What if the child is unwilling to study even if he suffers?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-29
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In any case, at least let the child graduate from high school, it is not a good thing to let him go to the society to experience before this age, and if he has a small achievement in the future, learning a little more knowledge now can also make him less detours.

    Each child's area of expertise is different, if you really don't want to study, don't force him, analyze the relationship with it, and let him make his own choice.

    Before the child is a minor, he cannot be allowed to mix in society, it is best to find a vocational school to send him, or the parents themselves to take him to educate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It depends on the level of study, if it is junior high school, try to persuade or force the child to continue studying, after all, in the current society, academic qualifications are really important. If the child really doesn't want to, let him be. As long as you have a good time, three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion.

    If you graduate from high school and don't want to study, just relax a little and let the child have the right to choose, after all, he is also a little adult. You can't just force your own ideas on them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Every child has different interests, some people just like to read and study, go to school, his life may be, through the study of the university, and finally have a stable job, this is very good, many parents also want their children to have such a life, but some children, he is very smart, but not good at learning, then don't force him anymore, develop his strengths, and it is also possible to shine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People have their own ambitions, some people are not interested in reading, then let him figure it out by himself, reading is not the only way out, and his own life needs to be grasped by himself, we can only give him advice, it is a good thing to be able to endure hardships, as long as you can endure hardships, you will not worry about not being able to do things in the future, do not force your child, otherwise you will only get the opposite effect.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'd rather be bitter than study, which means that reading is not suitable for her, she doesn't like reading at all, I think going out to work may be hard but there is nothing bad, he can also experience that life is not easy, life is not only a way out of reading, parents have to change the traditional thinking.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I belong to the kind of child who would rather endure hardship than study, probably by nature, not the material for reading.

    After junior high school, I dropped out of school, didn't go to school, and then studied cosmetology, studied for nearly a year, and then went to a beauty salon to be a beautician, slowly I accumulated some experience, and later had some savings and opened my own beauty salon, just like that, I would rather work hard than study, although there is no big ability, but there is still a small achievement.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My brother is such a person, after graduating from junior high school, he didn't want to study, and then he went out to work hard, and he suffered a lot in the middle, but now he is the director of a factory, and he has matured a lot, and now he will read and write extracurricular books to enrich himself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Introduction: Many people are doing very hard work due to their low educational qualifications, and they are very tired all their lives, so after having children, they are very hopeful that their children can study more and live a happier life.

    Many parents will always encounter all kinds of difficulties and problems when educating their children, after all, no child can be perfect, no parent will be perfect, so when educating children, we must master the step-by-step way, first of all, let children see their own efforts, so that children can better understand their own painstaking efforts, if you want to educate a perfect child, first of all, you must lead by example, after all, people always say that children are the shadow of their parents, only they work harder, Only by being more motivated can children work harder and excel in their studies.

    Many parents are very busy in daily life, especially some parents who are engaged in manual labor, after finishing work, the body is very tired, and can not spare enough time to accompany their children or tutor their children to learn, if they maintain such a state for a long time, then it will lead to a lack of in-depth communication between children and parents, if parents educate their children and children always do not listen, then at this time it means that there is a lack of communication between children and parents. This requires parents to have more in-depth communication with their children, and to grasp and be familiar with their children's psychological thoughts.

    Many parents always encounter a variety of problems when educating their children, which makes parents very distressed, how to educate children well, has become the topic of most concern to parents, in fact, sometimes parents always complain that their children are disobedient, and do not consider whether there is a problem with their own education methods, if how to teach children children do not listen, then parents can consider another way of education to educate their children.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Parents should communicate with their children, cultivate their children's good character, and don't put too much pressure on their children, so that their children will grow up better and create a good learning environment for their children.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, it is necessary to know it with affection, move it with reason, chat with the child, and tell the child with personal experience that learning is the only way out.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can talk more about your life experience with your child, let your child know what consequences he will face if he does not study, and tell him more stories about how reading changes his fate.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parents should let their children know what the consequences of not reading are, and parents can also take their children to experience some more tiring jobs in society, so that children know that they will do these jobs without education and education, so that children will like to read.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Parents must take their children to the construction site to have a look, or take their children to the vegetable market in the early morning to have a look, so that the children understand that if they don't suffer from learning now, they will have to suffer from life in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the child is not willing to study, he should tell the child the importance of reading, and he should tell the child that if he wants to find a good job now, he must have a high degree of education.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At this time, you can let your child go to a vocational high school, because vocational high school can learn technology, and if you think it is good, you will have good development prospects.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    <> don't want to study. 1. Be calm and ask the child why he doesn't like to read, and be sure to listen to him patiently.

    2. Then analyze them one by one as a parent and say the pros and cons.

    3. Recommend some useful books for children.

    4. Explain the importance of reading.

    5. Give your child time to calm down.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell your child to go to work immediately if they don't go to school. Don't let him stay home for a day. Don't let him be idle. He himself felt tired from going to work. I regretted it.

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