Should I ask my parents to buy me a car?

Personally, I don't think it's better to buy a car yet. First of all, the car is a consumable.

I don't have to buy it unless I have an important job and I don't have to. Otherwise, it doesn't make sense to buy it and put it at home as an exhibit. <>

I think buying a car is really very consuming, I have an older brother who bought a Geely car last year, and now it's about just a year, uh, just the last time I had dinner with him, he was still sighing with me, don't buy a car without a stable job and girlfriend, the car is really too consuming, just from the vehicle insurance.

Let's talk about it, from last year to this year, my brother paid more than 10,000 yuan in insurance. It's just about insurance, plus repairs, cleanups, and maintenance. It's about 20,000 a year, this is just my approximate estimate, and if you add something else, it may be more than that.

So I wouldn't buy a car without a stable job. <>

If the family's economic situation is not ideal, then there is no need to buy, which will only invisibly increase the pressure on parents, after all, it is not easy for parents to work outside the home, we also have to think about them, we can't just think about ourselves, we are raised by them to be sensible and not do what they want.

I'm still a student and I know it's too early to buy a car, but I can't stop my friends who are already working from buying a car, they may be able to buy a car, but I don't know if they can afford to keep it. One of the things I hear most from my elders about cars is that it's easy to buy a car, but it's hard to keep it. It really could be one of the truest words they've ever said in their entire lives.

I am also convinced that what they said is right because I have experienced what I know.

What I believed had to have its merits, and I set myself a goal without being instigated by anyone. You must find a stable job, a stable income, and a girlfriend before you buy a car. I also know my parents' salaries, and I don't add invisible pressure to them to make it a little easier.

It's all within my power and I know how to do it. <>

My brother told me not to look at your friends who have bought cars one by one and you want to buy them, don't follow them, then you will only suffer yourself. However, after that, I spent it in the payment of insurance and maintenance fees. I have a headache every day.

You have to know what you want and try to get it, that's what we do. You can't beg your parents to buy a car because you feel that you don't have face because you follow the trend. They do this and gnaw at the old.

There is no difference, you have to rely on your own ability to buy a car. I think that's the greatest thing.

I think what I think is right, and of course some people think differently for sure. There's no way I'm going to buy a car without a financial **. That way I'll give myself peace of mind.

I don't think we can generalize about this problem, everyone's ability and family's economic strength are different, some people are unwilling to rely on their parents financially, but some people are just the opposite, I think we can consider the following situations.

If the conditions at home are relatively good and your parents can afford to buy it for you, then I think it's okay. Society is really realistic, there are some things that others can easily come by, but for some people, they may struggle for ten or eight years. There is a saying:

Some people are born with a golden key in their mouths", no one should deny it. Maybe you are the person who was born with a golden key, and your parents have enough financial ability or extra income to support you to buy a car, then I think it is okay for your parents to buy a car.

If the family's financial situation is not so good, and your parents do not have enough money to pay for you, then please do not use your parents' pension to buy a car. How to say, maybe cars are basically a must-have for people to travel now, but not everyone can afford to buy a car, so don't buy a car if you or your family can't afford to buy a car. As young people, we must learn to be a responsible person, and would rather suffer ourselves than let our parents save money because of us, after all, they have almost paid their life's energy and their own life's happiness for us.

In fact, I don't think it's necessary to buy a car now, many people want to buy a car, just to compare with colleagues, friends, etc., to put it bluntly, just for their own face, their own vanity. If you want to buy a car to facilitate travel, I think this problem can be solved in today's sharing era. I believe that many cities now have car sharing, and you only need to spend a small amount of money to use it.

So, when we can't afford to buy a car, we can also have a car to use.

If you really want to buy a car, then you can also choose other ways. Now installments are also a better way, you only need to pay the money for the down payment, and you can use the car. So, when you don't have the money to buy a car, but you really want to buy it, we don't necessarily need to ask our parents for money, and it's okay to choose to pay in installments.

A lot of people say, why can he just let his parents buy a car and not me? Really don't complain about unfairness, and don't complain about the incompetence of our parents, many of us are from ordinary families, we can't compare with those rich second generation officials, we must admit that we need to work many times harder than them to get a part of what they have. Please don't blame your parents because they have given us the best.

Our parents dedicated their own life's happiness to us for our happiness, and when we grow up, I think we should no longer expect our parents to give us anything, we should repay our parents more. Really, unless our parents themselves are very capable, we should not easily ask for anything from our parents, and we should not suffer our parents who care for us in every way for our own needs.

I don't think so, but it's okay if your parents take the initiative to buy you a car, after all, it's all your parents' property, and they can distribute it however they want.

Many of us are now gnawing the old people, the parents' generation is the most difficult generation, and we as only children always enjoy all this as a matter of course, in fact, no matter what the angle, parents are not obliged to help you buy a car, you are not qualified to ask them to help you buy a car, how much to buy a car, let alone tens of thousands, parents are old, even if they have spare money in their hands, it is none of your business, you should be self-sufficient when you become an adult, always thinking about what is going on with your parents' money! Don't buy a car if you don't have money now, buy it when you have money, and I don't know what your purpose is to buy a car, in order to pretend that you have money? After all, there are so many cars nowadays, it is not convenient for you to go to work and drive, it is better to take the bus!

