How to learn to behave with others

As the saying goes: half of the treatise rules the world.

So let's see how Confucius dealt with this problem!!

Zigong asked Confucius, can the truth of life cultivation be summed up in one sentence?

Don't talk so much about the truth of living in the world, as long as there is a key point, you can do it according to this goal for the rest of your life.

Confucius uttered one word: forgiveness.

And added an eight-word explanation: Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you!!

Friend: If you can do what you don't want to do and never let others do it, then you will have the knowledge to do things!!

Meditate and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others.

It is a man of lofty ideals who can suffer, and he is not an idiot who is willing to suffer.

Respecting the gentleman is virtuous, and being afraid of the villain is not incompetent.

Take a step back and let the distractions be calm.

If you want to progress, you need to think about regression, and if you start, you need to let go.

If you are proud, you should have more than one step to do things.

Holding ** is precious, and knowing peace and happiness is worth a thousand gold.

It's good to think twice about things, and be angry and forbearance is the highest.

Don't be greedy for windfalls, for those who are content are happy.

If you can do things like this, you will be happy for the rest of your life.

Read more books on this subject, or look up some information on the Internet about how to behave in people, and after learning slowly, you will know how to do it.

This person must be in black and white, get along with gray scale, must grasp this measure, advance and retreat in a certain way, abide by the principle, neither make simple words, nor secretively, know the world but not the world, out of the rivers and lakes and far away from the rivers and lakes.

I suggest you read "The Weakness of Human Nature"; If there are villains around you who can read "Thick Black Learning", it can save you from being calculated by others.

Personally, I think this is a long-term process to learn more from the people around you!!

One of Du Yuesheng's sons also stayed in Shanghai as a liaison officer, often traveling back and forth between Shanghai and Hong Kong to deliver information. Regarding the invitation of the Communist Party, Du Yuesheng said that he could not return to the mainland for the time being due to poor health, but he should act in accordance with the spirit of Pan Hannian's instructions to "serve the people as much as possible."

To be a human being, we must first conform to the laws of nature and the rules of society.

Stipulate. Philosophical poems by Sun Dajun.

The big regulations are small, and the strong regulations are weak.

The universe prescribes star systems, star systems prescribe planetary systems, and planetary systems prescribe planets.

The sun prescribes the earth, the earth prescribes man, man prescribes society, and society prescribes man's behavior.

People's attitudes require everyone's words and deeds, in good times and bad times.

People praise and blame people.

All things in heaven and earth are involuntarily self-conscious, and all things in heaven and earth never intentionally rebel, but people have this and that choice.