Why didn t I feel like he liked me that much just after we separated??

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's you who think too much. In fact, he cares about you very much. It's just the distance that makes you guess.

    It's also the misunderstanding of the past that makes you lose the trust you used to have. That's why it's cranky. You can see that you love each other.

    He also cares about you. You also said that his feelings for you have increased unabated after two years of separation, which says a lot. Two years is actually long enough, and his ability to persevere, also reflects his sincerity.

    Secondly, you have this feeling, you will be cranky when you are separated, not only a matter of trust, but also a problem of yourself, you really care about him, and you will have this kind of thinking when you care too much about a person. And the changes in your boyfriend's current situation are just a manifestation of love, so there's no need to think too much. When you lose, you will know how to cherish it, but when you lose it and regain it, I believe that each other will know how to cherish each other.

    Of course, this is just a small insight from your words, after all, I don't know much about your affairs. I think the most important thing now is to adjust my mentality. Put your mind at ease, he is yours and will definitely be yours, and you will not lose him because of distance.

    If he does make you feel uneasy, then you have to calm down, observe quietly, and measure his sincerity to you. If not, make your own decision early and don't get hurt here.

    Of course, I hope to communicate with each other well, and the landlord will no longer be suspicious and calm down. You will be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Thinking too much! Believe in yourself! Believe in love!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm a woman, my boyfriend is very good to me, I feel like you get along first, cherish it, maybe you will be very happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, they will be separated because the relationship is weak, and maybe the relationship is not so heavy before the separation.

    As soon as the separation is less, the two people before are bound by boyfriend and girlfriend after all, and they will not like it so much, after all, it is summed up to the step of breaking up, because the relationship is not enough to maintain the relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, I want to say that it is not easy to have a long-term relationship, and there may be a lot of misunderstandings during this period, but I believe that those lovers who can maintain it must have each other in their hearts! Some people say that feelings can't withstand the baptism of time, and many small details during this period will continue to be magnified in the relationship! But whether you can keep the initial temperature is really not an easy task!

    You have been separated for two years because of a misunderstanding, but you love him very much, and through this, I don't think you want to give up this relationship easily. First of all, you have to understand that these two years have been a lot not only for you, but also for him. He may be wondering whether he didn't do well and broke up, saying that people are fickle, I think his heart for you will not change, he will change himself from some ways of acting, such a change may be the result of his own reflection!

    But there is no doubt that you are still a little uncomfortable with his changes, and you may still miss him in the past. But I want to say that his heart should not change! I think you should have a good talk with him!

    Everyone says that communication is the best way to solve all problems! But after communication, if he still insists on everything he is doing now and you are uncomfortable, don't force yourself!

    Emotional problems are not something that can be solved by others, the most important thing is that two people communicate with each other, and to paraphrase "Managing Marriage", feelings also need to be managed!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In layman's terms, only after drifting do you know the warmth of home, time will make you forget the vanity, let you know what you really need, basically he is like this, of course, his own experience, a person should have the ability to weigh different.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because you've left him, maybe he's got someone he likes again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men are just to play first and then discard. If you think it's worth it, cherish it. Wishing you happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You've been waiting for 2 years....What you like should be cherished, and what you lose and regain should be cherished.

    I hope you have a good result in half a year....

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's a kind of autosuggestion, and it's much better if you don't think about it and do something else to distract yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you are with him, you feel that there is nothing, but after you are separated, you find that you like him, like this case, I think you should follow your own heart, since you like him, then be with him.

    If you like someone who will never be together, please cherish every opportunity to be with him and talk to him, because this is likely to become a rare memory in your mind.

    Please keep a happy mindset and let him feel your happiness every time you see him or talk to him, because it is a blessing to see your loved one happy.

    Please try to adjust your dress, only those who know how to love themselves can make their loved ones love themselves, after all, everyone wants their loved ones to see their best side.

    Go into his heart as much as possible, listen to his heart, what is yours will always be yours, if it's not yours, why force it, even if you only have his heart, it's enough.

    Please don't give too much, if your love has 100 points, please leave yourself 20 points; The person who knows the ending is the most sensible, and if you give 100 points, the ending will definitely be a broken body.

    Please don't be too your beloved, too many factors will separate you, if you don't want to turn the good memories with him into a nightmare, please give both parties some space to make the other person feel that having you is his happiness.

    Try not to shed tears when you leave (it is estimated that it is difficult, I used to love a Chongqing girl very much, but I couldn't do it when I broke up), if the other party loves you too, he will definitely not want to see you cry.

    Please deeply preserve every minute and second you are together, because the torrent of time will be very merciless, will wash away your memories, and in the end I am afraid that only scattered fragments remain.

    Please remember the time you were together, because cherish today, it is the most beautiful memory of tomorrow.

    If you still think of him after separation, please don't pester him, love him to see him happy, since he is destined to be strange, why stalk, the ending of stalking is destined to destroy the most beautiful memory between you.

    There are some people you like, and they don't belong to you. Our life has too much helplessness, we can't do anything and can't change, dear as long as you work hard, no regrets, there will be no regrets in life (don't learn, the reluctant ending is that you hurt alone), tired, painful, you look down, and learn to let go after you fade.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you are with him, you feel that it is nothing, but after separation, you find that you like him, then you should quickly contact him to see if there is a way to redeem it, if he is still alone, you can redeem the possibility.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you're going to try to get him back. Now that you are aware of your own intentions, take the initiative to pursue them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Introduction: I just broke up, but I feel that I still like him, mainly because the two of you have been together for too long, and suddenly you feel a little unaccustomed to breaking up, and you must know that you don't like this thing, it may be because you are unwilling. Everyone must learn to correctly distinguish between liking and love, if you really laugh and judge that you don't like this person, don't hurt him anymore, try to separate from him.