But if your parents take the initiative to propose, they themselves are not short of money, and buying a car will not affect their later life, you can accept it if you want to, and I don't want to be very hypocritical to let you give up anything, after all, why not enjoy it if you have the conditions, and you are not stupid. However, if your family is not very wealthy, and your parents buy you a car, they will have a difficult life, you still have to refuse, this is the most basic conscience of a person, not to mention, you are their children, you have to think about them, don't patronize yourself, and don't think about paying them back in the future, when you have a family, you will definitely not be able to take care of your parents.

So I think it's better for you not to take the initiative to ask your parents for a car, and live what kind of life you have.

Now our society is getting better and better, like a car and a house feel like a person's standard, but I don't think all this should be borne by your parents, like many young people, they just ask their parents to buy a car for themselves when they graduate from college, and they feel that this is their obligation. But in my opinion, I don't think we have to have my parents buy a car for me.

First of all, our parents must have savings, because parents know that their children will get married and have children in the future, and they need to prepare some money at this time, but as children, we have ever known that this is the hard-earned money of our parents, which they saved by working hard when they were young. If you want me to say, instead of asking our parents to use the money to buy a car for themselves, we should let the money be put to good use by our parents and let them use the money to travel for themselves, because it is time for them to enjoy themselves.

Secondly, I don't think it's necessary to buy a car when you just graduated from college, because your job at that time was just stable, maybe the salary is not so optimistic, to be honest, the cost of raising a car is very expensive now, even if your parents help you buy a car, you make sure that you can raise this car when you just graduate, maybe the cost of maintaining the car, the fuel money still depends on your parents to give you.

You have to think about it, after you work for a few years, buy a car with your own mortgage, and buy your own car with your own strength, at that time when you get this car, I believe you are more accomplished, because this car is to witness your efforts, witness your sweat, witness your success, I think the first car in life is to have meaning, like easily get the car you want, then there will inevitably be a little bit of disattention.

If you really want to buy a car, but you don't have enough money, I think you can borrow money from your parents, but you must not think that you can not pay back this loan, because you are already an adult, it is time to be independent, your parents are not obligated to take care of you, you can pay back to your parents when you earn money from your own work.

In the end, I don't approve of letting our parents buy us a car, especially if the family is not very wealthy, don't increase the pressure on our parents, and I think the next life is our own, we want a car, then we have to rely on our own efforts, instead of hoping that our parents will arrange everything for us, we have to go our own way.

If your parents have enough money and are willing to buy it for you, that's fine, but if your parents don't have enough money to meet your interests, you might as well figure it out yourself.

After all, our parents have raised us to fulfill their responsibilities, if we have grown up with what we want, it is better to rely on our own ability to fight, after all, no one can take care of us for a lifetime, in the end we still have to take care of ourselves, so we can't rely on our parents for everything, we can have the strength to satisfy our own desires, if not, we will strive to achieve, if we can't reach it, then we can only reduce our hobby level.

Many of my friends around me have driven the car one by one, some of them are bought with their own money, and some are funded by their parents, but they always feel that they earn money to buy a more down-to-earth feeling, those who use their own = parents' hard-earned money to buy a car, only care about their own happiness, and satisfy their vanity Those who drive out to pick up girls don't know if they think of their hard parents, can you go to such a car with your heart?

Our parents don't owe us, they don't owe us a house, they don't owe us a car, on the contrary, they raised us, we should thank them, we should honor them, this is not filial piety, but as children we should do, every child with parents in their hearts should think about what their parents need more, instead of thinking about what they still lack, what to ask for from their parents, what is the difference between this and those gnawing old people.

What's more, the person who can think of asking for a car should not be a child, since he is no longer a child, is it natural to earn money to buy what he wants.

If your parents have enough financial conditions, and you also have a job and income, this can also be considered, in this society, most people's first car is provided by their parents, which is actually a very normal thing.

Compared with before, the family is all farmers, and parents can't give anything, just like many people of the older generation will say that we are all children who grew up in honeypots, and we have nothing to do, and we don't lack anything, of course, after all, the times are changing, and the way of life is of course different.

Our parents wanted us to live a carefree life and give us the best things because they lived a hard life when they were young, but we can't blindly accept everything our parents gave us, we are people with new ideas and highly educated, and we need to consider many things comprehensively.

Think about it from another perspective, when you can't afford to buy a car on your own, if you accept your parents' advice to buy you a car, then you may have to live with your parents forever, relying on them to support you all the time.

Why? Think about it, you have just graduated from college or just entered the workplace, and your monthly salary is just enough for you to save money, and if you have a car, your salary is not enough to pay for gas, insurance, maintenance, etc., in case you are not careful, the car is knocked over, bumped, and more seriously, you hit someone, what should you do.

Oh, my salary is not enough, so I went home to my parents to ask for money, they worked hard to pull you up, and finally you can easily spend your old age with your pension, but I didn't expect to have to subsidize your living expenses every month.

So this matter needs to be considered in many ways, in the end, whether you need this car or not.

A long time ago, my dad said that when I graduated from college, I would buy me a car, but I decisively refused, not because my family's financial conditions were not enough, but because I didn't want to let my parents take care of me after graduating from college.