Grandpa is eccentric, what should I do, how sarcastic grandpa and grandma are eccentric

The emperor loves the eldest son, and the people love the youngster, this is a very normal phenomenon, there is nothing remarkable; People all have selfish desires and love money, and this cannot be changed;

However, I think that you, as a junior, cannot be a test flight of an elder, especially for your parents, without their union, there would be no you today;

One cannot expect to live by asking for or inheriting property from others, even from elders, but by one's own labor in exchange for one's own tomorrow, regardless of the other elders, it is your grandfather's property, and he has the right to give it to whomever he wants;

To be a man is to live a personal life, to live a life of ambition, why let others like and let others give?

Alas. My grandma and grandpa were the same. If you don't see them, you don't have to give you a good face if they don't give you a good face. Scold your aunt and uncle. No big deal. Bear with me. They will die one day.

Housework is the hardest thing to break! Break up, you can't stop but leave.

Is your uncle's family financially worse off than yours? If so, then you should feel happy, at least your family is in a position to help your loved ones. They are also doing this for you and your parents, so you should also learn to be generous, we are all a family, don't worry too much, if on the other hand, when your grandparents bring things from your uncle's house to your family, then your family's life should not be much better, right??

1. For the partiality of grandparents, say that you don't care, that's fake, you will still care very much, you will be sad, you will be very careful, but these can only say to yourself, this is a family, don't be sad.

2. Eccentricity is a poisonous arrow, a glass of poisonous wine, which makes people vomit blood and depression. Grandparents are so ironic about eccentricity.

That's the way it is in my family, and it's a disservice to my children anyway. My grandfather has my father, my aunt, my aunt three children, my grandmother died very early, the last time the old house was demolished, my grandfather did not mention it to my father, and then my aunt was looking for a house to rent, did not find no way, looking for my father, my father was arranged, and finally when I went to get the money, my grandfather and my father said that they wanted the three brothers and sisters to get the money together, but my aunt's family took the money as soon as they came, and they have been publicizing in the village, saying that my father dislikes less money, in fact, we didn't get a cent, The aunt's husband and aunt came to my house to pick up my grandfather, my dad was super angry, so he did it, the two couples beat my dad together, and said that my dad didn't raise my grandpa, my grandpa was biased towards them, when my grandma died before, the two of them kept scolding and quarreling, my grandpa felt right, and said that my dad and my grandma didn't come early when they left, obviously my dad called ** to contact them, and now to their mouths, they all did it, and they were also drunk, I don't know what it means to raise, the monthly water and electricity bills, the annual TV bills, and the monthly medicine bills are all borne by my dad, and my dad went to dispense the medicine, but the chain has been rented until now, but he said that my dad had not raised him, and he took all the demolition money to his daughter. My dad went to accompany me when I was sick before, and the two daughters came and left after a while during the day, and now that they have money, they say that they will raise them.

My grandfather also favored them and followed.

People are partial and use their own things to make up for it, which is no way to do it, and some things can't be obtained by hard work.

My dad has three sisters, an aunt at the top and an uncle at the bottom. My uncle died in a car accident when he was 30 years old, and his son (my cousin) was only one or two years old at the time. The aunt got married later, and the cousin was almost brought up by the grandparents.

Although the grandparents are patriarchal, their uncles and cousins are very good and upright people.

My grandfather retired as a railway station manager and retired before the age of 50 in order for my uncle to take over his job, so the retirement salary was not much. But this is an important reason why he is empty-eyed, no matter who he is, what age he is, he scolds whenever he wants, my grandmother is the direct victim, scolding and beating are commonplace. The relatives at home have been offended all over again, even if they come to visit, they will drink a cup of tea and leave, for fear of igniting the dynamite barrel!

Our family lives in the town, and my grandparents and my cousin live in a house in the city.

Every year we would pass the Chinese New Year, but Grandma never came back to see us and never got anything from them.

After graduating from college, my parents bought a house to bring my grandparents back, but since then there has been no peace in the family! At first, I saw that my mother was not pleasing to the eye, and I found all kinds of faults, but then I directly said that my mother didn't go to work to eat his and live with him, and my mother was so angry that she lived directly in my house.

A few months ago, I said that my father stole the 50,000 yuan, and called my aunt and cousin back to say that he would administer justice. Obviously, at that time, I said that I would buy a house for my father and cousin!

My dad was angry and immediately returned it to him, but it was really sad, it was the first time I saw my dad crying so sadly. I really hate my grandpa!

The Mid-Autumn Festival burned on my uncle, and my aunt and uncle who were close to me often came to see my grandparents. However, that day, grandpa didn't know what was crazy again, and scolded his uncle directly! Later, our family went directly to my uncle's house for the Mid-Autumn Festival, let him go by himself!

Even the only cousin who had never been scolded went to his aunt's house together, and I don't know how he felt when he was alone.

We usually don't dare to stay at home with our children, for fear that he will get angry and scare the children again, hey! It is said that if there is a treasure in the family, we really can't afford this treasure!

That's a matter between adults, don't meddle. You just do your part, you are good enough, and grandpa will naturally see you.

In real life, parental partiality does exist, and the resulting tragedy is not uncommon.

For example, there was a news report that a man refused to support his sick parents because he felt that his parents were partial to his younger brother. But you must not be unfilial because of grandpa's partiality, this is a very incorrect psychology.

