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IMHO, I think there's something wrong. First of all, although you are a person who is so weak at heart that you show blood, you are giving others the wrong signal, which makes it more difficult for you to meet the person you like. In real life, most people (especially men) think that women are made of water, and they should be empathetic and gentle like water.
Even if you want to conquer men, it is most effective to overcome rigidity with softness. Being strong and being strong are not the same thing, and self-confidence is not the same as being conceited. Work and hard life are admirable, but in front of men, especially in front of the man you like in your heart, you have to show the gentle side of women, otherwise, men will think that you don't need men's care, feel that you don't get along with you, and don't want to live with a strong or even arrogant woman for a lifetime.
So, if a woman is not soft, who will pursue it?
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Maybe it's not her fault, such women are generally fragile in their hearts, insecure, afraid of being hurt, too protective of themselves, and open their hearts.
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I am a single woman, strong and conceited have always been the evaluation of me by people who know me, I think I did the right thing, and I have always held this mentality, hoping for the appearance of a man who can rely on me, to cherish this fragile heart that has been exposed.
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That's right, at least it's your own bargaining chips. As long as you know how to love yourself and feel happy, what's not bad.
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There are two sides to everything in the world, and as far as I am concerned, it is right. For her husband, she will feel that she is too strong, and it is easier to feel that her position is low and will be looked down upon.
The society generally thinks that it is not good for women to be too strong, in fact, this also has to be combined with the specific situation, if it is strong at work, I think it is necessary, but in life, there is no need to be too aggressive, the roles in life and work should be coordinated and clearly distinguished.
There are some relationships, if you are too independent, you will inevitably be stronger, and it will be much better to control it.
In fact, in the end, I think it's because the men around you don't know you well, I often say that one of my female friends is strong, in fact, I'm just on the surface, in addition, I think women don't always have to be so strong, at some point give men some opportunities to play, hehe, that will make you more "feminine".
Everyone should pursue autonomy and independence, and it is right to insist on it, but sometimes we should not be overly attached to it, and temporary imbalance is also a manifestation of life balance.
I think the relationship between husband and wife is like ballroom dancing, people who understand life know how to cooperate in this way, and not to disrupt the dance steps to make the audience laugh! There is no question of who is afraid of whom, but there is a deviation in the skills of dealing with the problem! To be a man, you must be generous, and to be a woman, you must be kind, so that the family can be harmonious.
The reason why the situation you said is because both sides or one side are either soft or rigid, and they don't know how to balance rigidity and softness. Don't compromise when it's time to be tough, and don't be afraid to be embarrassed when it's time to be soft. The former is a rational word, and the latter is a love word.
Be reasonable, but also be clear about the line. This will make people love and fear, and there will be no such and such family troubles!
There is nothing wrong with love itself, but it is a mistake to choose to hurt You can choose to separate But please don't hurt Oak Yuan, a person who once loved you, That's her life, that's not her fault, How many people can keep themselves pure in that environment, Men are like this, they want their women to be pure enough, and they are indecent.
An independent woman is very uniquely charming. But girls are too independent, they can do everything by themselves, and in the eyes of boys who like you, they will think that he is very useless. As for girls, whether they are strong or independent, they have to show their hearts.
Pay attention to cultivating your own feminine side. A docile and delicate girl is more likely to win the love of a boy. In the process of studying or working, independence is a must, because this is the time to show your abilities.
And in the process of getting along with men and women, appropriate pretense, not so aggressive, in order to have a more harmonious interpersonal relationship, you always don't want others to mention you, just say that you are a tigress.
A person with a cowardly personality may be oppressed like this all his life and dare not speak out, but if it is a man with a bit of character, he will one day be unbearable to break out, and then he will beat you up and then break up and divorce.
Being strong in front of outsiders is not necessarily a bad thing, but when the two of you are together, you should put down the shelf appropriately, and if you are a woman, you should learn to be a bird, so that your life will be better.
It's good that you listen to her on the surface, and you don't have to reason with her.
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