Leaving because you love someone The pain has never been able to shake off

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    True love is inseparable from it, and those who choose to give up are the weak in life. Maybe she can give up on you, and instead of giving up, you will choose someone who really knows how to love and bear your love. This is true love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love doesn't have to be obtained. Perhaps giving up is also an option, but giving up does not mean that there is no future, and it may be possible to continue to give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm like you too, and now I'm basically okay with it! And now I want to bless him and another girl, sometimes giving up is also a kind of beauty, and now all my colleagues say that I have reached the highest level! I was also thinking that as long as he was happy, nothing mattered.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That is true! But why leave? Is it because the separation of the heavens today is for the distance of the future?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love, love, love, how can it make people so heartbroken, sad, what is love, love Because I also thought about giving up, but because of love, I can't do without him. Love

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes! Maybe that's how life is!

    There are joys and pains, and everything has its two sides!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I know, I'm the same, indescribable feeling!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I get it.

    When you are at peace with your love.

    That's numbness.

    The breakup is also so calm.

    LoveIt's going to be numb drops!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although giving up is beautiful, how many people can bear the pain behind beauty?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sometimes giving up is also a beauty.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe time can freeze memory

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, I feel sad that someone is leaving.

    First of all, this person will have a certain relationship with you, even if you just met a colleague, worked together for a few days, and suddenly left your job you will have a trace of sadness and sadness, people are emotional animals, no one will have no feelings, a thing, a person, a love, completely withdrawn from your world, it will really not be sad and will not be sad, then this person is really hard-hearted, but sometimes I really envy this kind of person.

    Often people will hope that they have this skill when they fall out of love, this person leaves, their feelings will come to an abrupt end, and they will not be sad because of this person's departure, but we use too many feelings in the face of this world, and pay a lot of sincerity, even if it is a small dog, you have raised it for a long time, and suddenly one day the dog is lost, I believe you will also be sad and sad, not to mention a living person, this is a normal phenomenon.

    Therefore, we must cherish everyone around us even more, because if this person leaves, you can say with a clear conscience that I am worthy and worthy of my own heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes... Here I would like to talk about the most important person in my life, my grandmother. <>

    When I was a child, there were more sisters in my family. There are two girls and a boy, and my parents care more about my younger brother in life, because my younger brother is the youngest and the only boy in the family. So my parents usually care less about me and my sister, and when they have personal conflicts, quarrels and fights, they all say that my sister and me, no matter who is right or wrong.

    When we were children, the family conditions were not good, and my parents were busy with farm work and going out to earn money. From the time I was very young until my grandmother passed away, I always slept in the same bed with my grandmother, and sometimes I was disobedient and was reprimanded by my parents and refused to eat, and my grandmother would say to me: "Your mother won't let you eat, so you won't eat?"

    Why are you so stupid or something, when I was a child, I was stubborn, and I didn't dare to disobey my parents. It's always far away to come home from school, just shouting grandma on the road, grandma... When we get home, if my grandmother is not at home, we can immediately think of which garden she is working in, and then put down our schoolbag and go straight to the garden.

    When I was younger, I loved the winter and rainy days at home, because there was nothing to do in the winter and rainy days, and I stayed with my grandmother all day long, listening to her talk and listening to her talk about the past.

    My grandmother passed away in the winter of the year I graduated from junior high school, and I think about the old days. I felt very uncomfortable, and I couldn't help but burst into tears. Because in this world, my grandmother is the best person for me, her life is very hard, she has never enjoyed any good food, and she left when I was able to give her something.

    It's the most regrettable thing in my life. I'm 25 years old now, and ten years after my grandmother died, I often think about her late at night. I think she must be well in another place that I can't see, and I will never stop thinking about her for the rest of my life, and I will love and miss her as deeply as if she had never left.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, it was originally with me, inseparable partners, but left, it will be really heartbreaking and uncomfortable. I want to keep it but can't keep it, and my heart is mixed.

    Being together is our fate, being friends is our blessing, but leaving is a last resort, hurt is the consequence of our departure, and sadness is our natural emotion.

    Her departure is not used to it, and there is no partner to communicate with her heart, no mentor who soothes the soul, and no friend who accompanies her, her departure has left a part of my heart, set off waves in my heart, and aroused my sad heartstrings. It hurts my heart.

    She left, but the happiness she brought me will not be taken away, and she also left a scene that made me sad, she did not come back, leaving me alone to continue to live here, after all, my heart was empty, my heart was heavy, after leaving, the person left, the tea was cold, my heart was tired, and sadness and sadness came to my heart.

