The question of career direction is very contradictory, who can help me?

I can responsibly tell you that your idea is wrong. You don't know the current society, and you don't know what kind of predicament this social situation will bring to people like us. Now that you have a job, you should cherish it.

There's nothing wrong with your ideas, but not everyone can create their own life according to their own ideas. All you have to do is change your mindset. Adapt to your current situation.

Wait until a real opportunity presents you to make the move. Listen to me and try to change yourself and adapt to life.

Hello, first of all, I feel that you are an idealistic and self-motivated person, which is very good. I support you in putting your ideas into action and realizing your ideals.

I think your uncle didn't let you go out of love, you did a good job, and it was normal for him not to let you go for the sake of the company's development. But out of consideration for your future, you still have to think more about it, and make a plan for the future of researching technology. You can open the ** first, wait for it to be stable and then discuss it with your parents, and consider the benefits of the cable factory, how much room you can have for development in the future.

Sometimes a hobby doesn't have to be a career, and you can also do software development work in a cable factory.

I didn't do what I was interested in, but after 2 years of coming in, I was quite interested in it, and I was working hard. The key is to think about your future path, and if you decide, don't care so much.

If it were me, I would choose the industry I like, so that I would have a happy life and do things smoothly. This is my personal opinion, you should think about it again, sometimes, what major to learn is not necessarily to do which line, I also studied computer, after working in Suzhou power plant for two years, the mood is very bad, and then I still left, I value not money, but more happy, so, I chose to go home to continue to learn computer, now in the software development company to do, is also very good. Your choice depends on how much you value money and how interested you are.

You have something you like, and I envy you. But there is always a distance between reality and ideals, realizing ideals is a lifelong thing, and doing what you like is the happiest, but ideals cannot be separated from reality, so people have no absolute freedom. You think about your own situation, whether you want to leave or not.

Find a job that's right for you.

Since you have ideals, put them into action and work hard for your ideals.

Of course, think about the reality in advance. Be grounded in reality, do what you love, and make your dreams come true.

Entrepreneurship! Your major is communication, right? Robin Li - Founder!

Status! And all young! As long as you're creative.

Don't want to go to work. I want to make money again. You can only start a business!!

Hello. From your writings, you can feel your pain and confusion about the future, how to go down the road of life, your lack of confidence, and even a little doubt. This is a relatively common phenomenon of post-80s youth, after all, you were born and grew up in a period of social transition, social values are diversified, everything is money-oriented, money worship and utilitarianism are prevalent, and the value of life seems to be measured by the amount of money.

I think that the idea of quick success is harmful to life, and the key to solving the problem lies in your reflection and positioning on yourself, where is the value of life? Is life all about making money? Is youth spent in such a waste?

Therefore, you should return to yourself, the value of human beings lies in "clinging to goodness and stubbornness, realizing your existence as a human being", God created man fairly, a person with average qualifications in one aspect may be a genius in another, the key is whether you face up to and develop your potential. For example, if you don't like to study, you are naturally not suitable for academic research; But didn't you say that you are "more honest and honest"? Have you ever thought about how to make use of this specialty?

Lu You Shiyun, "There is no way out of the mountains and rivers, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village", the road is on yourself, look for it? Above.

Do you know? Each of us has a treasure box in our hearts – talent talent, so, the question is whether you choose to open it or not.

And what I see you, you seem to be running away from something, I guess what you are escaping is happiness (don't blame me), you have been fortunate to have been studying for so long, and your mind is full of making money, but you will not find the direction to make money to progress, but you have been standing in place and will not move, are you afraid or not confident, I believe you know in your heart.

No matter what, as long as you have perseverance, nothing will stump you, what you are afraid of, you have to learn to get through, don't think it's difficult, don't think so seriously, try to see it, try to try.

As our salaryman, there is no stability in the job or the initial stage of the career, I personally believe that the career is the main thing, after all, the society gives us the opportunity, there are not many opportunities to develop, if your lover can not understand your work, you can go back to the forest to find a new one, but the opportunity, especially the opportunity to develop, still have to be mastered. Oh.

If you don't have a career, love will be in the sky....The foundation of love is career. I told you that time is the sharpest blade and the strongest shield to dismantle! Choosing a career is about pushing time like a shield.

That way, at least you can keep the same! Life is long, and giving up your career and blindly pursuing love is tantamount to drinking and stopping! Don't give up on your career because of greed!

You'll regret it then....The heaven-shaped chain is so big, you will definitely be able to find your fate, since you can immerse yourself in one relationship, you can have another. Please take care of yourself, so that you can have perfect love! (The above is for reference only).

I think it is necessary to comprehensively analyze whether there are conditions to do business now, after all, it is risky to invest in business, and for beginners, there will be more worries, and there will be less concern for you, which will not affect the relationship between you, which is also a problem, and you can analyze whether your current relationship is time to get married, if your relationship is quite mature, both parties feel that they can get married, then it is okay to get married first.

Whether there is a contradiction or not depends on what kind of person you meet. Compared with such a man, he is a more selfish person, of course, this does not mean that he is bad, he has no bad intentions, and if he wants to marry you, of course, it is a stable relationship, which means that he cares about you. However, he was afraid that your focus on your career would affect your marriage, so he asked for marriage from his own point of view.

