Which of the two girls should you choose? Be realistic

I don't understand whether you like B's family or B's person, maybe you're a career-oriented man, and you don't seem to care much about anything else in this life except material things. But I don't understand how your girlfriend's family can affect you to change cars? Do you want to rely on your girlfriend's family to prosper?

Whoever has anything is not as good as yourself, no matter how good your girlfriend's family is, it is someone else's, maybe they will give you some support, but there is no free lunch in the world, and any harvest will have a price. I think this is the difference in personal worldview and values, you are a person who values material things and not feelings. But don't forget that money is not everything, some things are just feelings, and money can't buy them.

If you value the material aspect so much, why not strive for it according to your own ability. Young people must figure out what is the most precious, so as not to regret it when they are older, and it will be too late to correct it.

After reading your introduction, I found that you only compared the material aspects of the two girls, and it didn't look like you were choosing a wife, but like you were doing business. In fact, you are ignoring another major aspect of marriage and family life - emotions. If there is no emotional basis in family life, even if there is no material stress, there will be constant troubles.

What's more, your own material conditions are not bad, so there is no need to change your choice just for money. Another point is that in your introduction, you don't see that other A girls or parents are interested in you, don't engage in "unrequited love" for a long time.

Feelings are a lifelong thing, love, you really don't understand, since you are so materialistic, then you better let go of your current girlfriend, you can't give her happiness, what is the harm you didn't send a good car? Could it be that your girlfriend is responsible for changing the car? If you have the money to change your car, it's none of her business, although people should be realistic, but you're really too much.

I don't think it's good for people like you, if one day you are abandoned by others, then you will be very pitiful,,, as a passerby I have nothing to say, I am a girl, I am lucky and quite lucky, because fortunately I don't know you!

A is better, and you can tolerate it when you get married in the future, and B is good, but I haven't been in contact with it.

It's my words, and the one who chooses to love me doesn't want to choose the one I love!!

It is recommended that you choose the second category, which personally believes that only feelings can have a strong marriage.

The gold and silver mountains are not enough to spend, and the money they earn is good.

The process of making money is like building a house, adding bricks and tiles, and the process of spending money is like **, no matter how long you have built a house, it can collapse in an instant!

A man like you is too bad to want, if I were your woman, I would find that person to tell him about the situation, and the two women would not want you, this is your result.

Just handle it carefully, don't let your b girlfriend be too sad, some people are in a hurry to do everything, handle it carefully and properly.

Are there many men like this, dizzy, do you like people, or money,

1. Compare the pros and cons of how many children there are.

If there is only one child, the family will be relatively financially well-off, and the pressure on parents will be less. If there are two children at home, because someone has to take care of Xiaobao at home, the financial pressure will be greater, and more energy will need to be put into taking care of the baby in the years before the child goes to kindergarten. If there is only one child in the family, if something happens to the child, the parents will have to bear a greater mental blow.

If you have two children at home, it is relatively equivalent to spreading the risk. There is only one child in the family, and the child is used to being the little sun in the family, and he will appear more self-conscious. If you have two children at home, the children are generally better at sharing.

There is only one child in the family, and when he grows up, he has to take on more, because he enjoys all the love, so he has to take all the responsibility. There are two children in the family, and the two children grow up together, and when the parents are old and sick, the two children can help each other and support each other.

2. Comprehensive analysis of the external environment.

First, look at the mother-in-law. After all, most of the mother-in-law in the family holds the power of "life and death", if the mother-in-law does not have the idea of patriarchy, then even if there are two girls or two boys in the family, or both children and daughters, it is not a big problem. There is no need to worry about the mother-in-law having a special preference for the child.

If the mother-in-law is willing to take care of the child for you, she can also do her best, be reasonable, and be considerate of the daughter-in-law. However, in addition to the mother-in-law's side, as a daughter-in-law, you must also do your own thing, so that you can have both.

Secondly, it depends on the husband. Joining the husband is very powerful, he is a person who can do things and adjust, so even if your mother-in-law is unreasonable, as a husband, you can resolve it, which can make your mother-in-law happy and your wife happy. Handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and your mother-in-law will naturally be willing to help you take care of your children.

Finally, it depends on the father-in-law. If there is already a mother-in-law who is not easy to mess with at home, if you are a father-in-law, you will have a small belly and chicken intestines, and there are a lot of trivial things, and if you join forces with your mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law can only be more angry, comparable to a powder keg, one is more fried than the other.

So in addition to the appeal of these issues, the couple's economic strength and family strength cannot be ignored, to put it bluntly, it is the strength of the family. Even if you are a good family with a prosperous family, if you don't have money, how can you raise children together, especially if you have a second child, a boy, and a boy, it is undoubtedly adding fuel to the fire. Of course, if you have high hopes for your family's future income expectations, you can have a few children.

Summary. In fact, if you like a girl, if you really like it, then you will definitely accept her, and if you really love this girl, then you will accept everything about her, including his children.

There are two women, one woman is more suitable but has a girl, and the other is not suitable for a woman but has no children.

In fact, if you like a certain female boy God, then if you really like it, then you will definitely accept him, if you really love this girl, then you will accept everything he has, including his children.

And on the other hand, I can sense that you don't like children, at least you don't like other people's children.

If you have such a buckle in this regard, if you can't get by, I think you can slowly overcome this piece by yourself, and for a woman you don't like, even if it's your own child, then your quality of life will be very poor in the end.

You said that you can still choose to think about it, well, the girl you like, this child is not yours, I think the room is not yours, but there is a third choice for you to get promoted, that is, you can find someone who likes Qiyu quietly and laughs, and he doesn't have children, so it should be the best, so you can choose neither girl, so it's up to you to consider it.

But I'm over 40 years old, and I'm not very rich, it's not easy to find a suitable one without children, I've also been divorced, but I don't have children.

Yes, my false grandson understands you, but Hongxian is your reputation, remember, if this girl is very suitable, I don't think it matters, why, if this girl is suitable, she also likes you, he will be with you for the rest of his life, it doesn't matter.

So as a brother, in fact, your perception is that you can improve it by talking about things, don't be limited to what I want, what he wants, but you have to find a suitable one for yourself, whether it is suitable for you, for example, just like shoes, whether it is comfortable or not, only the feet know, and in addition, you have to find a suitable one, not a certain condition.