Why do you think the love of two people has become dull after being together for a long time?

After the vigorous love between the two, the years of love like glue knees, and were broken by the days of firewood, rice, oil, salt and tea all day long, every day in the face of these trivial trivial entanglements, day by day, the hot feelings returned to the flat, fell to the trough, and slowly changed in the thoughts, compared, compared, and other signs appeared, but could not do anything out of line, and silently took the feelings to return to the daily tasteless dull life.

Whether the relationship is deeper or will tend to be dull is related to the character of the two people, the person with a gentle and affectionate and interesting personality, and the part that makes him like and recognize little by little in getting along, the deeper the relationship will be. Otherwise, it will be bland.

Maybe you have been in love, impulsive, have unforgettable memories, and have crazy memories, but when the two are really together, life will tend to be calm, don't see this calm as the indifference of your love.

When both parties have adapted to both parties, life tends to be dull because they already know each other well, both strengths and weaknesses.

The normal rhythm of progress, understanding each other is so dull!

That's because you didn't love to the bottom of my heart, I had a relationship, the more I felt deeply, I wanted to never be separated from my wife every day, but I still left, and the relationship is the investment of both parties.

I have heard people say that there are three stages of a relationship, one is the hot love period, the second is the run-in collision period, and the third is the flat period. I think this tends to be flat is the highest point of feelings!

Life is inherently bland, and "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea" is the real life. We can't live in a bang all the time.

Plain is true. Go out to eat and watch movies every day, go shopping, buy clothes, send flowers, send chocolates, can you afford it?

Life is very dull. Love someone! To understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is acceptance, not endurance; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other person, not to ask for many things from the other person; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; You can hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually...

Feelings need to be managed, not with love, everything will go naturally, let it fend for itself, it is up to two people to work together to maintain this emotion, on special holidays, send some small gifts, occasionally send an ambiguous message, hit a **, create some small surprises, when you have time, go out to play, even if you are separated for a few days, it will increase each other's miss, as long as you spend a little care, love can really always be in love, so sweet, fresh.

If two people feel too dull together, then you should increase the frequency of dating, and try to go to places that couples often go to, and the relationship will gradually become hot.

Didn't either of you go to dinner together? The urge to go to the movies together? How could it be like this?

What about a couple who have been married for a long time? If you really love him, you should find a way to mediate the atmosphere. You should often go shopping, eating, watching movies, and visiting the park together!

It's still a man, if you're a woman, it's best to coax a man at the right time, and the effect will be very good.

When there is affection between two people, the most touching things are often those actions and words that express sincerity and filial piety. Below I will illustrate these actions and words with some examples.

The first thing that touches people is to support each other's dreams and careers. A relationship is stronger when the partner understands and actively supports the partner's career, dreams, and goals, especially when the other person supports them in difficult times. On the other hand, it can also feel especially warm and touching when a partner is able to consider and give for each other outside of their own careers, dreams, and goals.

The second thing that touches people is to pay attention to and care for the needs and feelings of the other person. When a person pays attention to the other person's preferences, needs, and feelings in their daily life, and acts accordingly to the other person's needs, this can reflect deep affection and care, and will make people feel close to the heart. For example, when your partner is feeling down or tired, gently soothe and encourage him to feel that you are his supporter and partner at all times.

The third thing that touches me is to support and rely on me in difficult times. When two people go through difficulties and setbacks together, if they can support and comfort each other, and rely on each other, then this experience often brings them a deeper understanding and affection for each other. Such an experience will also make people cherish each other more and better protect and cherish this special relationship.

To sum up, a truly affectionate and warm relationship is based on understanding each other, supporting each other, caring for each other, and working together through the ups and downs. The actions and words of the above three directions will be the most touching moments between people and their partners.