What would you do if your most trusted friend was in a relationship with your favorite ex boyfriend?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-17
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You said that you are an ex-boyfriend, since it was before, that is, in the past, everything he has now has nothing to do with you. I don't think it's wrong for your most trusted friend to be in a relationship with your ex-boyfriend.

    It's nothing more than that you still feel like you can't let go of it in your own heart, and I think I can understand this feeling. Even when you share the sweetness of their love with you for a long time, you will feel embarrassed. After all, those vows, those sweetness once belonged to you, but life has to go on.

    We need to learn to accept and learn to bless.

    Even though it may be a little uncomfortable and a little painful in my heart, reality is reality. You have your own happiness, don't you?

    I hope you can generously bless them as a good friend. Sink the emotion of the past in your heart.

    Go on with your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you may feel sad in your heart, but after all, it's an ex-boyfriend, and you're no longer together after all, so what can you do when you're together and when people love each other? You can only face them calmly, and even bless them, showing how broad-minded you are, when there is no one, you can heal alone, you can go on a trip to relax, and forget your love for your ex-boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ex-boyfriend, you still have a.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Without that hobby, there wouldn't be that possibility, I'm a man!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's none of your business.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you live by the sea? It's too wide.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If I break up peacefully with my ex because of lifestyle habits or disagreements, I can accept a good friend to have a relationship with me, but try to avoid it to avoid embarrassment;

    In addition to the above reasons, I could not accept it and cut off my relationship with the two parties.

    Cherry blossoms in spring.

    Free fish.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't take it. I think it's a very common situation because there are feelings and friendships involved. For me, there are many reasons why I can't accept a good friend getting involved with an ex:

    1.You still have feelings for your ex: You have been in a relationship with your ex and have liked her, then seeing her in a relationship with your good friend may cause you discomfort or jealousy.

    2.I don't think my ex is a good friend for you: a good friend is not a good match for your ex, and my ex is not a good person, so I don't want to imitate my good friend and associate with him.

    3.I'm worried that this relationship will affect my relationship with my good friend: I think this relationship will affect my relationship with my good friend, or I fear that my good friend will abandon me in favor of an ex.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it were me, I wouldn't accept my good friend being with my ex, and I wouldn't treat Lian Changmeng as my good friend, and I would slowly become a little estranged from her. Tanabashi wouldn't even talk to her anymore. This is also to avoid some embarrassing situations.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I certainly can't accept a good friend associating with my ex, which puts me in an awkward position. I would feel like these two people betrayed me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your good friend Zen Book and your ex-friend called me, you should congratulate, they should be able to accept them, after all, your ex has broken up with you, and you have become the stranger who knows him best, but your good friend is dating him, you should congratulate them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I can't accept my good friend dating my ex.

    Some people may think that if you have already broken up with your ex, you have no right to interfere in her love life and you should wish her and your good friend happiness. However, I can't accept such a view because I feel that it is a betrayal and infidelity to me. I will explain my reasons in three ways.

    First of all, my ex and I used to have a wonderful time, we shared each other's secrets and dreams, we used to love each other. Even though we broke up, I still treated her as someone special and I didn't want to see her with someone else, especially my good friend. I feel that this is disrespectful and blasphemous to the feelings we once felt, and this is a hurt and insult to me.

    I can't stand such pain and shame.

    Secondly, my good friend should be someone who supports me and comforts me, he should know my feelings for my ex, and he should respect my bottom line. If he is in a relationship with my ex, it means that he doesn't care about me at all, only his own happiness. I don't need such a good friend, and I don't want to see such an ex again.

    I feel like it's a betrayal and destruction of my friendship, it's a break of my trust and loyalty.

    In the end, I think it was the wrong choice for my ex to date my best friend, because they may not really love each other, but only out of loneliness or revenge. They may find that they are not a good fit for each other or may feel guilty because of the condemnation of their conscience. They might hurt each other, and they might hurt me.

    I feel that this is an irresponsible and immature behavior, and that it is a selfish decision.

    To sum up, I can't accept my good friend and my ex because I feel that it is a betrayal and infidelity to me, it is a hurt and insult to me, it is a betrayal and destruction of my friendship, and it is a break of trust and loyalty to me. I hope they will reconsider their relationship, or at least be able to respect my feelings and give me a reasonable explanation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can't accept it because it will be embarrassing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I guess I can accept their relationship, because they have broken up, and they have nothing to do with their ex, and everyone can't prevent others from having the right to love each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I can't accept it!

