At this stage, can you make your own decisions about your own life?

It stands to reason that I am also a college student now, and I can have my own opinions on my own life, but I don't have that power, and my life is still in the hands of my parents.

I'm going to be a junior in the second half of the semester. In the second year of study, I was going to do an internship, so my parents were worried about my job after graduation, and my own idea was to find a state-owned enterprise for an internship for a while after graduation, and then learn some experience and start my own business. But my parents didn't want me to do this, they thought it was too risky for me to do this, they wanted me to start taking the civil service exam in my junior year, and concentrate on preparing for the civil service exam in my junior and senior years, because the job of a civil servant is relatively stable, and the risk of starting a business is too great.

I also expressed my opinion, saying that when I was young, I wanted to go on my own and didn't want to live such a comfortable life, but my parents didn't listen to any of my opinions at all and insisted that I rely on civil servants. I said I wouldn't take the exam, and they said that if you don't take the university exam, you have to pay the tuition yourself, and you have to earn your own living expenses. As soon as they said that, I couldn't do anything about it, because I didn't have that ability now, and I couldn't be financially independent myself.

So my current life is still my parents are calling the shots for me, because I still have to rely on them, this is no way to do it, if after I graduate, I have my own financial independence, and they want to make decisions for my life in the future, for example, directly help me arrange marriage, then I will resist no matter what, then I will start to master my own life.

Mencius said that "you can't have both" I think it is still very appropriate to use it here, my good buddy is also my cousin who has been hoping to have an independent life since he was a child, and my aunt is very strict with him, from childhood to high school and now to college.

One year we went to Beijing to work, and her parents happened to have something to do in Beijing, and before they went, they said don't trouble others, don't go to Internet cafes, don't do this, don't do that. I wanted to laugh when I listened to it, and he confided in me that he had never worried about me since I was a child, and he had to take care of everything, and he bought clothes and took me there to make a show, and he bought them without asking me ...... himself, and he was so old-fashionedA whole bunch of grievances reached my ears. <>

After listening to this, I said, "Didn't Auntie hear that I have a girlfriend and asked you to find one too?" Now I listen to you freely.

The cousin immediately retorted that it was not: "My mother just said that you heard that I want to find one too, and if I really find a girlfriend, she doesn't know what to say about me." "We started to get used to being in one environment for a long time, and finally I once asked my aunt if she supported my cousin in a relationship, and my aunt said of course, he was so old that he could make his own decisions.

It turns out that it is so difficult to get out of the life that you already have. <>

My parents didn't pay much attention to me since I was a child, and I started to ride a bicycle to school alone in elementary school, and I could basically make my own decisions about everything in junior high school and high school, maybe this was one of the reasons why I chose art? To put it mildly, I didn't just live my own life in college, I was in high school.

There are pros and cons, there is no one better, I make my own life, I chose art by mistake to become a design major, it seems that I was destined to meet friends who studied art, completely changed the circle of friends before high school, before that I never thought that my life would be full of pen and ink, carving, decoration and color. I didn't expect that I would fall in love as soon as I arrived in college, and I had never experienced a feeling that it seemed to come from the choice I made in high school, and I chose art, so my future life will be a little different from my high school classmates. <>

I thought of my cousin's envy again, and the corners of my mouth pulled out an inexplicable smile, if I lived like him, would it be different? The answer is that I'm used to living my own life, and maybe I've made many wrong choices along the way, but those chosen paths lead not to despair, but to a different world.

I want to tell my cousin that life doesn't change dramatically by liking or loathing. I want to say that you see that you are actually free, but it is your own ideas that are missing. We have long lived on our own, and it is not bad to say that.

Summary. Man lives for himself. Be an eagle with wings spread and fly high, even if no one applauds; Even if it becomes a flower in the deep mountains, no one appreciates it, it must be fragrant.

Happiness is created by oneself, happiness is managed by one's own heart, and success is self-effort. You don't need everyone to understand, just do everything well; You don't need everyone to like it, just be a frank person. We make our own decisions about our own lives.

Of course. People who know how to live will do things according to their own wishes. They do not become worldly, and they do not change themselves because of the judgments and actions of others.

In their hearts, their own life should be their own decisions, and what they want to do should also be what they want to do. Those things that others think you should do do do are not actually yours, but just a burden that other people put on you.

Man lives for the sake of himself. Be an eagle with wings spread and fly high, even if no one applauds, you have to fly; Even if it becomes a flower in the deep mountains, no one appreciates it, it must be fragrant. Happiness is created by oneself, happiness is managed by one's own heart, and success is self-effort.

You don't need everyone to understand, just do everything well; You don't need everyone to like it, just be a frank person. We make our own decisions about our own lives.

I hope mine can help you

Of course I can make decisions about my own life, I'm 20 years old, and my parents don't care about me anymore. I can only take care of myself, I am responsible for myself, and my parents are not around, so I can only make my own decisions.

Of course you can, my dad has money, what is life, life is money, with money, what is nothing, look at the Ferrari I just mentioned today, is it cool enough? I just do what I want, what is life? That's enjoyment, and enjoyment can't be your own decision. ‍‍

No, definitely not, I'm still in school, and I'm working hard every day for my future, and I have to listen to my teachers or parents in life, life? I don't have a life of my own, let alone make decisions about my own life. ‍‍

At present, it is still possible, because in college, with the protection of parents, you can do whatever you want, and you can do whatever you want in life. But I am already an adult, I must do things in a measured way, think about others, and have my own plans, and I can't be like a headless fly, thinking one out of another. ‍‍

No, I'm a teacher and I'm responsible for my students, not only for my own children but also for the fifty-two children in my class, and to make decisions about my own life? If it doesn't exist, let my wife handle it for me. ‍‍

Of course, although life is not so good now, but what you want to do, you will definitely find time to go, it's just a matter of time or time, and the planned things will definitely be realized one by one. ‍‍

Yes, I am a wanderer, I don't know where the next stop will be when I take the train, from Heilongjiang in China to Dali in Yunnan, I don't know how many interesting people I have met, and I don't know how many things I have experienced, my own life, my own decisions. ‍‍

Yes, I have the support of my family in my college life, of course, I can do whatever I want, I don't enjoy my university well, and I won't have a chance in the future, now I have the unlimited support of my family, I can't waste it, and I can control my life better after studying, that's the king. ‍‍

No, who has the ability? Now they are busy making money, who has the time to do something else, they all say that they want to go on a trip, but who has so much money and time, are bound by the pressure of life now, life is their own, but they must adapt to the development of this society. ‍‍

Make the decision for your own life, it doesn't exist, an office worker like me, who gets up early every day and is greedy for darkness, living at two o'clock and one line, it is already very good to be able to have your own food and clothing, let alone make decisions for your own life, I'm afraid no one can do this. ‍‍

No, they are all here to work for others, of course, they are arranged by others, people let them go to work at seven o'clock, you can't get up at eight o'clock, if you want to sleep lazily, you have to look at other people's side, otherwise you will deduct your salary, and it will be even more sad, the wage earner is so hard. ‍‍

In fact, I think everyone should make decisions about their own lives, and this is also the right choice.

Because you are not really independent, the way you are born is dependent, and youth needs to make your own decisions, so try to be independent and mature.

Too many people live for others, reality does not allow us to be isolated, to be included in this society, we must learn to accept reality.

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