What kind of experience is it like to not be worthy of someone you like?

It is a very painful, inferior, and helpless experience. The more you like someone, the easier it is to have a "liking gap" with him. Because when we care a lot about a person's opinion of us, we will overestimate the degree of attention that others pay to us, resulting in a "spotlight effect".

We feel that the other person can see all our flaws, all our imperfections; You will feel that the other person can notice every embarrassing question, every little bit of an uninteresting joke, and maybe a little bit of a cold joke. They may remember everything we didn't do well enough to the point that our good qualities dimmed. But in fact, those who are not good and imperfect may not be as important in the eyes of the other person as those attractive qualities in you.

In fact, don't be humble in your relationship, and don't worry about your own badness, behind the strong worry is a deep lack of self-confidence. Every time I become a child with self-doubt and self-blame in front of the person I like. In fact, think about it, you have so many excellent places, and when you are appreciated and recognized, you are not very bad, and the other party may not be as good as you imagined.

Everyone is complete, with strengths, weaknesses, shortcomings, and shining points. You might as well try, slowly come out of your humility, try to see your strong side, your excellent side, and believe that you are worthy of being loved and worth having. You need a "sense of worthiness" that is, you deserve all the good things, including the wonderful people and the people you like.

When you try to get out of the cage of inferiority, to get used to equality, to gain strength, to win respect, you don't need humble pandering, lack of self-confidence, worry and fear. May you have the courage to start, accept your own confidence, and recognize your own value.

will have some inferiority complex, go out shopping with the person you like or go to meet his family, and feel a little empty, because I always feel unworthy of him in my heart.

It is an experience of low self-esteem, feeling helpless, and helpless. If it is a man, a strong man will not back down because of this matter, and the man's career is the most important thing. If it's a woman, it's not a big deal. Remember that there is no unworthiness, just no fate.

will show an inferiority complex, afraid of not being worthy of the other party, and often suffer from gains and losses, feeling that every time you have to work hard to hug him tightly, every time you are separated, there will be no next meeting.

This is a very helpless experience, because I obviously like him very much, but I know that because of my own reasons, I am not good enough to be worthy of him, and I will resent myself a little and feel very helpless.

It will make people feel particularly inferior, because they have seen too many shortcomings from themselves, and then they are not good enough in any aspect, and they are not worthy of the people they like, and the inferiority complex will arise spontaneously.

It's an experience that makes you feel inferior. I am always worried that when I go home with her to see her parents in the future, her parents will not like her, and they will be very anxious to improve their level.

It is a feeling of inferiority, feeling that there is no advantage in me for others to like me, and I often feel that I am worthless.

Very inferior, very sad, although I want to be with him very much, I like him very much, but when I think of my various problems, I dare not go forward to confess to him, I can only pay attention to him silently.

will feel inferior, he is so good, but he is so ordinary, which also encourages himself to work hard, strive to improve himself, and make himself as good as him.

It's a very painful experience, every day I feel inferior, I want to be better, but I can't find any way.

Every day, I reflect on my own shortcomings, and feel inferior to the shortcomings I have, but at the same time, I will improve myself in some ways.

Since you know you don't deserve it, why don't you try to make yourself better. If you feel that you don't match your appearance, you can learn to match it, and you must be clean. If the knowledge is not worthy, then study hard and read more.

There's nothing you don't deserve, it's just that you don't work hard yourself. You can say he doesn't like you, but you can't say you don't deserve him.

The process of growing up is painful, and having such a goal in youth is happy, and I hope you can continue to work hard and strive to improve your strength.

Men are about temperament, not about appearance. Don't be too inferior, you have a lot of strengths. As long as the other person also really likes you, it is very suitable to be together.

This mentality is the mentality of inferiority. might as well let go of your net worth and be with him.

Low self-esteem is the root of failure. Even if you feel so, don't feel inferior and be confident. Girls don't like low self-esteem.