In a family with many children, when a child thinks that his parents are biased, or even jealous of his siblings, it is easy to hold a grudge in his heart. In fact, partiality is not right, but you should still have an open-minded heart, you make yourself excellent, you will naturally be favored by the elders, as for grandpa likes uncle or your father, it is a matter between adults, you don't have to take it to heart.

Parents are a very powerful position for all children. They have everything and decide everything. If parents give love to their children, then children have love.

How can parents withdraw their love, then the child will be left with barrenness. If a child is not around when they need their parents the most, or if their love is too harsh and too conditional, the child will be angry with their parents. Behind the anger, there is also the powerlessness and sadness of not being loved.

When a child is jealous of his siblings and complains about his parents' partiality, there is anger behind it, fear of losing love, helplessness and deep sadness. Over time, these negative emotions will become a wound and imprinted into the background of the child's personality.

They may have problems with their relationships. There may be problems with emotional management. But at the end of the day, as long as they complain about their parents, they can't really have an independent life.

Many old people have patriarchal thoughts, there are granddaughters and grandchildren at home, and they naturally like boys more, whether boys do right or wrong, obedient or naughty, it is not a problem for the elderly, they are more doting. And even if the girl does a good job, she will not please the old man. Therefore, you don't have to mind what the elderly do, just do what you have to do, after all, a person's love is still obtained from their parents, as long as their parents care about themselves and love themselves.

Grandma's eccentricity is also through some psychological comparisons, there are more grandchildren, some are excellent and some are good to her, some are more disobedient and ignorant or make their parents angry, the old people are measured in their hearts, so if they do make more mistakes in some aspects among their brothers and sisters, then they don't like grandma. Therefore, seriously correct your own faults and learn more from your brothers and sisters who perform well, your progress will bring joy to grandma and encourage yourself. Only through one's own efforts can one win the respect and love of others.

We are an ancient country of etiquette, and the old people have a strong sense of etiquette, and modern society is increasingly ignoring these things. The old man still likes to know how to be polite and filial to the elderly's children, so when getting along with grandma, you must learn to respect the elders, greet the elderly, get along with others politely and understand etiquette, do what you can at grandma, do little things for a long time, grandma will look at it, after all, it is her grandchildren, and relatives will not give up.

No matter who Grandma prefers, there is no need to dwell on it, everyone has done nothing wrong, it is just a preference. Be clear about whether you want more love from your grandmother, or if you are jealous of other siblings, or if you don't get the same material conditions as your grandmother. But no matter what it is, don't compare jealousy and resentment to any of them, what you want needs to be obtained through labor and hard work, live seriously, respect others, and love yourself, so that you can be independent and strong in your heart.

Many of us hope that the people around us will love and pay more attention to themselves, but we don't feel that in fact, the people around us who love more will be happier and happier, and others will care about you in the same way and return your love. Therefore, don't just get love from grandma, love friends and family around you seriously, even a stranger, the greetings and care you give will be rewarded, so you must open the window of your heart to accept everyone, and there will be no lack of love in your heart.

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To each his own, just have less contact. My idea is that no matter what, they are elders, and if they are eccentric, they should stay away, and don't think so much, my grandparents are an example, they prefer their aunts and uncles' families, and they almost don't care about our family, anyway, I should give money for the New Year's holiday, and I will leave after a meal, it is the first time to be a person, there is no need to let myself be wronged, and there is no need to be more serious with them.

My grandmother has three sons and is biased towards the other two. My dad is the eldest son and thinks he should take care of everything, so my grandparents are biased and blatant. To give a few examples that can be thought of in a short period of time, first, my grandparents' house was demolished, and our family owed 2 million to the family due to the failure of our business, but they gave all the demolition money to my uncle's family.

Second, when my parents were busiest at work, I was eight years old, no one to take with me, it had reached the point where I had no food, my father asked my grandmother to take care of me, she stayed for a week and went back by herself, and then ran to my uncle to take care of the child in less than a month, as for how I survived, it is thanks to my third aunt's father-in-law and mother-in-law and my grandmother's cousin.

Grandma is an old man after all, so even if she is partial to her uncle's family, you can't blame and preach, you just need to focus on your own life.

Grandma has her own favorite children, it is difficult for you as a junior to change this fact, as long as grandma does not do excessive things and does not touch the interests of her own family, I think you don't care, just live your own life.

At this time, you should understand grandma even more, because the older generation's thinking itself is more paranoid and single.

Grandma's eccentricity can't be helped, usually communicate with grandma more feelings, do what she likes, and see if you can change grandma's eccentricity.

You should understand grandma, although this will make the family feel uncomfortable, but after all, grandma is old, so cherish the time with her.

I don't think you need to mind your grandma's opinion too much, you just need to make your family better and better.

I think you can only pretend not to know about this situation, don't mind these things, it's okay if your grandma doesn't like you, as long as your parents like you.

Hello dear, in this case, it is common, even the children born to the grandparents themselves are not necessarily particularly fair love. First, grandparents may be more partial to their uncle's province, so their uncle's children look at it differently. Second, the main reason is that the uncle's children grew up with their grandparents, so he has a deep affection for the children of his uncle's family.

Third, the main reason is that I have entanglements in my heart, and I always feel that my grandparents are different from the children below, so I have always had resentment in my heart, but grandparents! Actually, I didn't have any thoughts about the child.