What are the reasons why teenagers are afraid of hardship and tiredness?

The reason why young people are afraid of hardship and tiredness is the *** brought about by modern civilization.

Today's young people live in an era of economic development and material abundance, and it is very easy for them to be satisfied, and they do not know how to be blessed in the midst of happiness, and they are prone to develop a life style of greedy for enjoyment and indulgence in leisure and hard work.

The young generation has grown up with a little emperor, a little bully at home.

Self-centered, everyone is for me, and if I am not satisfied, I will cry and make a fuss. I don't know the hardships of life at all.

According to a survey by the China Research Center on Aging, more than 65% of families in China have the phenomenon of old and young, and about 30% of adults are supported by the elderly. Parents' blind love for their children is one of the symptoms; The selfishness of parasites is the second crunch. (Chinese Academy of Social Sciences.)

Social survey data of 14 provinces and municipalities of the Institute of Social Sciences. It turned out to be aimed at the dependence of the elderly on their children in China, and it was found that China ranked among the top two in the world, because of the traditional Chinese concept of pension, and agreed to enter a nursing home.

The only one for the elderly. **The title of the report is: The old and the young are unfair. ）

This kind of open-ended question has a wide scope.

The problem of teenagers being afraid of hardship and tiredness is not comprehensive, but also somewhat absolute. No matter what era it is, there are pampered and hard-working. If there is a reason why some teenagers are afraid of hardship and tiredness, I can think of it:

First, it is related to the growth environment, and the only child and the doting of the family account for a large factor. Second, the modern way of life (such as walking to work has become a luxury, and many jobs are done indoors) have also made people who do not like sports lazy. Third, families with good conditions will be very comfortable in their future life if they do not work hard, which also makes people's awareness of distress lower.

Society is like this, people have such inertia, people in the past you must think that they are very hard-working, because that is to eat a full stomach in order to survive, now this society, as long as you have hands and feet, IQ is not limited, the key is that the disabled can live a good life in this society, and now young people are not afraid of hardship and tiredness, very few. The key is that a large part of them no longer worry about eating, just about how to eat, so what do you need to do so hard and tired?? Think about it!

When you're not working to feed yourself, do you work so hard? So hard work? If you don't fight back, you can't scold back???

Because they have seen too many examples of reaping benefits, fame, power, and so on without suffering or tiredness.

The psychosocial problems faced by adolescents and their causes are as follows:

One. Internet addiction comes back. This social problem rows.

The first answer is because too many teenagers suffer from psychological problems because of this.

Parents have no choice but to confiscate their mobile phones and ask for counseling. For teenagers, the reason is a lack of self-control, often confused by games, and unable to extricate themselves.

Two. Social phobia. This aspect of psychological problems is also very important, if there are psychological problems in this area, you should also look at the Central Europe International Psychological Counseling, time.

A long time is not good for future growth. Socialization is very important for a person, and the general reason is low self-esteem.

Three. Weariness. If a child does not want to go to school at school, it is also a headache for parents because they are bullied by their classmates.

Or feel the pressure of school exams and lead to boredom.

Four. Depression. Depression can also affect grades, resulting in a negative situation of not wanting to study.

All of the above are psychosocial problems that need to be corrected in time for adolescents.

Nowadays, many teenagers are only children, and they are usually loved in every way at home, and once they have an unpleasant relationship with their old professional classmates.

It is a rub, often unwilling to take the initiative to admit mistakes, lacking tolerance and understanding. When there is a problem with academic performance or daily performance, they are often in a state of confusion and confusion, and their psychology is very fragile, and at this time, if excessive pressure from teachers and parents, teenagers will have a sense of avoidance and resistance, so they are bored with learning and adopt a way of avoidance.

Teenagers should strive to improve their ability to resist setbacks in their study and life. If you try to solve the difficult problems and mistakes in your studies and exams, you will make progress, while avoiding them will only add up to the shortcomings. True happiness is a flower that needs difficulties as a foil.

When we encounter difficulties, seeking help from others is not a reduction in our ability, but a kind of sublimation. Don't be afraid of rejection, the right way to ask for help is the strength of our life. In the study and life of coping with difficulties and hardships together, we will go hand in hand and pass the hurdles to have the glory of climbing the peak.

At the same time, parents and teachers should pay more attention to the mental health of teenagers, encourage and support them, face up to difficulties, and try to avoid teenagers' psychological evasion.

Failure of social education, causing stress, interpersonal relationships, and forming anxiety and all kinds of stress.

It's different from other people's opinions, and then there's no suitable person to talk to.

There is a generation gap, and I always like to do my own thing, and I don't like to be controlled.

Hello, teenagers are in a transition period without being trapped, emotional instability is possible, and there will be more problems in general, such as rebellion, school weariness, lying, fighting, or obsession with the Internet and other bad behaviors are possible. Parents, schools and society need to carry out effective management to help the healthy growth of Zheng teenagers.

