I feel like I m getting nothing, why am I doing nothing?

Don't say that, since you know your own shortcomings and the direction of your efforts, you should work harder. If there is a lion chasing you and another person in a forest, you don't have to run the fastest, but you must run faster than him, no matter how hard you try. So you don't have to do the best, but you should be better than your peers.

And you're in the United States right now, bringing glory to your country... SUPPORT YOU ...

I think that whether it is a business or a business, it will always be unsuccessful, and it will be defeated again and again, that is, it will not make money by doing anything, and I will not have confidence after a long time, and it must be that my mental state will not be better. One of my eldest brothers is a carpenter, making wood samples, turning sand, turning, electrical welding, looking at pictures, etc., and he has opened a cloth shoe factory, a chicken factory, a hatchery, a sand turning factory, a tap water antifreeze hydrant factory, a wood sample factory, a firecracker factory, a furniture door and window factory, a roast chicken factory, etc. The factories he opened were all set up by himself, and a lot of the equipment was all made by himself, and it didn't cost much money at all.

The factories he founded were very successful, and they all produced products, and their sales were okay. But I don't know if it's not good, or what's the reason, anyway, he just didn't make money, although he has opened a lot of factories, but what to do to lose money, either the factory closed down or changed production, stopped production, in short, he didn't make any money, the factory lost money, there was nothing left, and he owed a lot of foreign debts, which led to the factory and equipment, including the house where he lived, to be repaid off by others. At that time, his state of mind was indescribable, he didn't eat, drink, or sleep, just like a madman, he didn't want to see anyone, and even wanted to die.

In the end, I couldn't stay at home, so I said I went to Shenyang in the northeast. In addition, because he can do everything, everyone gave him the nickname Magnum, because he lost too much money at the end, and everyone said that he was nine thousand nine.

We can't help but feel good about ourselves, just like the famous survey, 90 percent of drivers feel that their skills are above average, and 90 percent feel that their appearance is above average.

If you don't throw yourself to the test in a real and brutal arena, you never know where the boundaries of your true abilities are, so we always make one plan after another that looks beautiful, and then miss all the plans perfectly again and again through various reasons such as procrastination, anxiety, and exhaustion syndrome.

Before we made a plan, we all felt that we could accomplish these things, and we all felt that we had to push ourselves, and then when we did it, we silently scolded ourselves and said that it was impossible for anyone to do so much. It's like when we think in the afternoon, why do we have to finish this book in the evening, even if we stay up late? There will be so many nights to sleep!

also used the phrase "after death will sleep by itself" to motivate himself, and then at three o'clock in the middle of the night, when infinite sleepiness hit, the thought of getting up at seven o'clock the next day, all thoughts were lost, especially in the morning when the alarm went off, and I wanted to strangle myself who made the decision to stay up late the afternoon before.

That's why Bill Gates's quote makes perfect sense, that is, "We always overestimate the changes in the next one to two years and underestimate the changes that are likely to occur in the next ten years".

All this is caused by our mentality of "time is running out", "seizing the day", "greedy and anxious", we always feel that something needs a five-year cycle to see a little effect, too slow, and at the beginning of the new year, we want to do a lot of things in the next year, doing a lot of things is equivalent to doing everything, and then we can't do anything well, and we don't get anything done.

I'm sure many of us spend our college careers in such a tangled, contradictory, messy cycle where we look as if we have done a lot of things, but then we look like we have done nothing.

When I graduated from my Ph.D. and looked back on my study career in the past ten years, I found that I didn't seem to have done anything, but fortunately there was a fairly good undergraduate and doctoral degree that could give an explanation for the past ten years, and this kind of explanation seemed so mediocre and boring, and the most shocking thought for me at that moment was that there were still two degrees to endorse me in the past ten years, and when I graduated, there was no degree that could be obtained by going through a stage in peace. How can I make sure I don't look back on the past few years and feel like I wasted my time.

Why haven't I achieved anything so far? This question kept coming up in my mind, but I rarely had time to calm down and think about it. It wasn't until one day, when my brother broke his leg, that I had a little time to think about my past.

I summarize the following three points:

The first is greed, and sometimes one's greed is something that you can't detect. Everyone wants to succeed and everyone wants to live a better life. I do the same, with a motivated heart.

I wanted to learn everything, and learning dance would not only increase my social skills, but also increase my social networking, so I taught myself a little bit, and I felt that it was too painful, so I gave up. I want to learn to write, but I feel like I have nothing to write every day, and I can't write, from elementary school to high school, my composition has always been the worst, and I may not even be able to pass the pole, so I insisted on writing for two months and gave up again. Later, I thought about it or learn to speak, I practiced in front of the mirror for a month, I felt that I was not the material to learn speech, my mouth was very stupid, and sometimes even normal communication was not smooth, and I gave up again.

There are so many things I want to learn, and every time I learn a little here and there, and in the end I don't learn anything. When I think about it, I always feel that something is wrong, I think too much every day, and everything is shallow. In the end, nothing came of it.

I'm like the monkey who broke the cob in a cornfield, and I couldn't pick out the best one. Empty-handed, nothing.

Second, I don't know what I need, and I feel like I'm doing a lot of things every day. I do whatever others feel is good, but because I don't know what I need, I end up doing nothing. When I was in high school, everyone thought that science was good, so I chose science, and everyone thought that being a teacher was bad, so I resolutely did not want to be a teacher.

Now that you think about it, everyone has their own ambitions. Studying liberal arts should also be very good, such as Lao Luo, who thinks logically; He also did a great job as a teacher, and Yu Minhong also listed his own New Oriental in the United States. Turns out to know what it takes to get things done.

Find out what you need, mobilize your enthusiasm, and do one thing well.

Third, I don't know what is most important and what is more important. I am busy at work every day, and I feel that the progress is not as fast as other colleagues, and now I think about it carefully, I can not do good things, and there is no need to do it in person. In this way, not only did I waste my time, but I also wasted my energy.

Putting the most important time on the most important things is the principle that should be followed. Every day we should think about what is most important and what is more important, and that is what we really need to spend energy to do well. After all, each of us has a limited amount of time, and everyone's life is very short, so you can grow by spending your limited time on the most important things.

In the next step, according to the footsteps of Mr. Liu Xuan, lay a good foundation for yourself. Cultivate the ability to think and be good at analysis. Use your limited time for more important things. I'm a doctor and I want to grow too.