How does it feel to watch your classmates go abroad to study?

I am envious and jealous, but I am still more envious, and at the same time, I feel that I should work harder, and I can't go on like this anymore.

I have a classmate who posted his passport in the circle of friends a few days ago, and I was stunned at the time, I still haven't even been to a few big cities, and he is ready to study abroad, a little stuffy.

He was my junior high school classmate, and he usually studied at the top of the class, and there were more people in our class, so we didn't communicate much. In high school, he was admitted to the key class of our school, and the key class is very awesome in our county. At that time, I still admired him, and after three years in a trance, he was admitted to a university in the northwest, and he was also a winemaking major.

I feel a little incredible, because according to his studies, he should be able to get into a better school.

I chose to revise, and I kept seeing him on campus in those days, and I thought he was going to revise too, so I spent a few months like this, only to know that he didn't revise, but entered that school. Sometimes in the space circle of friends, I see him sending wine, what kind of party or something, and it looks very high-end. I feel that he should be doing well, and he is running around China every day.

Actually, I envy him.

Not long ago, when I saw him posting his passport in the circle of friends, I was quite surprised, this is going abroad, or is it an exchange student at public expense. Life abroad has always been unimaginable, and I feel like I will never travel abroad in my life. I've always felt that this is normal, that my class should be like this, and I'm very satisfied with my life.

But when I saw that someone could also live a life that I couldn't live in the sun, I was surprised and at the same time, I also felt that I was too angry to be so much. I've always been complacent about my achievements, and I can be happy for a while when I achieve that little goal. Alas, I feel so ignorant.

When other people told me that he was going to graduate school, that he was going to study for a second degree, that he was going to study abroad, and so on, I felt that it was really too far away for me at that time. So, I don't even think about it, I just spend the rest of my life in a mess.

But it seems that I think life is too simple, sometimes people are also affected by the people around them, their success in our own view, although very jealous, there is always a kind of psychology that does not want others to get good. However, jealousy is greater than blessing in my heart, and I am not such a bad person.

I have to say that I still have a fine tradition of seeing the virtuous and thinking together, and seeing the unvirtuous and introspecting myself. Seeing him like this, I was happy for him in my heart, and at the same time, I was also thinking about myself, whether it was time for me to work hard.

Look what you think, since you asked so, it can be said that you are quite envious and jealous, why do others study and live abroad every day, the circle of friends shows off the lifestyle of the high-spirited, the feeling of visiting famous stores, the feeling of a noblewoman, the water of the Seine, the lights of Los Angeles, the kangaroos of Tuao, and the iron tower of Tokyo. There are international friends who share and learn every day, and the teachers are kind and gentle, which makes people feel that they are not in the same world at all.

How do you feel, my circle of friends almost encompasses the lifestyle of most major developed countries, almost all of them are junior high and high school students who have money and do not study well with me, of course, there is also the kind of life of a scholar who is a bully of the United States, with a full scholarship to work on a big project to study at MIT or Stanford, everything seems so far away from you. And there are people who show off every time they locate a series of English addresses and match the old buildings of the university in 1325, and they suddenly feel that there is a big gap.

In fact, everyone is working hard, but people like me, who were not as capable as me before, have a better life than me because of money, which is really infuriating. Perhaps it is this feeling of not admitting defeat that makes people force themselves to work harder and make themselves as small as possible the gap caused by money.

Of course, I have also thought about going abroad, but the conditions at home do not allow it, even if you work hard, you can't change the situation, you want to change your objective conditions are there, so that you have no chance to turn over. I am very unwilling, because this gap cannot be made up, but others do not have such pressure, thinking about why I was born in this kind of family, why others can do what I can't do, in fact, it is very distressing.

This kind of thing can only do what you do best within your own ability, because since others can achieve such conditions, they can't do it, so they can only use more methods to make themselves hit the best height within their own scope. When the time comes, I immediately think about going up. It just takes time.

Do you think it's good to go to school? Life is a long-distance run, not once or twice to distinguish the winner from the loser. As long as you continue to work hard and make yourself more progressive, in fact, your classmates may not live as well as you in the end, so you don't have to think that going abroad must be good.

Now there are too many turtles going abroad, more kelp, and they go out to gild while their own family has a little money, but in fact, they don't have real ability to end up being nothing, you think that so many people go out to be powerful, but in fact, it's just a vain name.

Now there are so many people who go abroad to study, put on a good attitude, do more practical things, more work experience is the right thing, sometimes everyone does not fancy the diploma, the most terrifying thing is that you are jealous of other people's families, and you do not work hard to change the status quo.

People have their own lives, maybe God is arranged in the dark, some people will have to go through a lot of suffering, if they succeed, they will have something to do, if they don't succeed, then life will be a mess. But some people are born with everything, they don't need to struggle, they have already prepared everything, this is fate.

