What do you think is getting harder and harder for rural female teachers to get married?

As the old saying goes, there are leftover men and no leftover women, and now there are a lot of leftover women, and there are many leftover men, all of whom have their own conditions, there are many only children in Beijing, some girls, some are looking for outsiders, big bosses who open companies, and foreigners, so the young men in Beijing are not so easy to find, you can also find the suburbs before, and now the conditions of girls in the suburbs are also quite high. Young people are assigned jobs, so their conditions are also high, Beijing guys, don't want to find outsiders, because foreign girls want too much dowry, in fact, 100,000 200,000 families can get out, just don't want to get used to their problems, this is a young man, personally told me, Beijing people look for Beijing people, to have less dowry, engagement 11100, is one in a million, when married, the man to the woman, 999 is the long time, the man to the girl also to marry how much, because Beijing has more only children,: Parents have jobs, good conditions, some of the marriage also give the house to the car, but there are also leftover daughters, I know a few fat girls are not easy to find, a few years ago, my son colleague, want to tell my son, he - a cousin, fat family has seven sets of buildings only child, his father saw my son is also very satisfied, but my son thinks she is fat, colleagues have done him work for several days, no success, Beijing, the young man is also picky.

With more and more single boys in rural areas, and fewer girls, according to statistical analysis, China will have 30 million more men than women by 2020, that is, there will be 30 million men in China who have no women to marry. Some of the rural girls marry into the cities, while others marry into neighboring families with better conditions. Over the years, the bride price has risen.

Boys who don't have money and haven't built a good house, it's really difficult to find a wife, you see that many rural areas seem to have built a lot of villas, buildings, in fact, most people are prepared for getting married and marrying a wife, have a house, and have to have a car, so that the wife is relatively speaking, with a business card, the situation will be better.

If it is difficult for a girl to marry, it will be difficult for a boy to marry. This ratio of yin and yang harmony is inherently very relative. Once a woman can't get married, another man will correspondingly reduce the chance of marrying a wife.

Unless it is still the era of three wives and four concubines, it is likely that it will be more difficult for boys to find a partner than for girls. Of course, individual successful men, and at the same time secretly have several women, still exist in this society. It's just that this is not going on for a long time, and at a certain period of time, girls will also bleach themselves and look for a boy to marry and have children.

It's just that the one who took over was more wronged!

In fact, it is also traditional to ask for gifts for daughters-in-law in rural areas, and it is not good to talk about this custom. If you want gift money, you have to look at the family conditions to decide, don't make it too burdensome and can't bear it. This matter is also complicated, people come in many forms, if there is confiscation of gift money, some people feel that they don't spend money anyway, and they think it's not that important.

There are also a small number of people who feel that if they give birth to a daughter, they will not lose money if they want to raise their daughter. Others feel that they have face when they feel how much money their daughter has received. Another is to accept gift money to see if the man's family has money, in fact, most parents will not ask for this gift money.

I have a few real things to say: my nephew got married, it was 5 or 6 years earlier, and he gave his father-in-law 80,000, 50,000 cash, 30,000 deposits, and the storage and tearing did not know that the password could not be withdrawn and returned, and the 50,000 cash was not returned, and myself, when my son first fell in love, he gave 12,000 to her father, and then my son partnered with someone to open a factory for more than 2 years without making money, and now he is running his own factory to play capital turnover, and the business has not been so good in recent years, so there is no money for his daughter-in-law's family. The grandson is more than 4 years old, and the son is not married yet, so he asked his father to take the household registration book and say that he would get the marriage certificate first, and he would definitely give him the money when the economy improved, but it was useless, and the marriage certificate was not done, and the grandson was still a black household.

It is said that there are a lot of leftover men and women now, and most of the girls are actively asking for "leftovers", but boys are different, many of them are passively "leftover", in other words, they are eliminated. Girls who are difficult to marry, in fact, are not unable to find a marriage partner, most of them are too picky, their eyes are above the top, and they are dazzled in the boys' pile, but they don't find their favorite object along the way, so they simply look for it slowly. It's hard to marry a boy, but it's really hard to marry, not to mention the bride price, not to mention that you must have a house and a car, even if you meet the above conditions, other girls may not be able to look at you, don't ask me how I know, personal experience, it's all tears.