There are two options, one is to pursue her now, of course, it is not to say that you have to confess, the method of pursuit is a matter of opinion, and the other is to improve yourself, first find out what the reasons for low self-esteem are, whether this aspect can be improved, such as difficulties in this area, and what aspects can be used to complement each other's strengths.

You don't need to keep your distance, slowly understand her life circle, and hobbies, slowly enter her circle, what hobbies he likes, you just follow it and her hobbies to do it with her, and slowly after the experience of time, I believe it will be successful.

Don't like someone easily, it won't be painful.

A good woman is afraid of pestering. Really impress her, and also become better yourself.

You have to believe in yourself, not because you are not worthy of him, but because you have worked hard.

This proves that you really like that person and feel that you don't deserve it.

Try to make yourself worthy of them

I also didn't think I was worthy of him, and then he said too.

Work hard, and catch up with TA with your own efforts.

You can be friends first and get to know each other.

If you have money and power, you will be worthy of it.

Don't feel inferior and show your courage

How can there be anything worthy of love, don't be too inferior. Otherwise, how can others like you? To be confident, you don't lack anything, why don't you have self-confidence.

Do you want to be an ugly duckling for the rest of your life? It is the best way to work hard to get better on your own, if you don't do this, you may not be together for the rest of your life, or if you are together, you will not be happy because of low self-esteem.

Let go and find someone who is worthy of you. There is no one who is high or low in the relationship, only whether they are willing or not. As for whether you deserve it or not, look at the kind of giants on TV or something, you feel how much worse you are than them.

If you think so, you don't deserve love. I don't really like it, our lives are given by our parents, and without our parents we still have nothing.

I feel that ta** is not worthy of himself, whether it is economy or appearance, since he actually despises him in his heart, how can he really like it.

？？？What is worthy and what is not??? Like is like, there is no difference.

I don't understand what it means to be worthy or unworthy, is it knowledge, is it looks and wealth? You've said you're not worthy, so what else is there to say?

Like someone who doesn't deserve you, huh, are you sure you do?

If you don't like it, pull it down! If you like it, you won't be able to say that you are not worthy of you.

It's a bit straightforward!

If you like it, there's nothing you don't deserve.

There is no distinction between high and low love.

Elevate yourself Pull yourself up not high enough, and would rather beat a single.

Then you can go on it a little longer, get tired of it, and just get rid of it.

Since you are so noble, please don't like others. Go like it and be worthy of you.

That liking fades over time and eventually disappears.

Explain a lot of things? It depends on the situation.

Jia Yucun went to Yanzheng Lin Ruhai to teach Lin Daiyu to read. Lin Ruhai's mother-in-law, Jia's mother-in-law, lost her mother because of Daiyu and wanted to take Daiyu to her side. Daiyu entered the Rongguo Mansion, in addition to her grandmother, she also met her eldest aunt, that is, Mrs. Xing, Jia Yu's wife, her second aunt, Mrs. Wang, Jia Zheng's wife, Wang Xifeng, the niece of Mrs. Wang, who was young and managed the housekeeping, and Wang Xifeng, the wife of Jia Lian's son Jia Lian, and Jia Yingchun, Jia Tanchun, Jia Xichun and Jia Baoyu, who was born to Yuyu.

Bao Dai and the two had a sense of déjà vu when they first met, and Baoyu thought that Jade didn't know anyone because she saw that her cousin didn't have jade, so she smashed her psychic treasure jade, causing an unhappiness. When Jia Yucun tried the case in Yingtianfu, he found that Yinglian had been abducted and trafficked. Xue Pan and his mother and sister Xue Baochai went to live in Kyoto's Rongguo Mansion.

The plum blossoms in Ningguo Mansion are in full bloom, and Jia Zhen's wife You Shi invites Jia's mother and others to enjoy it.

Since you say that you are not worthy, what else do you say.

If you like him, don't think he's not worthy of you, everyone is equal, and when you think he's not worthy of you, people may look down on you.