When I was in junior high school, there was such a classmate, she was very good-looking, and her relationship with her classmates was very good, but she didn't study well, so she reviewed for another year, and finally took a high school that was about the same. When it came time to work hard to get into university, she had to study dance and culture classes, and she couldn't do both, but one person encouraged her, and she was finally accepted into a university that was in partnership with a university in South Korea, and she went to Korea as an exchange student.

After she went to South Korea, she has changed a lot, and every day she posts her daily life in South Korea in the circle of friends, I can feel that her life is very good through the screen! I love her life, and I look forward to the day when I can live it. You can learn about a foreign culture and improve your abilities.

There are also many people who look forward to living like them, but their appearance is very glamorous, but their hearts are very lonely, they are alone outside, and they have to solve any problems by themselves. Living in a foreign country is not so simple, because there are differences with Chinese culture, so you must also quickly accept the foreign culture and understand the cultural heritage of the foreign country!

My classmates all went to study abroad, and I especially hope that I can live like theirs, but each family has limited capabilities, and I need to understand myself!

When I was in high school, I didn't feel this way, and I thought it was a great thing to study abroad, but when I got to university, I really felt that studying abroad was a very good thing.

In my freshman year, I didn't have to go abroad, but by the time I was a sophomore, many of my classmates chose to go abroad, some chose to study in the United States, some chose to go to Germany, and some chose to go to Italy. At that time, I also wanted to go abroad, but my family didn't have the economic conditions, so I couldn't go abroad at all, so I was very envious of them, and I often fantasized that I would be able to study abroad one day, even if it was good to stay for a few months.

It's like before in the circle of friends.

Seeing their circle of friends, there are people who go to play nearby**, there are their schools**, they often follow that positioning when they send moments, so I am extremely envious when I see it, my feeling is, even if you can't learn anything abroad, but you at least know the culture of that country, in the years when you studied, you may also learn the language of that country, I think studying abroad is a place that can open your eyes.

In addition to envy them, I sometimes think a lot, I will think about why they were born in such a good environment, some people go abroad to study really because they can't get into a domestic university, but the family has money, that is, they can have this condition to study abroad, I feel very unfair, they don't work hard at all, but they have such treatment, just like I am working hard, but seeing the cost of going abroad, I think I immediately canceled this idea, this cost is too big for my family.

They are really good, and their families are generally very good, in fact, I am very proud and proud to have such classmates around, and at the same time, I also tell myself to work hard and be as good as them.

Some people will be envious but some people will not be envious, everyone's preferences are different, if it is me, I am not very envious of going abroad to study, compared to foreign life I still prefer the domestic living environment.

You will feel that you are not as good as them, and you should work hard to improve yourself and watch them ride.

Studying abroad is a different feeling of ten slow and wide points, very novel, everything abroad will make you feel refreshed, and you will learn a lot of knowledge that can not be learned in China, which will be of great help to your future. <>

When I study abroad, I will be very homesick, but when I go home, I will feel that foreign countries are more interesting than Mingma, anyway, it is a contradictory state, but I think it is still very unexciting to study abroad, because I can feel that this atmosphere is very self-conscious, and there is no special pressure to study here. <>

Studying abroad is a very lonely feeling, because if a person is studying abroad and accepts the words of the pure god, it is one thing to be unconvinced, and the people you meet are basically not very familiar with you, so that when you are on the street and outside, you will be very lonely and lonely.

In the study club abroad, I miss the food of my hometown and the friends of my hometown Jian Lubi, because I have just arrived abroad and the living and growth environment of my classmates and friends around me is incompatible, and the humanities and cultures are not the same, I will feel that I am isolated, I am an outlier in the crowd, and I will be inexplicably lonely.

Studying abroad is a very unsafe one. Because it is very lonely to study outside, and when a person is not accompanied by his family, he is very limb and hand and misses the Liyuan family, so I think that if a person is studying outside, he must pay attention to safety and make more friends.

I must think it's very good! Otherwise, how would you have the opportunity to study abroad? Because I think that the requirements of foreign schools will be relatively high, whether it is to look at the student's academic performance or to deal with people, you will be more concerned, then you can go, it means that they especially recognize your two problems, which means that you are particularly bright and not excellent, and others dare to accept you.

Studying abroad, I think this is already a very good experience, because this passage will allow you to learn a lot of different knowledge, and then you will also experience foreign knowledge, so I hope everyone can have a better draft to face this problem, but there are pros and cons.

People who are proficient in foreign languages will tell their friends that they are not suitable for the habit of eating, living and living in Huitang at the beginning, and there is basically no difference between them and in China, for the food, the food on the side of the socks and the domestic must be very different, and it takes a certain amount of time to adapt, and if you can't adapt to it, you can go to find a Chinese restaurant, and if you can't adapt to it, you can only eat Chinese food, and Chinese food is really attractive.