Whether it s in love or friendship, reality is really that cruel

In fact, not everyone is willing to face all this, and not everyone is so strong and brave to face it. But that's life, you have to keep going your own way, keep looking for the people who love you, the people you love. People have to grow up and become mature, and this is a process, a learning process.

It's not that the reality is terrible, but the world is too crazy, there are a lot of unexpected things happening at any time, what we have to learn is how to deal with it, turn the danger into a disaster, and let ourselves not be hurt in this real society!

Society is a big dye vat.

When you go to school, it's better, and when you go into society, you will see through this poor world completely.

Cruel? There may be more despicable words than this.

In a word.

Reality is cruel!

Scary not because of reality

It's up to you to decide how you want to go your own way

Because people are emotional animals, but also rational animals, when there is no conflict of interest, whether it is love or friendship, it is very good, there is no pickiness, once linked to interests, no matter how beautiful the love, no matter how true the friendship will fade, and even qualitative change, this is the sentence left by the ancients;

If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.

It's not about reality, it's that we're too powerless to change.

It's not because of the terrible reality and want to live and cringe, because the terrible reality is objectively existing and will not disappear because of anyone's weakness, since you can't choose the beginning of fate, why not change the continuation of fate, if you don't want future generations to be like you, then you will do the long stream of history and become a person who changes the terrible reality, very simple, this is competition.

It depends on what you think!

Hello friends, love and friendship are different emotions, although the two are equally important, but we have to admit that love is more important in life than friendship.

Before there is no boyfriend and girlfriend, friendship is more important than love, and after the relationship is determined, friendship will be defeated by love.

1. Friendship is the foundation of our survival.

In life, we cannot lack friends, friends are the ladder of our progress, and friends are our role models for learning. It is precisely because of the existence of friends that our life and work become more and more exciting. Therefore, many people compare friendship to the foundation of our survival.

When we want to start a business, friends are our best bridge, no friends to match us, our partners, our business opportunities are in the **?

When we encounter troubles in life, if we don't have the help of friends, these difficulties are likely to slow us down. When we are happy, our friends may not be with us, because they want us to enjoy this happiness alone, and when we are sad, our friends will definitely appear with us, because they want us to be happy forever and get out of the confusion. Friendship is like a warm spring breeze, slowly blowing into our lives.

2. Love is sweet and will affect us in this life.

Some people say that love is not the whole of life, but there is one thing we cannot deny, love determines whether we are happy in this life. A sweet love will bring us the feeling of flying, two people who bury each other and respect each other, just like two happy birds soaring in the sky, in the process of encouraging each other and accompanying each other, we learn to grow together and know how to cherish together. A good love can make two people grow up quickly, and a good love can help us get more opportunities.

Love is not everything, but it also determines and affects every part of our lives. Love and friendship are not contradictory in themselves, but when one's time is very limited, love and friendship will conflict, and in the face of love, everyone is selfish, so friendship will definitely give way to love.

There is a ridiculous saying that is very good, seeing the color manuscript is forgetful, in fact, this is the truth.

Definitely not right. Don't completely dismiss it just because you receive some setbacks in friendship and love. The same is true of everything in life, everything is good and bad, it is two-sided and relative. The key is your luck and business, and there are many other factors.

Love is true, but love can not last, it decreases too quickly, and everyone has a different time to dissipate, some couples or couples are together, some love lasts, some parties are still in love, and the other party has faded and tired, which causes the asymmetry of love to pay, so a lot of love is very sweet, and in turn it is very hurtful, in fact, love is real, but love lasts for a long time like different flowers.

I think it's the same, only family affection.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then the eternal love is by your side, not that you have a long-lasting love, but that you have created a long-lasting love.

Believe that as long as you have love, happiness will definitely exist

Positive energy, go to bed first, and wake up.

It's too absolute, I think it should vary from person to person, some people will find true love, and some people may not meet it.

Beg. Of course, no matter what era, love is an eternal theme. It's like falling out of love and being sad to think so.

Love is a very selfish emotion, it is exclusive, and no third party is allowed to intervene. If you love someone, the other party is a different existence, the so-called love.

How do you get love? It is easy to seek each other if the Tao is the same, and it is good to know oneself and the other. Life is all about making choices, choosing what you pursue, choosing what you like, and choosing the right one.

The point of love and marriage is to have a common language! Love is tolerance and understanding, love is mutual trust, love is cherishing each other, love is supporting each other, and love is being able to live well together.

It seems that you have a very dark heart in your heart. But to open a point. Actually, it's not a big deal. Remember that being happy and having fun is the most important thing every day. Hope I bring my happiness to you. Let's do it together.

