Should I be selfish, should I be selfish?

I'm going through the same experience as you, and I'm struggling inside. But I have to be sensible, because I am responsible for myself, I am responsible for him, and since I love him, I am also responsible for his family. When he organized the family, I think he thought about it, because marriage is no longer just love, it involves more responsibility.

If he doesn't get divorced, it means that he at least has a sense of responsibility, so at least you don't love the wrong person. Don't try to change or reverse what is a foregone conclusion, that's providence. Sometimes it's like this, maybe he and his wife were the most suitable before they met you, and they were already very happy, but your appearance changed his mind, but the responsibility he has given to his wife, and you can only blame him for being born at the wrong time and meeting late.

You love him, he loves you, in fact, he is already very happy, I know that your requirements are not high, I just want to walk on the street with him openly, and call my husband from afar, but have you thought about it? What do you need to exchange for those superficial things, is it worth it for the broken family? There are many ways to respect what he chooses and love him, and destruction is not the original intention.

You have actually gotten it, that is, his love, in fact, you are already very happy, is it still so important on the surface? What do you value?!At least I'm not asking for it, I feel like I'm unlucky, but happiness is more than unhappiness.

You can try, but I can tell you that none of you can be happy, if you keep you in love, at least you can keep the peace, and you can maintain the good feeling now, but if you go to tear it down, do you think about what you can have now?

If you love him, you love him in the way you love him, and you want him to be happy, so that you can be happy, and you can be happy, so why pay attention to the form? Marriage is not a safe deposit box, it is just a very burdensome responsibility. Marriage is eternal, love is even greater!

Are you so sure he can divorce and marry you?

Do you know how many things are that a man can't divorce at all?

He loves you conditionally, that is, not to destroy his family on the basis, otherwise, if you are with his wife, who do you think he will choose?

Because there is an obstacle to this kind of love, he is overly beautified by himself, and feels that this is his favorite in this life, in fact, this man has long lost the right to love someone, what can he give you?

If he wanted to get a divorce, he would have left long ago. He just wanted to "the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside". He doesn't love you as much as you think, really. It is you who glorify his love.

Will his wife let go? Divorce is a war.

Break up, don't wait until one day when you want him to stand up for your happiness, he runs away and retreats, and then you are really worse than dead.

Women are selfish, but not the kind of selfishness you say.

In order to save yourself from insults and injuries, you might as well break up. Selfishly protect yourself. No man is worth a woman's lifelong affection.

Do you have a home? If you are not married, when will you and him stop? Love is empty if it is not implemented in dressing, eating, and counting money.

After a long time, you will be tired, resentful, and feel that you actually have nothing, and the relationship between the two will change. A woman loves a man, she hopes that this man is her own world, and all his struggles are yours, but your current situation is not like this, he cares about his wife, you do so much for him, even if you are dying, he may not dare to protect you.

Is it worth it to give your youth for such love?

Think about the warmth of him and his wife, what are you? I dare say: any man wants a woman who is madly in love with him without affecting his family. This is the vain man.

Long pain is better than short pain, the real pain is you, your pain is far greater than his pain.

Don't wait until love turns into hate before breaking up, give love a way out, and break up while you're still in love.

In life, people can be a little selfish a lot of the time. But we also have to put ourselves in someone else's shoes! If you give a little, you will get more than that!

If there is a cause, there will be an effect, think for yourself, do it yourself, many times an outsider can't solve the problem you want! Only you know whether it's right or wrong! Some things fade with the passage of time.

Maybe you're more fit for the bland!

Let it go! It's always bad to be a third party.

You have to know that divorced men will not get married easily, loving yourself is the most important, no man is worth your attention so much, no matter whether your relationship is good or not now.

If a man is compared to an apple, an unmarried man is a green apple, and a married man is a red apple. Green apples are crisp but tasteless, so you can grab a few of them. Red apples are sweet and delicious, but they are always in someone else's garden.

If you go over the fence to pick it, you will be seen by others, and you will be blamed by others and some unexpected pressure. Waiting for him to fall into the net? Even if he is willing to go with you, there are branches and leaves that hold him in the way, making it difficult for him to make a choice.

The best way is to stand outside the garden, smell the fragrance of red apples from afar, and cultivate your own apples, otherwise you will be the one who suffers.

Let it go! Even if he is willing to divorce his wife and say hello to you, I believe that one day he may betray you. It's better to get together and disperse, leave yourself a good memory, and walk away in style. To find your own happiness.

There is no selfishness and non-selfishness in the world, but everyone's perspective is different, and the problems are even more different, and there is discrimination in some things, but we go down that path and we can't go back, and we have to keep making mistakes, maybe the light is below, as for insisting on not insisting on yourself, decisiveness is important, it is recommended to think about your own time, you can also think about it from the perspective of his wife and him, maybe you won't be so depressed, hehe. `

Strongly despise women who destroy the happiness of other people's families!

You can put yourself in the shoes of his wife and him, and maybe you won't be so depressed!

Things are multifaceted, depending on how you treat them. In fact, sometimes people are very conflicted, and they regret doing something later! Believing that God is fair will give you a fair reward.

When it comes to what you mean by "selfishness", I would say can you do it? Sometimes you can't control your mind when you encounter something! If you can do it, then I suggest you be selfish, otherwise it will be very tiring to live, people live for themselves, not for others!

Satisfied. If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her. If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others.

There are some things that you like that will not belong to you, There are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm. Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you must love him well.

Maybe it's virtue, but I advise you not to be selfish in front of women, so they will resent you, you know

Trouble, thanks!

Everyone has their selfish side... For example, if that friend is something you believe, you can do it.

It's normal to have a good face. Generosity should be used on those who are generous, understand?

People are not for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed, everyone has selfishness, and it is hypocritical to say that there is no one.

Yes, no one in this world is completely selfless, since the mainstream of the world is like this, why not integrate into this world, but don't be too selfish, just be a little selfish, hehe.

You should think a little more about yourself.

Don't be too selfish, sometimes love is selfless, you ask this question, I think, you must be great, because of your greatness, and lost something, you think you can't accept things, but you swallow bitter water in your stomach. Speaking of which, I really want to say, sometimes love is selfish, what should belong to you, everyone will have possessiveness, I think, when you really love someone, you want him to stay by your side forever, always only contact yourself, isolated from the world is the best, if, you really can't accept it, or, it has an impact on you, you can think about yourself appropriately, don't always help others think, in this way, you will be very uncomfortable! However, your lover must be very happy to have you!

If you love very much, you are likely to be selfish. Beg.