    Good friends must know about our previous relationships, and friends must have witnessed my previous affairs with my ex. As a good friend, I thought I should support my ideas and protect me from harm, but choosing to associate with him at this time made me feel betrayed!

    Let's talk about my ex, I dated my good friend, and Zhou Nai made me feel that I had an emotional betrayal before I was separated, which made me feel that my last relationship became ridiculous!

    So I won't accept their relationship when I'm old, and I'll stay away from them, and I'll give up this kind of friendship!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You will definitely be able to accept that a good friend is with his ex, because as a good friend, you want him to be happy, and you will not stop him from chasing happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you should accept the relationship between them, because your good friend is not you, you don't represent his wishes, you can bless them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If the key is a good friend, you can't control it. If it's a relationship, you should talk to her. has been detached from intimacy, and is still dating, do you believe it? Don't be green, bro.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As a girl, it's acceptable for a good friend to date an ex. Because the best way to let go of a person is to stop caring about all the bits and pieces of the other person and stop being nostalgic for the past. For the wrong people, learn to let go. Devote your energy and time to your studies.

    In case of trouble, you might as well learn to turn calmly, learn to let go quietly, and life will not be tired. Only by cherishing the present moment and taking care of your life in an orderly manner can you calmly handle the things around you.

    Now that we've broken up, there's no need to dwell on it anymore. Everyone has the right to find their own happiness? Everyone has the freedom to be with whomever they want.

    If you still remember your ex, it's good to silently bless you. Be generous and have a calm mind. Not only for self-suspicion, but also for friends.

    It's okay to accept good friends dating ex. Since he is already an ex, it shows that it has passed, and the psychology has let go and is no longer nostalgic.

    The reasons are as follows:

    1. Don't ask others with a narrow mentality. Cultivate yourself in the hearts of others, and force others in your own hearts. Selfishly think that what you can't get will be destroyed, and you can't let your friends get it.

    Those who have loved cannot be loved by friends, and they cannot be kidnapped by moral friendship to pursue the freedom of love.

    2. Adjust your emotions and calm your mood. It's their freedom for good friends and exes to socialize. Look down on it and bless it a little more. Being broad-minded is a good thing for yourself and your friends.

    3. The person the ex falls in love with has nothing to do with him, and he is like a stranger. Good friend Qin Rent falls in love with his ex, which is also their own private matter.

    Fourth, learn to let go and live easily without getting tired. If you don't care about yourself, and if you care too much about your willful competition, you will only be uncomfortable and mediocre people will disturb yourself.

    Fifth, life must go on, learn to look forward, learn to let go of unworthy feelings, in order to become beautiful. The past is gone, and it is nothing but a cloud floating in the sky.

    Sixth, I wish good friends and exs to interact, whether it is worth it or not, I will only suppress myself and ask for trouble.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I can't accept it, but I can't do anything about it, so I can only euphemistically remind my good friend that you can not collapse the chain and terminate this relationship, if you can't, then stay away from this kind of person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I was able to accept my good friend and dated my ex, because my ex had already sung the wisdom of the Sutra and was no longer the one I continued to love, so he Sakuraiwa was already free.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't accept it, because two familiar people are together, it's a little awkward to look at, and I'm just uncomfortable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I certainly can't accept a good friend dating my ex.

    The specific reasons are as follows:

    1.From a values point of view, this situation is difficult to accept. A good friend's boyfriend can't be touched, I think that's a truth that everyone can understand.

    If my best friend wants to be with my boyfriend without knowing my story with my ex-boyfriend, that's disrespectful to me.

    2.From a personal psychological point of view, Frank will feel betrayed. Because of the relationship they have now, they will always remind me that they have been in private alone before.

    Even my breakup with my ex had something to do with this friend. So I absolutely can't accept them being together, if they have to be together, then I can only lose this good friend, because my heart is very uncomfortable, and it is difficult for me to do Xincong calmly to see them together.

    3.From the point of view of life, the best ex is like disappearing, and it is best to never appear in front of you. A real relationship, even if it is over, still has emotions.

    If you reappear next to Junzakura, that familiar feeling will appear again. So I can't accept him as a good friend's boyfriend and girlfriend in my life again.

    If they have to be obsessed with being together, it's better not to be friends with them, it's too uncomfortable to look together. Out of sight is out of sight.

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