What is it like to enter middle age and still feel like you have achieved nothing?

I'm 29 this year, I have nothing but a house with a monthly payment and a first-class builder to get next year, see you here, don't ask the house I bought in **, in a third-tier city, the monthly salary is not enough to pay off the mortgage, this year I'm 29, the dream of college is getting farther and farther away from me, more and more blurred, goodbye, my youth!

Thirty years old and still have achieved nothing, it means that you have not found the right direction, many times it is not because we are not hard enough, not smart enough, often we forget to think when we are working hard, so it is said that the direction is not right, and the effort is in vain. At the age of thirty, we still can't achieve anything, and more often than not, we have to find the reason from ourselves.

If you are middle-aged and have achieved nothing, you will be very discouraged, and you will even break the jar, so if you are still young, you must work hard.

I thought I was middle-aged, but I still didn't achieve anything, because I didn't achieve anything, so I basically didn't dare to contact my former classmates, and I didn't dare to participate in the reunion between classmates.

I would say that if you're thirty years old and you're still not accomplishing anything, you're going to be under a lot of pressure! These pressures come from all aspects of life and work, in life, you have to support your family, run for the livelihood of your family, and at work, your energy is not as good as that of the post-90s, and your qualifications are not as good as the post-70s. All of this is like sleeping under a quilt that makes you breathless.

As the post-80s generation, the pressure is unprecedented, this is caused by the times, I want to get married, my daughter-in-law is not easy to find, I want to buy a house, the house price is crawling on the Internet, and the house can't afford it, so let's buy a car first, I'm sorry, the license plate lottery, one day it will shake you, I can't guarantee it.

Heavy, depressing, frightened, restless. The mentality of being in a hurry to get rid of it but unable to get out, and wanting to prove it but only in vain, is unknown to those who have not experienced it.

I'm almost thirty, continue to stay, that's what it is, the leadership seat is full, it won't be my turn, and I don't want to be so constrained. If I'm still selling cars on the thirtieth day, I feel like I look down on myself. It's not that I discriminate against this profession, after all, I also eat youth, and I don't want to choose to wait for customers in the exhibition hall so comfortably at the age of adventure.

I want to buy a car, pull something by myself and save money, at least I am free, at least I can work harder.

Thirty-one years old! It's really old and young. There is no car and no money in the house.

At this moment, it is more important to reflect on the days that I have come all the way. The longest job I have done is six years, and I have been living a comfortable life, but unfortunately the world has changed too fast, and there is indeed a hurdle in my heart. But the road ahead is vast, there is no light to shine, or only to explore their own path in real work.

In desperation, I had to look for a job again. However, I believe that in the days to come, it is ...... to choose a job that suits you and go down slowlyLet's slowly step into the middle age!

Don't be discouraged, life has just begun, if you have a diploma, go for a job, don't keep jumping, you have to work hard there, if you don't have it, find a skilled job first, don't want to be a good boss, big bosses come step by step.

I will feel that my life has been in vain, and I will spend every day in regret.