It turns out how terrible the use of feelings is 5

There's one person who always pays attention to your joys and sorrows, but this time he chose not to speak.

So all you can do is keep your inherent pride in silence, as you did in the first sentence.

For this fruitless, hopeless love, time will let it fade away.

Or you leave this sad place and choose not to see each other again.

Or turn a blind eye to him and face it calmly.

Through the introduction of Hikoshun Kyoto, I met a man's Yingfeng. Yanshun's family background is very good. Parents are businessmen, not big bosses, but can be said to be middle class.

After the blind date, Yongbong was lukewarm to Yan Shun, but Yan Shun felt very much about him. They meet occasionally, and when they chat, Yanshun basically takes the initiative to find him. When Yanshun finds it difficult to hold on to the idea of giving up, Youngbong suddenly becomes enthusiastic about her.

Words and deeds are somewhat flattered. Think that the so-called persistence is victory. Soon after, Yongbong asked Yanshun.

Didn't your uncle be the vice president of Bank A? "Yan Shun said yes. Youngbong said with some embarrassment.

I have a distant cousin Xiaoya who works in Bank A, and I also know that it is difficult to compile now. Can I ask uncle? May I ask if there is a chance that a situation like a child will be corrected?

Yan Soon usually doesn't bother his uncle because of private matters, but in order to consolidate his relationship with Young-bong, he wants to help Xiao'er. My uncle told Yanshun that the bank has a lot of dispatch staff (i.e., informal staffing) like children, and especially good people can correct it. He went to see Xiao'er's performance, and although it met the standard, it was not excellent.

In a word, although the positive basic conditions were met, they did not stand out.

Yan Soon told Youngbong what he had said, and was disappointed to see him. Yan Shun said: "The performance of children is now at the middle and lower level among dispatch employees.

In fact, if she doesn't come out on top, her performance can rise to a serious injury, and I will be even more energetic if I seek help from my uncle. "Children come from other places and don't have many resources, so how easy it is to improve performance," Youngbong said.

"Anyway, there is a garden change every year, so let's work hard from now on," Yan Shun said. It's man-made.

Yanshun is a very smart girl, she has been exposed to it since she was a child, and she has a wide range of knowledge. She mobilized all her relatives and friends to help the child. The words and deeds of making more friends really helped Xiao'er improve his performance to a medium level, which impressed Yingfeng.

No one knows how Yan Shun, who looked like a cloudy wind, roared that day. She firmly believes that love should not only be felt, but should be associated with principles and bottom lines. Winters are unbearably cold and unbearable.

Like a wounded heart, as long as the wounded person is firm in his faith, all things will be restored, the earth will be warmed, and the cold heart can wait for the dry trees to usher in spring. I hope mine can help you, and I also hope you can help me**, like, support me more, and follow me more. If you have any questions and requests, you can leave a message in the comment area, and I will reply one by one.

If you find that your feelings are being taken advantage of, the best thing to do is to get rid of them quickly and not indulge in them, because this is purely a waste of time and feelings. Learn to be good to yourself, that's the most important thing.

If you find that your feelings are being used, of course, you will break up immediately, turn around and leave. In the face of someone who uses feelings, you can't stay with him for a second longer, you can't be soft-hearted, don't think about listening to his explanation, he will only fool you.

Be sure to end this relationship immediately, stop losses in time, minimize your damage, and stay away from scumbags.

You should take the initiative to let go of this relationship. Because in this relationship, you are the one who is being taken advantage of, so you must stop the loss in time.

I think if you meet some scheming people, the best way is to stay away from them, because for you, you can't fight people at all.

After discovering that your feelings are being used, you should immediately cut off the relationship with the other person, and don't have any more contact with such a person in the future.

Then just give up this relationship, never have this relationship again, just forget about it.

In fact, the best way is to get out of the relationship, let go of the relationship, and also face this matter with an optimistic attitude, you must learn from this experience.

When you find that you are being used, you must give up this relationship in time, and you must stay away from each other in time, so that you can effectively protect yourself.

If I find out that my feelings are being used, I will leave without looking back, and then tell the people around me, especially the opposite sex around the boy, and I don't want others to be used like me.

Now that you know that your feelings are being used and consumed, then you can take it when you see it, and don't let your feelings continue to be used.

A lot of people like to ask questions about recovery chances, but I don't. It's hard for me to give a number for this kind of thing, only one feeling. But feelings are often the words of a family, and all experiences can be overturned.

However, since everyone wants to know, the staging is vague even without accurate data. Whether it can be redeemed depends on the attitude of the other party, so this is undoubtedly in the third stage. The first and second stages are easily distinguished.

Willing to reply to your messages, occasionally take the initiative to say a lot, so many rescuers judge that they want to get back together. But after the initiative, rejected and even alienated. A lot of people don't understand why.

The most important thing is to see if the other party is not proactive enough. It will take the initiative to chat with the invitation, and the higher the initiative, the more frequent it is, and the closer it is to the third stage. It is important to note that both men and women should be treated here.

If a girl will take the initiative to do this after a breakup, and when a boy takes the initiative, the idea in his heart may be that this woman is not suitable for the object, but it is okay to sleep.

Boys' initiative does not necessarily mean that they are getting closer and closer to stage three. Try to invite, try to make gradual physical contact, try to take the initiative to talk about some emotional topics, and see how the other person reacts. If they don't resist, it can basically be judged as the third stage.

Among them, the physical contact between men and women is different. The fact that a woman does not resist after trying physical contact often does not mean anything. On the contrary, the chances are great.

The reason is the same as just mentioned.

What should you do to have a better chance of a successful recovery after knowing what stage you are in? At each stage, after a clear categorization, different objectives and practices should be applied. The goal of the first stage is naturally to put yourself in the other partner's considerations.

It is suitable for occasionally brushing the sense of presence, waiting for the window, and accompanying its own changes and value enhancement in the process. Efforts should be made to get closer to the third stage. When you can get in touch, do more self-presentation, build attraction, and be careful not to mention compounding rashly.

If you find such a situation, don't go with the other party anymore, and if you already know the real situation, you should choose to let go in time.

If you find that you are being used, you should stop the loss in time as soon as possible, break up with the other party, and don't make mistakes again and again.

You should break up immediately, because you don't want such a relationship, you must stop the loss in time and protect yourself.