Shouldn t I be a little more mature? What does it mean to be mature?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Realizing that you are going to mature is already a kind of progress!

    To mature, you have to go through a long process, and there is no way to "train" yourself to mature There are many things in life, and these things are likely to change your outlook on life, values and worldview in an instant, and you will have a different perspective when looking at problems As for what maturity is, I have heard someone explain it like this: "Knowing what it is, is called growing up; And knowing what it is and not saying it, it may be inappropriate to call it maturity", but it at least makes us understand that we have to learn to live in the world, but living in the world is another science I think that maturity at least has to face problems with calmness and think rationally This ability can be cultivated by reading books and "reading words and colors" Reading books, reading valuable books, I don't recommend the so-called "philosophy" on the shelves that teach people how to behave in the world, you can read famous books (after all, they have passed the test of time), or the books of some decent writers in modern and contemporary times, such as books in Qian, Zhou Guoping, and Shi Tiesheng; First of all, we must think about whether his way of dealing with problems is appropriate, what are the bad points, what are the good points, or whether there is a better solution

    In short, life is a process of continuous accumulation and summary As you grow older, you will naturally mature, you don't have to put too much pressure on yourself, and it is good to go with the flow While maturing, you must maintain a moment of childlike innocence That is very precious!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What is considered maturity, are you a mature person?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The need for maturity: 1. Speak esoteric (use more words and idioms) 2. Mature actions (don't learn children's movements) 3. Mature tone (mm should not speak too sharply and not too heavy, GG should speak a little deeper) 4. Dress maturely (don't wear clothes with dolls, you can wear school uniforms, and jeans can also be worn underneath).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maturity is not pretended, just as naivety is not pretended! Maturity has nothing to do with age, or at least not by age to judge whether a person is mature or not. Maturity is an experience, this is not learned!

    At the very least, you have to go through a few more things to get to know it, and if you want to have fewer frustrations in your experiences, I think you'd better read more books, especially some good ones! Then, make more bosom friends within your age range, and from the book and friends, you will slowly grow up Maturity is a process, don't worry, child!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Reading books and watching movies can help you understand society, increase your experience, and gradually reach the so-called maturity. But what's wrong with being naïve, the more you think about it, the more you think about it, you may be upset in September, why not be naïve and happy, happy and innocent uoletianzhendes I like innocent children so much When you really feel that you have gotten rid of your innocence, you may never get it back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should be mature first, you can learn more about men and women, and you will be more mature, and if you don't want to do this, then read more emotional books

    And in terms of clothing, don't always have patterns such as kitty and Mickey Mouse, you can read more women's magazines and books, Ruili is good

    It is always necessary to mature in terms of thought and speech first

    Or just wear mature clothes, don't talk much, and walk with your chest up and your head up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Physiological maturity, let's not talk about this.

    Psychological maturity has to go through ups and downs, and if you experience more ups and downs, you will naturally mature, and you can't rush it! Go with the flow.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maturity is not deliberately pretended.

    Let it be.

    When the age comes, I have experienced a lot of ups and downs, and I will naturally mature.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, everyone is right!

    However, the maturity rule is mature, and it is not bad to maintain a childlike heart.

    The main thing is to think clearly in advance about what to do and what to say, what not to do and what to say, think about it more afterwards is wrong and right, slowly accumulate experience, keep a normal heart, and consider things from the perspective of others, you will become a lot more mature, but, don't be rigid, childlike innocence is also very important, to be able to let go, can take back, in short, can be stretched, say something that is not good, see people talk about people, see ghosts, hehe, exaggerated...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When encountering things, I will also think from the perspective of others

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Okay, I can tell you about that

    The first step is to close the question you asked.

    The second step is to go and hone and hone it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Mature this"stuff"You can't even pretend to be it.

    Even the actors can't perform

    You haven't read a lot of entertainment news that says that many young actors have transformed from Zhinun to the current maturity in the past.

    That's when his experience is increasing. It's honed over time.

    But there are many people who are younger and more mature than their peers, and that's because they've been through more than you

    And most of the things are sad, frustrated, not bitter, and sad. Sadness. Wait a minute.

    If you see a person who is very mature and red-faced, and full of energy! Then he must be from.

    Sadness, frustration, not bitterness, sadness. Sadness. The people who crawled out! He is a successful man!

    There are a lot of mature people who want to go back to the naïve era. Hehe.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I doubt it's going to be long before I'm mature

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I didn't see anything!

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