    1. Sudden separation may feel a little uncomfortable, so it makes you have such an illusion

    I don't know why I didn't cherish each other when I was in love, but after the breakup, I felt that I liked him again, and I wanted to redeem him This kind of person he is actually a scum who has broken up, and I feel that you like him mainly because of your unwillingness, because the two of you have been together for a long time, and suddenly this person no longer belongs to you, and there are still some people who are not comfortable in your heart, and you must learn to adjust your mentality. <>

    Feelings are a matter of two people, and the relationship is more complicated, like is like, don't like is not like, and you can't force it, if you really feel that you still like him, you feel that he also likes you at this time, you can keep it, but if others really don't want to, don't force others, otherwise you will still break up later. <>

    3. Feelings are two people's affairs, and they need to take care of each other and give each other

    Whether you are in love or married, you need to be loyal to your other half, and you also need to give something, and you don't bother others anymore if you have broken up. Everyone should also act in the process of falling in love, and just enjoy it, otherwise he can't stand the person who likes you. And you must know that boys and girls feel completely different after breaking up Boys will feel very happy at first, but girls are more uncomfortable at first, and after a period of time, the state of the two of them has changed again, don't wait until you lose your potato shed and then regret it.

    liters.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is just a habit, because two people stay together for a long time and just break up, they will feel that the silver thing is not very accustomed, and the group pulse liquid thinks that he still likes him, at this time you should divert your attention, do something you like to collapse, go out and make some new friends, and it will be fine after a while.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is because you are reluctant to give up this relationship, because the two of you have gone through a lot of sweet times together, so you have not completely forgotten him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is your first love left a deep imprint in your heart, you cherish it, but people have changed their mentality, they don't regard you as their sweetheart, you need to gradually forget each other, although this miss is difficult to remove, but you need to face it, it will get better soon.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe people are like this, only when they lose do they know to cherish, only to know that he is better, and people can only have a sense of cherishing by comparison.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because although you didn't feel for him at first, since he was able to catch up with you later, it means that you have fallen in love with him, and then the time you spent together made your feelings for him more profound, even if you didn't love him so much, but the memories of being together are not something that can be forgotten all at once.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you first met, you didn't feel that you had no feelings, but after getting along for a while, when two people have feelings, they will make trouble, and they will be separated and combined. At such times, you will feel that there will already be a shadow of him in your heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In the first few days of acquaintance, you didn't feel anything about him, in fact, it was normal, after all, you didn't know him, and after the breakup, you felt inseparable from him, which means that you already have feelings for him, so you can't leave him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why didn't I feel anything about him in the first few days of acquaintance, and then he pursued me, and we broke up together now, and I felt inseparable after the breakup, I think this is not cherished when you get together, and you know to cherish it after separation, so you should pursue him again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I didn't know much about him at first, so I didn't like him. I think it's good to be with him now, so now after the breakup, you're still thinking about him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is called long-term love.

    I may not have felt for him before.

    Slowly and slowly being moved out.

    Because no one has been so nice to you before.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Two people were together and then broke up again, but after the breakup, they felt inseparable, and their minds were full of his memories, which showed that people only know how to cherish when they lose.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Maybe it's just a long-term love! People have feelings, and after being together for a long time, people who didn't feel it before will slowly become emotional, and it will be more obvious when they are separated, so they will miss it even more.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Although you don't feel anything about him, there is still some common language in the process of his pursuit of you, so although you have a small share, you are still inseparable in feeling, because the other party has many advantages, which will make you unforgettable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That may be at the beginning, thinking that he is not the type you like, but after two people have been together for a while, they slowly still have feelings, so you will feel inseparable from him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In the first few days of acquaintance, I didn't feel anything for him, but then he pursued me, and we broke up together, and after the breakup, we felt inseparable, which means that there is still a relationship between you!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After the breakup, it is mainly because there are deep and complete memories that I feel that I can't forget all the time, and at this time I can only rely on time to dilute it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When we first met, I didn't feel anything about him for a few days, but then he pursued me, and we broke up together, and then we broke up, and I felt that I couldn't do without, because you are used to having him next to you, so you need to have a process to accept this reality.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why didn't you feel anything about me in the first few days of acquaintance? Later, he went out to play, and we broke up together, and after the breakup, I felt inseparable I think so sometimes, time can be considered to verify everything, to know who you are worth cherishing.

Related questions
21 answers2024-05-16

Not good, you should tell him the reason, if he does something wrong you should tell him. Considerate men will change for the people they like. Why break up if you still love him, it will only hurt yourself. >>>More

15 answers2024-05-16

163M), and upgrade patches in the client version (patch capacity: 12M); 2.Please right-click on the Audition windowed icon and click "Properties" to see if you have checked "Compatibility". >>>More

4 answers2024-05-16

Creation makes people. There's no reason why she loves him as much as you love her.

5 answers2024-05-16

Dear landlord, I'm glad for your question Actually, there are things you like that won't belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, and love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well. >>>More

7 answers2024-05-16

Are you a forgotten corner of love? No, as long as you dare to come out, it's not too difficult to find someone you love, why is it so painful, he doesn't even miss it, or you propose to break up, the reason is that he doesn't love you anymore, you don't want to live in pain! If he keeps it, you think about it again, you have to have backbone, and be responsible for your love!