Then work hard to make yourself good and become able to match her.

You can try to be good and then be with her.

Sunshine version of the countermeasure: Make yourself as good as her.

Dark version of the countermeasure: Pull her down to the same level as you.

Try to be as good as she is.

Then make yourself busy and try to make yourself better.

Sometimes I also feel this way, I always feel that I am not worthy of others, I feel that others are the kind of people who do not eat the fireworks of the world, in fact, some people just look glamorous on the surface, but in fact they are more ordinary than ourselves, so we must be confident and strive to strengthen our own strength, whether it is economic strength or skills.

In the relationship, if you always feel that you are not worthy of the other party, you actually do not agree with yourself.

Many people have been reconciling with themselves all their lives, in fact, the best way to reconcile with themselves is to become a better person.

When you work hard to improve yourself, not only will better opportunities arise, but the lost self-confidence will slowly return.

With true self-confidence from the heart, you will have enough confidence to believe that you are worthy of love.

And the questions of whether or not they were worthy of the time have become indifferent.

is like Jiang Xiaobei, a Shanghai girl in "City in Love", Jiang Xiaobei fell in love with a boy when he was in school, but he was always worried that he was not worthy of the other party and did not dare to confess to that boy.

She didn't like to cook, but she trained herself to be a chef for that boy. Later, he opened a restaurant and ran it plainly.

Jiang Xiaobei's restaurant was only a few hundred meters away from the boy's company, but Jiang Xiaobei never had the courage to go to the boy.

She just kept this love in her heart and didn't say it or show it.

During the time that Yan Yan was waiting, Jiang Xiaobei devoted herself to cooking, and her dishes got better and better, gaining the love of many people, and she also appeared on a TV show. And her self-confidence is slowly coming back.

One day, Jiang Xiaobei suddenly discovered that it didn't matter whether the boy liked her or not.

Because she found her own value and believed that she was worthy of love, why should she think so much alone?

Second, after improving yourself, your excellence is more worthy of love.

Every time I stand in a different moment and look back at my past self, I will have a different experience.

When you improve yourself and succeed, you become a better person, and you deserve to be loved more than you have ever been.

is like Guan Juer in "Ode to Joy", she is a quiet and gentle girl from other places, and after graduating from college, she came to Shanghai to work hard.

When she first arrived, she was careful in her work, and she was not brave even when she met someone she liked.

She met Zhao Qiping, a young doctor of literature and art, in a bookstore, and fell in love with him at first sight. But Guan Juer only dared to look at each other from a distance, and never dared to approach.

At that time, Guan Juer was still too timid, and he was not confident enough in himself, even if he met love, he could only let it fade.

Later, she improved her work and learned to dress up in appearance, becoming a beautiful young urban girl.

Guan Juer, who became better and more beautiful, later met his own love.

In fact, feelings are like this, when you have excellent abilities, you will no longer be afraid of being worthy or unworthy. Because the people who love you will appear slowly, you just need to be yourself.

So, instead of worrying about it, it's better to work hard and become someone worthy of love.

Feeling that no one will like to fight for themselves and think that they are not worthy of others is actually a manifestation of inferiority complex. This is mainly due to not learning to accept and appreciate oneself, and always comparing one's own shortcomings with the strengths of others.

I feel that no one will like me and think that I am not worthy of others, I will feel that this kind of dusty mentality is mainly because of low self-esteem, which leads to talking about brotherhood, and I personally think that this mentality must be changed.

I feel that no one will like you and think that you are not worthy of others, the main reason is that you have an inferiority complex, and you think that others are too good than yourself.

Super unconfident, I think to be a person to have a type of self-confidence, at the same time to see their own strengths, and in the process of continuous development, constantly change their own faults, balance and destroy, make yourself stronger.

I think that no one will like you and think that you are not worthy of others, and the main reason for the disadvantage is that you have an inferiority complex, and you think that others are too strong than yourself, so you think that you are inferior to others!