Without taking into account your wishes. That's a bit selfish.

However, in addition, he may not be sure about you, and I am afraid that when you succeed, there will be a lot of variables... In fact, it's okay to get married, you can say okay, don't have children for the time being. That way it won't affect your career too much.

Personally, I believe that love and career are not contradictory.

On the contrary, in most cases, love can promote career.

It seems that there are far more problems for two people after marriage than when they are single.

But in fact, compared to one person's happiness and troubles, two people can double their happiness and their troubles can be halved after being together.

We often say that "live and work in peace and contentment", and if you have a home, you will be better in your career.

Even if you get married, it will not affect your self-motivation in your career, and before you do something, don't think about how many difficulties there are and how many adverse consequences there are.

It is still necessary to have a positive and optimistic attitude towards love and family.

The shortcut to doing many things is to do them one by one.

Women should be independent at all times.

I'm sure you'll take care of it.

Wishing you happiness!

Two possibilities:

First, he is a man with no responsibility, and he hopes that when he gets married, he will be secure, and he can rely on you to support him in the future.

Second, good men are career-oriented, but they must first build the rear well, that is, they can start a business with peace of mind when they get married.

I think he's the latter, and you should think again.

If you don't have a career, you can't maintain love and family, this should be a man's business, people like your boyfriend are not ambitious, this kind of person is not suitable for him.

Both are equally important!

No matter what a person's value orientation is, having love and career is a person's complete life. I just want to tell my friends: career is the economic foundation of love, love is the spiritual pillar of a good career, the two support each other, promote each other, complement each other, indispensable, can not only take care of one end, and despise the other end, career is related to the future of both parties, both sides must support each other, no matter how busy and tired the work, must maintain close contact with each other, this balance point has to find their own, only love and career are taken into account, in order to achieve the happiness of life and the value of each other.

Hehe, since two people love each other, one of them must give up something for the other, maybe she can go to your place to be your strong backing, or you can go to her to help her expand her business, the family's resistance is actually nothing, as long as you see that you are really good to her, I believe they can understand, what can you do if you are really unreasonable?Marriage and love are free, and no one can stop you if you are determined to be together!If you think it's okay, please give it oh, thank you.

There must be conflicts, and this issue is also difficult to deal with.

Your lover doesn't understand you?··

If the lover doesn't understand, then you should think about it, is your family stable? Will it be unbalanced because you don't have a job, if not, think about it first on your lover's side.

If you want to take a leave of absence from work, can you use a little lie? For example... Wouldn't it be unlucky for a person who is going to attend a funeral to attend a meeting or something...

If you are majoring in IT, you can enter the high-tech field in the future, and the knowledge and skills you learn are your most valuable things, and no one can take them.

But you can start preparing for your business from now on, and I don't think studying in university will stop you from studying anything else. As long as you want to start a business, you'll know what you're going to do. Come on!! I wish you success.

IT talks about technology productization of components, components, and component manufacturing such as elites and the public.

Brother, if you don't do it, you can try it, and it's better to study a major than not to study at all! Think about it!!

The knowledge you have learned is useful at any time, you can work for others first, you will know more people, and you will lay a good foundation for your own business in the future if you have interpersonal relationships.

IT, it should be helpful to do e-commerce. You can take a look at related projects. Entrepreneurship Network, Youth Entrepreneurship Network, etc. have projects introduced.

First of all, I am very touched that you have such a glue-like relationship! Secondly, in addition to being sensual, I also hope that you and him have rational considerations, love also needs abundant material as a long-term backing and solid material foundation for the pleasure of the two lovers! Wouldn't perfect love be born in a vacuum, wouldn't it be great that you have such a good job and can lay a solid financial foundation for you to start a family in the future?

I hope your boyfriend can support you to develop, and don't give up the material foundation of love for the sake of blindly loving your life! I wish you all a long time and a happy love! If it helps you, I hope to adopt thank you!

Then choose feelings. Work can be boiled out. But if you give up your relationship now, you may regret it later. Firmly believe that a job can be found again. But people are the same for a lifetime.

The best thing to do, you bring her to the town and work together in the town.

For work, there is a saying that you should remember called Seon is not a blessing? You think that job is good at present, the job you don't see will always be good, it may not be that job is very suitable for you, you will be able to return to the city in the future, and the interpersonal relationship in the township will not be handled well, and it may not be faster than the progress in the city! So put love first, I know you'd love to hear words encouraging you to go to the township, but it's unrealistic, then you'll regret it in the future!!

It depends on how you choose, landlord, you have to ask yourself, is the job more important to you, or your girlfriend is more important to you, in fact, this is a multiple-choice question, the girlfriend is gone, you can find it again, the job is gone, you can find it again, so, the important thing is how your heart is, go with your heart, make a choice, you won't regret it...

There is bread to love! Tell her well, it's all for each other to have a better future and give her a better life, and the temporary difference is nothing, and she should be considerate.

Swear to be good to her for the rest of your life! Then choose what is right for her! It's a good choice.

Do you think affection is always necessary for your woman, or money?

When you can't have it both ways, listen to your own voice and what you want most.