak are often straight sympathy, should be concerned and taken care of, why, because he is weak he is reasonable. Because you are old, you can not learn new knowledge and skills, because your ability is mediocre, you can not take on heavy work, because you are not good at mixing, friends should take the initiative to help.

Very unfortunate I encountered a real example of "I'm weak and I am reasonable" tonight, I regret it, go to the supermarket, and encounter a middle-aged woman with a child at the checkout, I didn't say anything, just cut the line, I went to the other teller in front of the channel to check out. Don't give way? I have to say a few words about this, I have cut in line, you have to go first to block my way?

Huh? Come up and snatch my shopping cart away, and push it out of the way? Then I can't help my temper, don't even think about pushing your shopping cart, everyone doesn't push the shopping cart.

The supermarket teller security guard really didn't eat dry food, and dragged away the middle-aged and elderly woman who was full of foul language.

I used to ride an electric car with a female colleague, and then when I passed the traffic light, it was already a yellow light, the female classmate went straight with the electric car, and accidentally slammed the tail of a turned car, it seemed that there was no problem, and then a person scolded him and said how to scold him, the female colleague was very nervous, very scared, look at me, at that time I was weak and I was reasonable, open, turn and let go straight to know no, traffic rules know no, and then we just rode out of the crowd! Piao Piao left.

The lights must be turned off at 10:40 p.m. And after turning off the lights, you can't make a sound at all, and occasionally you don't pay attention to say a few words to other people, and people have to scold you. There can be no brightness at all, including the brightness of mobile phones.

But people just don't buy eye patches and don't wear earplugs! Her reason is always that I'm not in good health, I'm weak, you have to take care of me.

A friend of mine, his hometown is repairing an ancient house, and then the village raises funds to build it, and the richest man in their village has borne 80% of the funds, and this person actually said that the richest man is too bad to be a man, he is so rich, why not give all the money. Then they had to ask the richest man for money again, and he said that the richest man was too much, and the people in the village asked him for money and went to his house.

I just recently encountered a case like this. For such a person, I can only be worthy of myself, I will help you when I can and willing, if I am not strong, I must help you. The kind of person who is weak and takes the help of others for granted, the kind of person who shows that you have offended him if you don't help him, is it a benefit for you that others try to make themselves better?

The face is earned by yourself, not given to you by others.

I've never encountered this, I'm like this.

Moral kidnapping – endure it, or expose her actions.

The bus, give way, the old man and the pregnant woman grab.

Such a person is often encountered in our daily life, just like you said about this classmate, everyone was considerate of her, but she was at ease, feeling that her family was not good, so it should be like this. If she does this, she will put herself in a desperate situation, because no one will like such a person.

I remember once, during the Spring Festival, taking the bus because there were many relatives during the New Year, so the bus was full of people, so full that there was no place to stand, I was standing next to a seat, and I was pressed by the people behind me and couldn't straighten my waist, and my knees were stuck on the chair.

I saw an aunt standing behind me, I think it's not easy for everyone, just take a car, just endure it, but then as the road gets farther and farther, this aunt may be standing in the back more and more tired, she actually didn't help at all, directly lying on my body, I was really a little angry in my heart, because although I think she is an aunt, but after all, the age is not so old, if it is really old enough to be that kind of class, someone in the car must give her a seat.

Because the car is still going to drive for a long time, I really can't stand it, but I can't stand and I don't even have a place to lie down, so I turned back to her and said, please help me, you lie on me like this, I really can't stand it, but I didn't expect her to scold directly, saying that I, a young man, have no sympathy at all?

I was also very aggrieved, because I had endured all the way, and in the end she had to complain like this, so I told him that if I had no sympathy, I would not have been able to say it until now, and as a result, she was even more unscrupulous, almost rolling in the car.

At this time, a kind person gave her a place, and she was even more confident, until I got out of the car, she was scolding, a handful of snot and tears, as if I had done something rebellious, and it really made us very helpless when I met this kind of thing where you are weak and you are reasonable.

I haven't met such a person at school, but looking at the landlord's situation, it may be that I'm too used to her. Although there are many bad phenomena in today's society, it is more about promoting the virtue of positive energy. Therefore, when encountering vulnerable groups, most people's psychology should be to help if they can, and generally will not stand by and look coldly.

I remember one time, I was at the train station to get a ticket, because the ATM could not swipe the documents, so I had to queue up, at that time there were a lot of people, I was in line at the student window, and when it was about to be me, suddenly two people rushed in from behind, carrying large bags of things, gesturing at the window, looking very anxious, and then I reacted, they were deaf and mute. Originally, I was very disgusted with the behavior of cutting in line, and I usually communicate directly with the people who cut in line, but that time I found out that they were deaf and mute, so I didn't say anything. But they didn't apologize to the other people in line, the bag they were carrying kept shaking, and it really hurt that such a big bag suddenly hit their bodies.

Sometimes we help others, not because we want them to thank us, but at least don't complain about why we didn't help or have even a little respect.

I used to see people complaining about the bear children on the plane or train on Weibo, as a bystander, they have no right to take care of their children's education, but when communicating with their parents, they will say: "He is just a child, why should a person as old as you bother with him", I think this kind of thinking is to connive at the child to grow into a person who "he is weak and unreasonable", this kind of parental thinking itself is very terrible.

The disadvantaged groups can get the attention and help of the society, because they hope that they can live a better life and give them more hope for life.

"You are weak, you are reasonable" encountering such a thing, but also many people do not want to see, we have the willingness and ideas to help others is not to let others gain an inch, a look of their own weakness, their own reasonableness.

Do you still remember the incident of the old man beating a girl on a bus in Beijing a few months ago? Later, I learned that the girl was slapped because she didn't give up her seat to the old man, and this incident caused heated discussions after it broke out.

It is the individual's own will not to give up his seat, but it is a very bad thing for the old man to hit someone. According to the investigation, the girl was not reluctant to give up her seat, but she was unwell that day and did not get up to give up her seat to someone who came, and was slapped as a result. The old man relies on the old and sells the old, and feels that others should give him a seat, and he is a vulnerable group when he is old, so others should let him.

Such things have not only been seen in the news, but also in real life. This incident also happened on the bus, my roommate and I went to take the Mandarin test, and then on the bus came up a little boy and his grandfather, he ran to the seat that someone was about to sit in, but unfortunately two beats slower than others, he reluctantly walked away.

Not only that, but he came to a woman, and the woman gave up her seat to the little boy of five or six years old. But he didn't even say thank you, which made people feel very rude, first competing for a seat with others, and then walking in front of others and making others embarrassed to give him their seats. It's because he is a child, a vulnerable group, and a feeling that I am weak and I am reasonable.

It is the duty of others to help you, and it is your duty not to help, no matter what the situation is, there should be no such distorted psychology as I am weak and I am reasonable.

What should I do you? This phrase reminds me all the time.