    Although she may still come back to meet, but there are few opportunities, looking forward to meeting every day, some people say that they are too dependent on her, but I don't know, my heart is deeply reluctant to her, she no longer gets along with me day and night, although I am happy for her to go out to study and go out for further study, but I am reluctant to cover my happiness, to hold back my sadness to send her away, which is very unbearable to cry. I would be very sad to leave me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Definitely, because I am a very emotional person, not to mention that I will never leave, even when I graduated from high school, I felt very sad, because I was about to be separated from my friends for a long time, and each ran to his own university, not to mention how sad it was.

    Because a person who has been with you for a long time, maybe your very good friend, or brother or best friend, suddenly leaves, the heart must be very unpleasant, suddenly there is one less person, always feel that something is missing, all kinds of uncomfortable, do everything, or will think of him because of a certain thing, it will be even more sad at that time. Maybe you will think of him unconsciously, remember the time you used to be together, those laughter, those days of making mistakes, you really feel very happy, now that he is not by your side, you will have inexplicable heartache, you will sincerely bless her from the bottom of your heart, I hope she is doing well.

    My college classmate, my good brother, went to be a soldier, in fact, I didn't feel anything at first, I personally went to give it to her, but when I saw that scene, I really, a little bit couldn't hold back the tears in my eyes, but I still forcibly held back. Really hope he's doing well, really.

    In fact, it's really like this, by your side, you don't feel anything, but once you leave, you will be very unaccustomed, you will be inexplicably sad, you don't know why you feel this way? Perhaps, before you know it, his figure has been firmly imprinted in your memory.

    If you miss him, give him a **, although the distance is far away, but the relationship between you will never change, although you are separated now, there will always be a day when you will meet again. By then, you won't be sad anymore, and there will only be a smile on your face.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Man is an emotional animal, we are in this complex world, in this deceitful society, just like a drop of water into the sea, how can we not find our own shadow! People and animals are the same, and they are all attached to the people around them! When the person you like leaves, in addition to sadness and sadness, there is also a long time of injustice!

    When I first started working, I worked as a teacher in a mountain village elementary school, where I spent the happiest nine years of my life! My youth and blood were sprinkled in the school in that small mountain village! There I get up very early every morning, like a diligent little, every day while the morning sun greets our lovely children, after class, play with the children, talk with them, and grow with them!

    In the evening, I will step on the sunset and send them home one by one, and that time is my happiest and happiest day!

    In 2009, I was transferred to an urban elementary school because of my work, and when I left this school with my baggage, my heart burst into tears! Everything here is so beautiful, every mountain, tree, grass and tree, even the little dog at the school gate, has become my good friend!

    I feel very sad in my heart, as if I have a feeling of leaving my hometown! People are like this, only when we part, will we feel the sourness in our hearts! Feel the joy of life!

    That's how I felt when my good friend Li Zhi left this school! It's hard to give up, it's reluctant, and there is some sourness in my heart! Of course, I'll be sad for a while!

    But in the midst of fulfilling work, we will slowly recover, because our friendship lasts forever!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For this question, I combine some of my own thoughts, I first have to see what kind of role this person plays in my life, if he plays a very important role, then he will be sad to leave, if he is just a hurried passerby in life, then I don't think I need to be sad.

    When this person has a very important position in my life, in my life is a person who is very worthy of my cherishment, he has added a certain color in my life, played a certain role, when he leaves, you will feel that the part of your life that belongs to him, in fact, has become blank, has become incomplete, at this time in the bottom of people's hearts, if a part becomes blank and becomes incomplete, this paragraph will never be mentioned by others, he is a more uncomfortable thing for you, no matter what reason to leave, You're going to be sad for both of you. <>

    If this person is a passer-by in life, in fact, we have all heard a sentence, that is, there is no feast in the world, and then there will always be a few people in our lives who come in a hurry and leave in a hurry. In the bottom of our hearts, they leave a few traces, and then they disappear again, like on a train, they come and go, and you can't keep them, and you don't have to keep them.

    In fact, not all the people you meet in your life have to accompany you, and so to speak, it is impossible for everyone to be with you all the time in everyone's life, you always have to learn to grow up, you have to learn to go alone, and you have to be strong. So, when we encounter this situation, we always have to keep our hearts strong, no matter what kind of person leaves, I hope you can quickly ** yourself, let yourself stand up again, and go on well.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

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