What is true love?

If it refers to Qiong Yao-style love, it has basically never appeared in real society since ancient times.

No. It's hormones and private ownership.

The biggest difference between love and friendship is that love is sharing, but love is possession, love has a lot more desires than friendship, and friendship is more innocent than love.

Friendship, as the name suggests, is the affection between friends. Whereas, love is the affection between lovers. The two must not be confused, otherwise neither will work out in the end.

Friendship is when two people are like-minded and can have a common topic, and love is that you should have a spiritual resonance with the person you like. Being affectionate makes you better, and love is two people who become better together.

1. Perception: Is love a kind of reincarnation in the world? We met by chance, met by chance, met by chance, and we were friends at that time.

We guard the friendship under the sky of this fate, and take care of this seedling to grow slowly. The leaves are more abundant, the branches are thicker, and the buds are gradually budding. One day, we opened our sleepy eyes and found that the flower of friendship had blossomed into a rose of love.

At that moment, we suddenly realized that what we had cultivated for so many days was love.

Second, friendship can become love, but love can never become friendship, now you are still friends, there is a chance.

3. Love: When I am frustrated and wandering, when the world in front of me becomes bleak, you will let me regain the courage to reinvigorate, when I am excited and impulsive, you will gently tap my forehead, let me regain the tranquility of life, your happiness you are willing to share with me, your sorrow you will tell me, when I face difficulties and loss, you will use your snuggling to tell me that I still have you by my side, you are willing to face it with me, no matter the wind and rain or thorns, you make me believe that as long as I am with you, The rainbow will eventually appear, and when happiness comes, you hope that it is the happiness of you and me.

Explain that the other person doesn't like you.

Some people may not be able to impress it no matter how much you do, but it is better to let everything be. If you don't belong to yourself, you can't get happiness if you force it, and it's a better choice to be friends with her.

You have been with you for a long time, she doesn't have that feeling, you have to know that what is yours is yours, not that no matter how much you force it, it will not be yours, just face it indifferently.

She may not be able to accept the feeling of being a friend to a lover all of a sudden. After all, you've been friends for so long.

The 3rd floor is right, just let it be.

Love is a wonderful thing, but also can not be forced, what belongs to you is yours after all, as long as you have done your best in dealing with this relationship, then even if you can't be together in the end, you will not have any regrets, it will be easy to let go.

It's friendship that lasts forever.

Mistake! Here's why:

1. Distance! People are "far away fragrant, close smelly"! No matter how good the relationship is, if you are together every day, there will always be times when you hide your thoughts from each other, or get bored, or get bored!

2. Operate! Relationships need to be managed. Fathers and sons, mothers and sons, husbands and wives, siblings, friends, lovers, etc., all relationships need to be managed!

There is no reason in this world that no one owes anyone, including parents who do not owe us anything, only if you know how to manage and truly understand that you are not good to others, others will also be bad to you, you can harvest real feelings (friendship, love), these must be operated first, and then you can come! There are no feelings in the sky, only **!

3. Trust! This is the most important thing! In all relationships, if this thing is lost, it will be over!

Of course not, childhood playmates will pursue their dreams as they grow older, and they will basically not be in touch when they get married and have children. Good students will also go their separate ways with graduation and work. Love also has a shelf life, even if you once loved vigorously, but that was also once, it was true at that time, but it does not mean that it will always be true, otherwise why would so many people who once loved each other divorce.

Someone once said that the most normal relationship is not about caring for each other, but about needing each other. Maybe you really need each other to continue the relationship. There is also a saying that makes more sense, the only constant in this world is that everything is changing.

So none of us can do anything but do our best to sustain it.

It is rare to have a confidant in life, break through the love relationship, and manage your own love and love relationship: the real single-minded love relationship will not deteriorate for people who value love and affection, because the innocent love is based on mutual love, and the beautiful and honest love is good. Love is the most important feeling of love, how many years later, love will slowly become family affection, friendship is friendship, two different things.

Yes, if a friendship has deteriorated, it has never been a friendship. If love has deteriorated, it has never been love.

Don't think about the world too perfectly, don't think about the feelings between people too perfect, the reality is very cruel, the relationship between people is also very delicate, there is no lifelong constant feelings! Life is not a TV series!

Yes. Eventually, it will turn into a taste for family! But you also have to look at yourself. Some will, some won't.

No, true friendship may not deteriorate for a lifetime; However, love will slowly turn into family affection.

Oh, yes! As long as you grasp your own proportions! It won't spoil for the rest of your life!