If both men and women relax the conditions, I think it will be easy for girls to get married. Now men and women can't find a suitable partner, mostly because they are too picky. However, if a girl doesn't pick a boy, she will definitely marry out quickly, because there must be someone who doesn't feel like she has a wife.

However, if a boy accepts a girl without any conditions, he may not be able to find a partner, because girls will have requirements for marriage. So, from this point of view, it is relatively difficult for boys to choose.

From a social point of view, girls generally choose boys with better conditions than themselves, while boys are reluctant to find girls who are stronger than themselves. In this way, those who can't find a suitable partner are excellent girls, and boys with poor conditions. In addition, those diamond men with superior conditions will also be very picky and not very easy to find a partner.

Therefore, it is relatively difficult to take a boy.

The criteria for the vast majority of men to choose a mate have always been: younger age than themselves and lower education than themselves. Because the high education of girls will cause great pressure on boys!

The higher a woman's education, the higher her vision will be, and she will prefer to find someone with a higher education than herself. The more educated a woman is, the higher her IQ, which can put a lot of stress on the boys.

I will. Although the salary of rural teachers is relatively low, they also have a lot of room for promotion, if his teaching quality is very good, it is very likely that he will teach in the city in the future, and his salary will follow.

The profession of a teacher is very stable. Although the teaching profession has become more and more rigorous in recent years, the teaching profession is still relatively stable compared to other jobs. Although the basic salary of rural teachers is lower than that in the city, the basic social security and retirement benefits are similar.

With this kind of person, there is no need to think about life after old age, because the state will pay him a relatively high pension, which can make their husband and wife live a little happier than others.

The future development is good. Nowadays, many teachers adopt the rotation system, if he is more prominent in teaching in rural areas, he will soon be appreciated by the above, and it is very likely that he will be transferred to a key middle school to work, so that his salary will be much higher, and his income will be many times higher than now after he becomes famous in the local area. When choosing another partner for my child, I don't think about his current job, I only look at his future development.

Everyone has the time to try and make mistakes when they're young, so I wouldn't be against them because of the rural teachers when he was with my daughter. The people who are teachers prove that their cultural level is still relatively high, and these people have more patience and love than others, and he will be more tolerant of my daughter in the future, and with such a teacher, my daughter's future life will be happier, so I will not oppose them, and the two of them will support them together.

It's good if my daughter likes it. Everyone has the right to choose their other half, and if my child likes him very much, I will respect her no matter what profession he is. Although we raised our children from childhood, we must respect their opinions when they grow up, after all, life is their own, we will never be the master of their lives, we are just the companions of their lives.

I don't think so, because the salary of a rural teacher is really low, and life is hard, so I won't marry my daughter to him.

I will let my daughter marry a village teacher, provided that the two of them truly love each other, and if it is good for my daughter, everything is not a problem. After all, marital happiness is something that money can't buy.

If it were me, I would not let my daughter marry a poor man, because marrying in the past would cause a lot of sin, and there is no parent who does not feel sorry for their children. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

In the countryside around the county, this line of work is not a good job, although the salary level is not very high, mainly stable and close to home.

If it's not your own and you hate her, let her be married!

The most important thing in our life is to be able to find a good other half, men hope to marry a gentle and virtuous daughter-in-law, and women hope that they can marry a good husband who is responsible. Of course, everyone will have certain criteria for choosing a mate in their hearts, and for girls, generally speaking, it is easy to marry if their profession is a teacher. There are several main reasons for this.

One: In the eyes of others, the job of a teacher is good. Two:

The teachers are more patient and gentle. Three: You can also teach children in the future.

In short, the impression of teachers is very good, and when you find a target in the future, when you hear that you are a teacher, you will have a lot of good feelings, a typical image of a good girl, so it is still very good to find a job as a teacher.

A girl who is a teacher knows how to teach her husband and children, at least she can educate her children well. In the process of children's education, there will be no major problems.

Because of stable income, good welfare benefits, respected, high social status, good career prospects, and also helpful for the education of children in the future,

Because for the older generation, teaching is a very noble profession, and the salary is stable, and there are benefits.

Because teachers have a lot of holidays, and the group they face is students, with the experience of getting along with students, they will also have a lot of good parenting experience in the face of their own children.

When a girl becomes a teacher, the first thing she feels is very educated, quality and cultivated, so such a girl is particularly sought-after and can easily get married.