I was in college and my boyfriend said he wanted to stay with me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's better to call him ** and say that you don't need to come over, because your emotions are because you don't adapt to the environment, because it's a new place, just wait to get familiar with your classmates. If it had come, that mess would have been harder and more painful than it is now. Don't live together, don't become someone else's woman when you're a girl, but also learn knowledge, you're just starting out, how can you have the energy to deal with those married things.

    And either you drop out of school and go to find a partner to marry, or you study hard, you think, if you don't have the status of a college student, if you delay your studies because of cohabitation, will he still want you?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Then don't let him come, refuse, don't think that it won't happen when it comes, it's difficult, it's better to refuse from the source, be tactful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's put it directly, lovers still have to be honest with each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you're so bored ... I want to talk to someone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't help it, you can handle it yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This boy doesn't look very reliable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There's nothing tangled up in some ways This is a good thing from some angles This is the best way to test your feelings Second, you are in love and want to be together This is also what ordinary people think, but to be together you must have the conditions and capital to be together Education is a stepping stone You can't even find a job, what kind of car and house.

    3.Love has a shelf life, once that period has passed, what about when you don't want to be together? What should you do?

    4.The fact that he can make such a low-level request shows that he is a man without vision and still needs to be experienced, and it also shows that he is very selfish, does not know how to live and love, and lacks a sense of planning.

    5.I have lost too many good opportunities because I have no academic qualifications, and I hope you can cherish them.

    6.Love is built on many conditions Pure love will only arise at your age And there are stages Think about it simply, if he really loves you, he will wait for you When you graduate, use the knowledge you have learned to help his career One has courage and experience, and the other has an education and knows how to plan Isn't this a perfect match But if you give up your studies for him What if you have a bad day Eat youth rice? How many years can you eat?

    How many years from now? This opportunity to go to school will never come and love is not the same Not to mention the so-called love you are now I can be sure that there will be a great degree of contrast with your understanding of love Listen to the opinions of people who have come before Don't let you regret your life because of your willfulness.

    Cherish the hope that it will help you Cherish this opportunity to go to college (as a test of your relationship).

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he really loves you, then how can he not think about your future? Also, your own heart is the most important thing, and you can do whatever you want. The heart is your own, you are his master, he will only give you answers, he will not give advice for others, so your heart must be right.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After separating this time, you are not far from breaking up, and you can endure the complex social relationships like society in college? Did your boyfriend endure an ambiguous relationship in society? But all that aside, since a man can make you give up studying to accompany him, what can he guarantee to give you in the future?

    Although it is as difficult to get a job in college now, you have to give up your future for a man who doesn't know if you can be together? Think for yourself! Let's just say that your boyfriend is very selfish.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. Your boyfriend is too unmotivated, and it will be difficult for such a person to give you any happiness in the future. You'd better advise him to repeat it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can't lose your opportunities and degenerate yourself for the sake of the private relationship between men and women.

    In any case, your future is the most important thing, and everything else gives way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You must remember not to delay your life's future because of love, and remember that one misstep will become a thousand hatreds.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If your boyfriend loves you, he should let you go to college and find another boyfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's up to you. Personally, I think it's better to continue reading. You let him work first. When you're done reading, let's live together. 、

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Can't give up on going to college! If your boyfriend loves you, I don't think he would want you to give up...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better to stick to school, after all, you don't just have a boyfriend in your life, think about it, if your boyfriend is sincere to you, he won't let you give up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For the sake of his own future, break up with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can let him go to work in the city where you go to school, or you can let him repeat his studies for a year and go to school with you, and someone can say 100% that going to school is the only way out, but it's a pity to give up this opportunity.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend is too selfish, I think you should study, if he is really good for you, he should support you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This can only be your own decision, depending on what you want, there is still a chance to fall in love when you go to college, and there may be better development space when you go to college, of course, many college students now have those who are not working, sometimes they think that college is in vain, mainly depends on yourself, and others talk about it does not work.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    For the sake of your future, let's go to school, otherwise you will really regret it later.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm 3 years old, I'm still single, I have the opportunity to get in touch, at least I'm still good at reading.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You let that man it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he really loves you, there is nothing to be afraid of, but you must know that true true love is not easy to find.

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