(1) Misunderstandings in family education have fuelled juvenile delinquency. Family is the first school of life, parents are the first teachers of life, and family education has a very important impact on everyone's life. This impact can be both positive and negative.

(ii) Improper schooling has become a breeding ground for juvenile delinquency. School is a place for formal education for young people, and the biggest feature of school education lies in its purposeful and planned nature, and school education has given full play to its due function because of some problems of its own.

3) The pollution of the social environment makes it impossible for young people to distinguish between right and wrong. With the further deepening of reform and opening up, the garbage and ugly phenomena of Western society have taken advantage of the void to enter, the ideas of money worship and hedonism have spread in society, and books and periodicals and audio-visual products that exaggerate pornography, pornography, and violence have flooded the cultural market, and social ugly phenomena such as pornography, gambling, drugs, and feudal superstition have been repeatedly banned. All these have seriously infringed on the physical health of young people, and have caused some young people who are not deeply involved in the world and have weak wills to become corrupt and degenerate, and even embark on the road of crime.

4) Poor self-quality and cognitive ability are another important cause of juvenile delinquency. According to the division of psychology, ten.

The ages of one, two to fourteen are adolescence, ten.

Four or five years old to ten.

The age of seven or eight is the period of youth, which is equivalent to the upper grades of elementary school to high school; Ten.

One, two to ten.

The age of seven or eight is the period of transition from childhood to adulthood, that is, the period of mature transition without full maturity. In this period of rapid changes in physical and psychological development, although they develop rapidly physiologically and psychologically, they are still immature, in a state of semi-naïve and semi-mature, half-child and half-adult, full of independence and dependence, and the intricate contradictions of maturity and childishness.

1. Physical factors. The main characteristics of an optimistic personality are sociability, cheerfulness, a wide range of interests, hyperactivity, excitability and optimism, and at the same time it is easy to become indecisive. People with mesodermal bones, muscles, and rich connective tissue are more likely to suffer than ectodermal people with a slender and fragile physique.

Second, there is great pressure from the outside world. The period of adolescence is the stage of rapid physical and psychological development, and the body and mind are still immature, and the ability to withstand setbacks is still weak. If the pressure in life is too great, it will make the teenager's mind fragile, easy to be hit by problems, reduce the ability to adapt to social life, and create a possible psychological environment for mania**.

3. Genetic factors. Based on the study of the prevalence of first-degree relatives, the homopathogenesis of twins, and the homopathogenesis of monozygotic twins, it is speculated that manic-depressive psychosis may be inherited from the X chromosome to the next generation based on the available data, or it may be inherited through other routes.

Manic episodes are complex, and in general, the causes are not well understood. Therefore, the current level of medicine can only be symptomatic, and cannot reach the treatment of the cause; There are various forms of manic episodes, and patients may have long intermittent periods of normal performance, not receiving treatment from **; In fact, we have many daily diseases, such as hypertension and diabetes, which are symptomatic and not curative. Don't panic because the disease can't be eradicated; For chronic diseases, it is understandable to seek treatment, but do not go to the doctor for illness and terminate the regular**.

Low self-esteem is an unhealthy psychological state, which can make people lose self-confidence, unable to exert their true strength in thinking and acting, always feeling inferior to others, incompetent, and so on. And there are not a few teenagers with low self-esteem, which is very detrimental to their healthy growth. So what are the reasons for their inferiority complex?

A comprehensive analysis will be made by the experts.

Social aspects. For a long time, there has been a tendency in society to believe that the only way out for primary and secondary school students is to enter key middle schools and universities, and only when they are admitted to key middle schools can they have the opportunity to enter key universities, and this is the talent. This has brought a lot of pressure to primary and secondary school students.

On the school side. Although the state advocates quality education, there is a lack of an effective evaluation mechanism, so the society and parents still measure the quality of school teaching by the "promotion rate". This will inevitably lead to a heavy burden of coursework and monotonous educational methods and methods, which will cause students to bear an excessive psychological load.

Household aspect. First, parents blindly compare, do not start from the actual situation of students, and do whatever it takes to go on to higher education. For example, hiring tutors, attending cram schools, etc., can improve students' grades.

The second is that parents have too high expectations and make extreme behaviors, such as reprimanding or even beating and scolding if they do not do well in the exam, and lack of care. It invisibly increases the psychological pressure of students.

Picky eating, eating junk food!

Too homely, don't like sports!

Addicted to the Internet....

The combination of education in school and the correct guidance of parents is a way for children to understand the importance of healthy growth.

Junk food, lack of exercise, pampering.

When I felt scared, I thought in my heart: "I am a man, and I must have the responsibility and responsibility of a man!" ”

Hehe, eat whatever you want, drink whatever you want, and then do whatever you want...